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We've been away from Swingular for awhile, so if this topic has been discussed already we apologize.

Many couples - here and on other swing sites - only post very tame pictures. Having one or two is fine - but if you use the internet to seek out others - you'd think you'd post some explicit photos as well.

Along these same lines - we see many ads where there are pics of her, and pics of him - but no pics of them together. And of course the really funny ones are pics of her - and the pics of him taken by him using his reflection in a mirror!

So we're asking - how many profiles do you come across and ask yourself - I wonder if he or she really knows the other is posting their picture. Or - how many profiles do you come across and say Wow - right out of a magazine!

Brenda & Jim
Helena MT

We have seen FAR to many porno pics on sites...

Our pics are us together...we do not post our pics of us with others....

We've often wondered the same thing about profiles that seem rather devoid of pics of either spouse.

I know with us, there are far more pics of Sirensextress than myself, simply because I'm usually the one behind the camera. In fact, scanning through my hard drives, there are not many pictures of myself either with Lisa or by myself.

I think that Siren and I are known well enough (at least in Utah), that this has never been an issue for us...we're as real as it gets.

Either way, it's all good; she's always been my best and most favorite subject to shoot, my muse.

As for the magazine pics, both Siren and I have been around long enough and browsed enough internet porn to amazing see some of the pics that were popular a few years ago spring up in profiles with captions like "my sexy wife"! In fact, I've often been able to trace the picture back to the original premium porn site from which it originated.

So, if anyone is having to rely on snatched porn from the internet to pass off as their spouses, odds are they're either not a couple, or the S/O is not aware of what they are participating in.

I also seem to recall the faux pics being submitted last year in the photo contest not once but TWICE by the same couple!

We are not in the habit of posting publicly or otherwise pics of ourselves engaged in funtime with anyone else but each other. We save those for our own private musings. There is also a potential that pics showing engagement with others may be misconstrued as bragging or flaunting...or an pictorially based fuck diary.

We prefer not to kiss and tell.

for us it hard to get good pic of us so i mosty take them of her....

Hello All !!

We have also found this to be true lol,

we have ran into a few pics that we had seen before on porn sites. People trying to pass themselves off as either a single female or a couples wife.

I also am like TG, im usually the one behind the camera, and being a little picture shy also doesn't help much. Though we do have pics of both of us in our private area.
We also have pics of a few friends, with there permission only ofcourse. We would never post a pic of someone without there permission.

Brian & Donna

We can attest to the fact that DB is real and yes, they ARE a couple...lol

Nice to see you guys back!

in our case there are more pictures of the mrs than the mr simply because she is far more pleasing to look at

HELLO,
We have read most of this yarn and had to ask ourselves, as long as we have been in this life style how many people we have run across who are not camera shy! And as bold as some say they are they just dont quite live up to what they run there cum catchers about. taking pics of the act of sex is not a real big deal,pro se the art as we see itis the erotic shot,the shot that makes you think of what might be under those sexy panties and bras. that bodice or the teddies ect.ect. but you can get a cock shot or a nice pic of a chia pet any where, on any web site. but what do we know we are just a couple of horney old folks.lol

We always like to see a picture of the couple together. As far as our pics, like everyone else I am usually the one behind the camera....besides we have to get a new camera every time she takes one of me. LOL

T and V

I would have to agree that it really does seem like there are a small handful of

Thank you darlin' SLUT...muah!

We agree with alot of the posts we like to see photos of the people not just body parts, and as with many couples I am usually behind the camera and I can't afford to get a new camera every time she wants one of me either lol.. We have been hit up by profiles with last years porn as well and we all know there are alot of fakes and or picture collectors out there so seeing photos of the couple together be it sexually or involved with thier favorite pastime gives a little more credit to thier validity. This is not to say there are not nice people out there or that we ignore pages from people without them they are just things we look for and those photos don't need to be in a public album just something we like to see before we meet with people like many we've been burned a few times and if the couple is serious its never been an issue for us.

PS Riderz are you sure you're not faking lol miss you guys.

if y'all want to see pics of both together it might work better if y'all posted one of the two of you together.We prefer to see the couple together also and just a g or r rated pic is enough.
Crotch shots all start looking the same anyway after a while,and when you meet in public it is hard to recognize some one from a pic of their crotch.

Thanks for everyones view - they are all very open and honest responses. We do want to reiterate the original post asked "How many profiles do you come across and ask yourself - I wonder if he or she really knows the other is posting their picture. Or - how many profiles do you come across and say Wow - right out of a magazine! ".

Our point on explicit pictures doens't have to show sexual activity. Lingerie - a sexy pose - all are seductive ways to get one's attentiion. Sorry - but when someone posts their wedding photo on a site such as this - well - we could think of others photos to post. This is our opinion and may not represent those of our readers LOL!

If we riled some people - it was not our intention. As someone mentioned - it's how you present yourself. All we asked was - does the "other half" of a couple know their pic is being posted? Or - if the picture is really of them?

I would bet 30% or more of the pics posted on sites such as Swingular are (1) old porn pics, (2) pics of a woman and the ad is posted by a single male or (3) if a couple - one of the spouses doesn't know their pic is posted.

That's our guess - yours?

My wife knows that her picture's is on here and has no problem with it as long that no one can see the face and knows that we have picture's of us in our privates with our faces to see who we are for some one that we want to see them being from a small town. We have found that our only problem is that every one lives so far away from us here in the n. w. Illinois...

We only use recent pictures of ourselves....Does anybody know any good airbrush artists????

((Friendz)) You hit that one right on the money, it seems some times that the picture's every one can see in there profile isn't the same as the ones in there privates. And for the ones wanting to show it all up front is a turn off for us here. We would like to wait till behind the closed doors to see any thing our selfs. We don't have naked picture's in our privates of us just who we are as a person ( couple). It wouldn't care if my private part was to be seen but the wife isn't into putting hers on there.

"I'll disagree on that one. I'd much rather keep it private with the people we actually do play with. Not everyone likes to hook-up at parties. I think that's the good part about them. Parties are a good catalyst but can also act as a buffer. Some of us don't like to pass our wives around between fat sweaty and or creepy fucking strangers, like a fuckin' peace pipe. It's all a preference thing. No one is right or wrong. We're picky about who we fuck.

-Don-"

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<br>Don, I hope you don't mind me quoting you, but, you hit it right on the head! We enjoy going to parties and getting to know people, especially now, since we are new to Florida. We don't just go to fuck, we go to talk and have fun!

Now, regarding pics of the spouse, Chrissy and I clearly appear in our pics, and we have a lot on this site, almost 100. It is not that important for us to see the pics, it is more important for us to chat and get acquainted, and see where it leads.
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Although the add-a-time-stamp to the photos is a nice idea, I doubt that it'll be very effective. If certain people cannot/will not take the time to actually have new pics taken (in this digital age, it is not THAT hard), then I doubt they'll take the time to actually add a date to their pics. Besides, this can be easily done in the caption window when you upload the pics...but so very few actually take time to do it.

We like to keep our pics fresh, as this is basically the most effective "marketing" tool, since it is usually the first thing people see when they look at a profile.

First impressions...go a long way...

~J~

It's funny that this should come up. On another website we were recently "called out" and told to get off the website by one of the users because we did not have any testimonals to prove that we were "real". The only problem with their assumption is the fact that we are very new to this lifestyle, and have only met a few couples. We do have a face pick of us together on our private photos, but I do find humorous that people say they can spot a fake so easly.
We use picks of my s/o because lets face it a hot sexy lady gets more attention than a guy with his face blocked out.

Real is real, we only have public pics. You will always have fakes in the life style. males that post as a couple. We figure, you can always exchange with who apeals to you and who makes you feel confident they are real..... just our input

We have always used photos as part of our screening process to weed out people we don't feel compatible with sharing more of us. We've learned through our own personal experience that if someone doesn't have photos (either posted here or able to send in an email) than they probably have a good reason for not wanting to share them.

The other side of the coin for us is those people that still use photos from 5 or 10 years ago - like they haven't changed or we wouldn't notice. And while we're at it, we are also suspicious of people who don't have a pic of both people in the same photo - how hard can this be?

On the other hand, we take lots of photos everywhere we go and we probably piss a lot of people off because we do.

well i like to flaunt it , and he likes to shoot it,so i post it lol

kristy

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