To us, age will never be a factor. Nor will race as we are a mixed couple. We do not judge anybody whether it be income, location, etc. We only want them to be compatible both in and out of bed, nice to get along with, respectful of us as we will be of them and definitely, drug & disease free.
When my (his) ex and I got into the lifestyle in our 20's, we did not want to meet with anybody older than 40. After we started attending parties and socials, we found that couples over 40 knew a lot more about the lifestyle and experience went a LONG way with us!!!!!!!!
So, age is never a factor for us. In fact, as my new wife and I have found, the younger couples don't have as much experience as we would like.
When my (his) ex and I got into the lifestyle in our 20's, we did not want to meet with anybody older than 40. After we started attending parties and socials, we found that couples over 40 knew a lot more about the lifestyle and experience went a LONG way with us!!!!!!!!
So, age is never a factor for us. In fact, as my new wife and I have found, the younger couples don't have as much experience as we would like.
Age is just a number....
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A word of advice... try to search the forums about a week or so back before posting a topic. This topic was brought up recently, <i>two times</i>. Not trying to be a dick, just trying to help keep things in order.
http://www.swingular.com/post.php?action=view&PID=3461&TID=8
http://www.swingular.com/post.php?action=view&PID=4451&TID=8
Cheesehead,
It's a number and individual preference. Someone is too old for you, when their age causes them to be unattractive to you. Everyone's tastes vary. It's life.
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A word of advice... try to search the forums about a week or so back before posting a topic. This topic was brought up recently, <i>two times</i>. Not trying to be a dick, just trying to help keep things in order.
http://www.swingular.com/post.php?action=view&PID=3461&TID=8
http://www.swingular.com/post.php?action=view&PID=4451&TID=8
Cheesehead,
It's a number and individual preference. Someone is too old for you, when their age causes them to be unattractive to you. Everyone's tastes vary. It's life.
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TR, I tried the search function in Vista, XP, Linux (Firefox) and Powerbook... It doesn't work.
When married I was 30 and her 32. We thought younger was better... then we had experiences and decided 25-45 was our prime age group. Older than that was an option if the attraction was there. I see dropping off the scene in the 40s... I don't want to be the old creepy one. 
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No need for the "search function". They are within the first two pages of the "lifestyle questions" or "lifestyle talk" sections. It's only a suggestion, it just saves on the redundacy and would help for threads like, "Do you fuck single males or not" and other such threads that come up 4-5 times a month.
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No need for the "search function". They are within the first two pages of the "lifestyle questions" or "lifestyle talk" sections. It's only a suggestion, it just saves on the redundacy and would help for threads like, "Do you fuck single males or not" and other such threads that come up 4-5 times a month.
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well, im 24, I have played with slightly younger then to as well as a bit older then me. My view is this. Age is of no value, except to the point alot of older women really turn me on(mid 30's) its not there age age that tends to turn people off but how they carry it. I have noticed people say they have a problem with age differances cause its like fooling around with there kids or there parents, wichever way it may be. Everybody is free to there own opinion though. I just done think age is an issue for me at all.
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I have met several older gentlemen that I have thought were attractive, as well as a few younger men. My experience has proven that the older crowd tends to be more my type due to the maturity level. I can't usually connect with a younger person which is very important to me if I am going to play with them.
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I have met several older gentlemen that I have thought were attractive, as well as a few younger men. My experience has proven that the older crowd tends to be more my type due to the maturity level. I can't usually connect with a younger person which is very important to me if I am going to play with them.
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Age is a factor to us. Since Jim & I are in our mid to early 50's - we are not attracted to couples in their 20's. Maybe that's because we have kids in their 20's, or we just don't have anything in common with people so young. We do prefer couples 35 years or older!
Just our preference.....
Just our preference.....
"Age is an issue of Mind over Matter, if you don't Mind it doesn't Matter"
Mark Twain
We always say that age is just the number of years you have been on the earth. Some look young (when they are older) and act young, some look young and act very mature, and visa versa to both of those. The fact is most we have met in the lifestyle "AGE" does matter and this is an issue. It would be good to hear from REAL YOUNG people in their 20's as to their opinion here, we already know how the older people feel they try to get whatever they can. LOL
As we noted before in a prior post, it seems to change at age 30. Those that are under that age seem to have a more active open sexualness with friends of their age that was "Taboo" to visit or fire to play with for us when we were younger. Therefore, they seem to be able to have some fun experiences (and fantasies accomplished) with young hotties and can get what they want because there are others of their same age and that are sexy as well, so they tend to be more selective about older people unless they look damn good and are "hard bodies". There also seems to be more BI-Curious women that are "open and out there" (and because it is more accepted now to show that side and desire the experiences), in their teens and 20's now more then we remember when we were younger.
After age 30 (give or take, as we have noticed) we see that life experiences and generally maturity takes over, and they look to get to know you for who you are and not really your age, (if it is in resonable range - LOL). We find as was said the finer things in life come out and appreciation is genuine from the older group. BUT LOOKS still matter at that point and if you really look younger then you are the better and more chances you get in the lifestyle is seems. However, if you have something to offer others in a great fun friendship (in our out of the bedroom) with common interests, then things "appear" to be good.
As many noted before on the other post (a few weeks back), there are a lot of older hotties that take care of themselves and look GREAT. We have met many older then us, and you can't believe they are really as old as they say they are, as they are very sexy and FUN!
Mark Twain
We always say that age is just the number of years you have been on the earth. Some look young (when they are older) and act young, some look young and act very mature, and visa versa to both of those. The fact is most we have met in the lifestyle "AGE" does matter and this is an issue. It would be good to hear from REAL YOUNG people in their 20's as to their opinion here, we already know how the older people feel they try to get whatever they can. LOL
As we noted before in a prior post, it seems to change at age 30. Those that are under that age seem to have a more active open sexualness with friends of their age that was "Taboo" to visit or fire to play with for us when we were younger. Therefore, they seem to be able to have some fun experiences (and fantasies accomplished) with young hotties and can get what they want because there are others of their same age and that are sexy as well, so they tend to be more selective about older people unless they look damn good and are "hard bodies". There also seems to be more BI-Curious women that are "open and out there" (and because it is more accepted now to show that side and desire the experiences), in their teens and 20's now more then we remember when we were younger.
After age 30 (give or take, as we have noticed) we see that life experiences and generally maturity takes over, and they look to get to know you for who you are and not really your age, (if it is in resonable range - LOL). We find as was said the finer things in life come out and appreciation is genuine from the older group. BUT LOOKS still matter at that point and if you really look younger then you are the better and more chances you get in the lifestyle is seems. However, if you have something to offer others in a great fun friendship (in our out of the bedroom) with common interests, then things "appear" to be good.
As many noted before on the other post (a few weeks back), there are a lot of older hotties that take care of themselves and look GREAT. We have met many older then us, and you can't believe they are really as old as they say they are, as they are very sexy and FUN!
Our experience dictates no one under 30...
The men are to stuck on their own nut to pay any attention to her...
The women are to needy to be able to realize it is sex, not love...
Just our experience...
Let the shit storm begin...
HA HA HA HA
The men are to stuck on their own nut to pay any attention to her...
The women are to needy to be able to realize it is sex, not love...
Just our experience...
Let the shit storm begin...
HA HA HA HA
for us age is ( more her then me ) i think its b/c most people are 10 years or older and she gets turned off b/c her said it reminder her of your mom and dad....
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It differs for everyone. I think a person is too old for you, when you are no longer attracted to them. It's a preference like anything else. I know when that prefer the much old gentleman. I know older women that love young guys. It's preference pure and simple. No one should fault you for what you find or don't find attractive in a person, you can't help it. If they do they're not worth your time. Just remember, no one is too old to be your friend.
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It differs for everyone. I think a person is too old for you, when you are no longer attracted to them. It's a preference like anything else. I know when that prefer the much old gentleman. I know older women that love young guys. It's preference pure and simple. No one should fault you for what you find or don't find attractive in a person, you can't help it. If they do they're not worth your time. Just remember, no one is too old to be your friend.
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We agree with the majority here...as long as we get along and are ATTRACTED to the other couple, it doesnt matter what the number is.
Then there are the people that lie about their age....
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If you are attracted, it shouldn't matter if they "lie" about their age. I don't mind if a lady disguises her age. Does it matter? Age is only a factor if it affects the way a person looks or acts. The number is just that... A number.
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If you are attracted, it shouldn't matter if they "lie" about their age. I don't mind if a lady disguises her age. Does it matter? Age is only a factor if it affects the way a person looks or acts. The number is just that... A number.
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Age isn't a factor here lol !!
It's everything else to us that is.
I mean if you are attracted to someone, do you care how old they are really?
I mean ofcourse as long as they are legal lol.
What if you found someone very sexy and attractive then found out that there
much older than what you prefer in age range? What would ya do?
Just a thought.
Donna
It's everything else to us that is.
I mean if you are attracted to someone, do you care how old they are really?
I mean ofcourse as long as they are legal lol.
What if you found someone very sexy and attractive then found out that there
much older than what you prefer in age range? What would ya do?
Just a thought.
Donna
Don
A>yes it matters. B/c if they lie on that it makes me think what else have they lied about...
B> if someone is turn off or not attracted to older women (or what ever the case may be) they would not bring them self
A>yes it matters. B/c if they lie on that it makes me think what else have they lied about...
B> if someone is turn off or not attracted to older women (or what ever the case may be) they would not bring them self
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Given that everyone has told lies in their life, should that logic also apply to us? Not wishing to divulge something that isn't a neccessity to know, is not being dishonest. Somethings are sensitive.
Let me put it this way. Do you do drugs? Have you ever stolen anything? Do you have a mental disorder? Do you have jealousy issue? Do you excercise proper hygiene? Does the Mr. in your relationship slap the Mrs. around?
Somethings are better left to discover on your own. Some people don't want you to know how old they are or how much they weigh. If outer appearance in the other couple is that much of an issue, CAM! lol. Cam up. Just realize that people aren't going to divulge everything to a stranger and that's ok. I don't chalk a disguised age up to deceitful intention. I think it's all relative. What really matters?
Now, things that apply to the sex should be discussed. Things like, disease rules, limits etc. The number associated with age doesn't matter unless it's below 18. Other than that, it's all about your attraction level.
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Given that everyone has told lies in their life, should that logic also apply to us? Not wishing to divulge something that isn't a neccessity to know, is not being dishonest. Somethings are sensitive.
Let me put it this way. Do you do drugs? Have you ever stolen anything? Do you have a mental disorder? Do you have jealousy issue? Do you excercise proper hygiene? Does the Mr. in your relationship slap the Mrs. around?
Somethings are better left to discover on your own. Some people don't want you to know how old they are or how much they weigh. If outer appearance in the other couple is that much of an issue, CAM! lol. Cam up. Just realize that people aren't going to divulge everything to a stranger and that's ok. I don't chalk a disguised age up to deceitful intention. I think it's all relative. What really matters?
Now, things that apply to the sex should be discussed. Things like, disease rules, limits etc. The number associated with age doesn't matter unless it's below 18. Other than that, it's all about your attraction level.
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** don't knock it, till you try it** wink wink
In all seriousness, I agree with TR. Everyone has their own individual tastes, likes and desires, and it doesn't aways come down to the age issue.
There are some incredibly sexy people in their... uh... "later years".... you know.. 30's.. 40's.. and 50's? But then again, this is coming from a slightly jaded point of view, being that we're both in our mid 40's... gasp..
In all seriousness, I agree with TR. Everyone has their own individual tastes, likes and desires, and it doesn't aways come down to the age issue.
There are some incredibly sexy people in their... uh... "later years".... you know.. 30's.. 40's.. and 50's? But then again, this is coming from a slightly jaded point of view, being that we're both in our mid 40's... gasp..
We are older and do have a limit on age but that is purely a personal choice for us ( would not like to be with someone the same ages as my children)..... have met very few younger than us always seems to be same age or older and most have been extremely enjoyable!!
Feeling ancient hit the BIG 50 this year "SIGH" lol.
Feeling ancient hit the BIG 50 this year "SIGH" lol.
Hmmm, I think age is "just a number" typically to those who are older...although i could be totally wrong. I really value some of our older friends on here b/c they have givien us great advice and guidance. It's nice to have people like that! However, as far as sexual chemistry goes...when you're in your twenties...it makes a big difference to have someone in their 40's-50's contact you. We've set our cutoff mainly at ~35 b/c we're looking for same body type, and typically the older crowd isn't what we're looking for sexually. hope I haven't offended anyone!
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I was offended, until I gawked at your pics for twenty minutes.
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I was offended, until I gawked at your pics for twenty minutes.
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