Hi,
Husband and I are trying to find a fun (open-minded) vacation spot for next year. We want to find a resort where nudity and sex is allowed. We have heard that many of the nude places only allow sex in your hotel rooms... we would like to find a place where it may be allowed in maybe places like a group hot-tub, or around the disco when having fun dancing, etc.
We may not even do the sex stuff,,, but would like to be able to if it came up, and not have to run to our room everytime... expecially if another couple excited us..
Does anyone know of any places where it is open to this kind of fun stuff.... or would we be in trouble at any resort, if when in the jacuzzi we starting kissing and feeling each other, etc..??
well, hope to hear some ideas, etc....
we also heard that sometimes going when lifestyle groups are booking a resort can help... do the the rules change then - or do they book our parts of the hotels for their own parties and all is free to do at these events...
thanks
D & M
ps... thinking of going sometime next spring ('08) or summer
Husband and I are trying to find a fun (open-minded) vacation spot for next year. We want to find a resort where nudity and sex is allowed. We have heard that many of the nude places only allow sex in your hotel rooms... we would like to find a place where it may be allowed in maybe places like a group hot-tub, or around the disco when having fun dancing, etc.
We may not even do the sex stuff,,, but would like to be able to if it came up, and not have to run to our room everytime... expecially if another couple excited us..
Does anyone know of any places where it is open to this kind of fun stuff.... or would we be in trouble at any resort, if when in the jacuzzi we starting kissing and feeling each other, etc..??
well, hope to hear some ideas, etc....
we also heard that sometimes going when lifestyle groups are booking a resort can help... do the the rules change then - or do they book our parts of the hotels for their own parties and all is free to do at these events...
thanks
D & M
ps... thinking of going sometime next spring ('08) or summer
We would recommend Hedo II during any of the Lifestyle takeovers for what you are after. You can be as wild or mild as you care to pretty much anywhere except the dining room. Certainly the nude beach, hot tub, nude pool, nude bar etc. At least during Lifestyle weeks this is the case. We have been 20 times now and have always had an absolute blast.
utcpl... thanks for your help. So if a lifestyle event is being held at a place.. that is the better time to go? Also, when you say that anything can go - anywhere (other than the dining area).. does that mean you can be nude and go for it, in the disco or in the pool, etc.
We got one email that said that the only place at Hedo you can do sexual things, is in your own room, and so now we are a little confused.
We would just like to be able to let loose in the pool or hot-tub, or at the disco.. but we dont want to be kicked out...
Thanks again for your help and maybe you can explain a little more about the place, the rules ,etc... plus --- it seems we have also read that hedo 111 is newer... does that mean it is better... or are both the same....??
Thanks for all your kind help and we await more answers....
ps... hope all is having a fun week, and the smoke clears quickly here in the valley
We got one email that said that the only place at Hedo you can do sexual things, is in your own room, and so now we are a little confused.
We would just like to be able to let loose in the pool or hot-tub, or at the disco.. but we dont want to be kicked out...
Thanks again for your help and maybe you can explain a little more about the place, the rules ,etc... plus --- it seems we have also read that hedo 111 is newer... does that mean it is better... or are both the same....??
Thanks for all your kind help and we await more answers....
ps... hope all is having a fun week, and the smoke clears quickly here in the valley
Whoever wrote you & said the only place at Hedo you can have sex is in your room has never been there. There is always sex going on at the beach, hot tub, nude pool & nude bar. The nude hot tub at night late is filled with people having sex that is why they go there. Sometimes the disco but not so much, mostly lots of heavy foreplay there. In many years past they would sometimes walk around and say you can't do that but I have not seen that in years.
Never been to Hedo III though we have a free week there we don't dare use it because we have so much fun at II. Know lots of people who have been to III and most everybody always likes II better.
Never been to Hedo III though we have a free week there we don't dare use it because we have so much fun at II. Know lots of people who have been to III and most everybody always likes II better.
It does seem to me that there is greater and greater demand for the kind of place you're looking for. We looked for a few years and, like you, concluded that pretty-much only Hedonism had a clear "sex-positive" policy in addition to the nudity. There *used* to be a place in Key West called Deja Vu, but it shut down about 2 years ago. We also found a place in Desert Hot Springs, CA (Palm Springs). It is a 15-unit sized place. We spent a week there and can confirm that it actively encouraged not only nudity but open sex. It used to be called the San Marcus Inn, but they went under new management a year or so ago and I think they're now called the Sea Mountain Inn - and tripled their prices. Even so, I think they're cheaper than Hedonism, but they don't have a beach or an ocean or anything close to the facilities that Hedonism has.
We've never been to Hedonism. I've never had a partner who really wanted to "go for it" - and the prices of Hedonism made it not worth while to go - if we weren't going for the sexual atmosphere.
Meanwhile, again, it surely seems that the demand for a "U.S. -based Hedonism" is there, if someone can develop it. It may also be that such places *do* exist, but can't really be advertised openly because of the sexually-repressed laws still on the books here.
From our experience at San Marcus, I can confirm that it is *wonderful* to be naked ALL the time and not have to go hide when the spirit moves you to something sexual.
We've never been to Hedonism. I've never had a partner who really wanted to "go for it" - and the prices of Hedonism made it not worth while to go - if we weren't going for the sexual atmosphere.
Meanwhile, again, it surely seems that the demand for a "U.S. -based Hedonism" is there, if someone can develop it. It may also be that such places *do* exist, but can't really be advertised openly because of the sexually-repressed laws still on the books here.
From our experience at San Marcus, I can confirm that it is *wonderful* to be naked ALL the time and not have to go hide when the spirit moves you to something sexual.
We have been to a number of the nudist resorts around the Southeast US and Florida. The posts that advise that overtly sexual activity in the public areas is not allowed are correct.
That is not to say that there is not some touching and flirting but it is generally in the hot tub or conversation pools and very late at night.
The more "adult" nudist resorts we have visited are:
Paradise Lakes, north of Tampa -- nice upscale resort. The dance on Saturday night can get very close to an off premises swingers club. Couples can connect at the dance, move to the conversation pool and then back to your room or condo.
Caliente, a bit farther north of Tampa -- a true resort, very upscale. The dance on Saturday night can get wild but in our experience a bit more restrained (other than the ladies costumes) when compared to Paradise Lakes.
Both Paradise Lakes and Caliente have Yahoo Groups that serve as an swingers introduction service.
Pleasure Grove -- north of Atlanta near Cleveland GA. -- This is not an AANR resort so they are more relaxed about adult play. It is couples only, adults only. After the dance on Saturday night the party moves over to the Charter House. The Charter House is an on premises swingers forum. The problem is the accomdations are very rustic and the crowd can be small in numbers and large in other ways.
One thing to remember as you explore adult resorts is that not all nudists are swingers and not all swingers are nudists.
If you decide to try any of this adult play grounds, drop us a line. We have a home in Florida about an hour from Paradise and Caliente and a home in the mountains about 15 minutes from Pleasure Grove.
That is not to say that there is not some touching and flirting but it is generally in the hot tub or conversation pools and very late at night.
The more "adult" nudist resorts we have visited are:
Paradise Lakes, north of Tampa -- nice upscale resort. The dance on Saturday night can get very close to an off premises swingers club. Couples can connect at the dance, move to the conversation pool and then back to your room or condo.
Caliente, a bit farther north of Tampa -- a true resort, very upscale. The dance on Saturday night can get wild but in our experience a bit more restrained (other than the ladies costumes) when compared to Paradise Lakes.
Both Paradise Lakes and Caliente have Yahoo Groups that serve as an swingers introduction service.
Pleasure Grove -- north of Atlanta near Cleveland GA. -- This is not an AANR resort so they are more relaxed about adult play. It is couples only, adults only. After the dance on Saturday night the party moves over to the Charter House. The Charter House is an on premises swingers forum. The problem is the accomdations are very rustic and the crowd can be small in numbers and large in other ways.
One thing to remember as you explore adult resorts is that not all nudists are swingers and not all swingers are nudists.
If you decide to try any of this adult play grounds, drop us a line. We have a home in Florida about an hour from Paradise and Caliente and a home in the mountains about 15 minutes from Pleasure Grove.
All the replies have been so helpful, and we thank you all so much. At this point, I think my best bet would be to book a week at hedo 11, for my husband and myself and see how it goes....
I will have to try and find out when a lifestyle party is booking out a week, sometime next May or June and go when they go - I think it would be more fun, exciting and daring....
Does anyone who of when a lifestyle group will be booking hedo 11 during that period and how to contact them..
thanks so much.....
d & m
I will have to try and find out when a lifestyle party is booking out a week, sometime next May or June and go when they go - I think it would be more fun, exciting and daring....
Does anyone who of when a lifestyle group will be booking hedo 11 during that period and how to contact them..
thanks so much.....
d & m
You could always just come to Florida and hang out at our place nekkid all day and have people come over to play....But then again...That line never works...
Seriously...
Tampa Bay area is the most adult friendly city in the USA, more adult oriented businesses per capita than anywhere in the USA...2 nudist resorts (our preferance for swinging is Paradise Lakes, they seem more open to it and have never heard, "OOOOOOOO They are swingers! (with disgust in their voices)" there, but have numerous times at Caliente)...Plenty of Swing Clubs (both on and off site)...and a few theatres where playing is not only allowed, but encouraged and set up for (glory holes, couches, etc)...
Seriously...
Tampa Bay area is the most adult friendly city in the USA, more adult oriented businesses per capita than anywhere in the USA...2 nudist resorts (our preferance for swinging is Paradise Lakes, they seem more open to it and have never heard, "OOOOOOOO They are swingers! (with disgust in their voices)" there, but have numerous times at Caliente)...Plenty of Swing Clubs (both on and off site)...and a few theatres where playing is not only allowed, but encouraged and set up for (glory holes, couches, etc)...
You can check out lifestyles page lifestyles-tours dot com. As we said earlier there is always a full house when they go and that means a lot of fun.
UTCPL... thank you for the advice of the lifestyle travel site. We went into it, and it looks interesting. So far, it does not look like there are any groups going to HEDO11 during the months of May or June of '08, but I guess we will have to wait and hope.
It what we have been reading, it appears that HEDO11 is more designed for swingers and has a larger area for nude things, sexual things, etc... Hope we are not wrong, but that is how it looks.
We have never been to a place like this, and since this is our first we have decided we want to find a wild and go for it place... might as well jump in head first...
Do you think we are correct with Hedo11 and other things we are saying..
all responses are appreciated and we look forward to more
thanks
M & D
It what we have been reading, it appears that HEDO11 is more designed for swingers and has a larger area for nude things, sexual things, etc... Hope we are not wrong, but that is how it looks.
We have never been to a place like this, and since this is our first we have decided we want to find a wild and go for it place... might as well jump in head first...
Do you think we are correct with Hedo11 and other things we are saying..
all responses are appreciated and we look forward to more
thanks
M & D
congratulations on deciding to go on an adult, all-inclusive, clothing optional, lifestyle vacation! we actually DO love H2! we've been to H2 twice, H3 once and breezes runaway bay once. LOVED H2. like i said we're not agents so im not "selling". everyone has their preferences. we dont scuba and we dont do the gangja. so thats a couple of things that keep a lotta folks going back to H2.
we just like desire cancun better, because it is couples only, classier, upscale, more sensual, erotic ambiance. air conditioned sexy restaurants; (shes not sweating her ass off after getting all dolled up in her slutwear like at hedo). desire is squeeky clean much smaller, more "village like"; only 110 rooms. BEDS EVERYWHERES!.........on the beach, around the jacuzzi, a few around the lobby bar & pool, and some around the swimup hot tub bar.
the entire resort is c/o but most folks are nekked. sexy sexy. desire doesnt allow locals to invade on a day or nite pass overwhelming the disco and dico bar. at desire, no one will be hollering at your ass, on a microphone, while you are trying to have a nice supper with your spouse & pals. desire has beverage service on the beach and at the pool (they wait on you).
NO single fat assed pasty white bastards with a bad combover and aviator glasses perving on you in the hot tub at 1am while you are trying to get it on with your sweetie. LOL! desire has no prostitutes in the hot tub trying to pick up a john. desire has 24/7/365 FREE! prompt room service.
having said all that, we do miss the reggae, the culture, and especially the jerked chicken. but its desire cancun hands down!
we just like desire cancun better, because it is couples only, classier, upscale, more sensual, erotic ambiance. air conditioned sexy restaurants; (shes not sweating her ass off after getting all dolled up in her slutwear like at hedo). desire is squeeky clean much smaller, more "village like"; only 110 rooms. BEDS EVERYWHERES!.........on the beach, around the jacuzzi, a few around the lobby bar & pool, and some around the swimup hot tub bar.
the entire resort is c/o but most folks are nekked. sexy sexy. desire doesnt allow locals to invade on a day or nite pass overwhelming the disco and dico bar. at desire, no one will be hollering at your ass, on a microphone, while you are trying to have a nice supper with your spouse & pals. desire has beverage service on the beach and at the pool (they wait on you).
NO single fat assed pasty white bastards with a bad combover and aviator glasses perving on you in the hot tub at 1am while you are trying to get it on with your sweetie. LOL! desire has no prostitutes in the hot tub trying to pick up a john. desire has 24/7/365 FREE! prompt room service.
having said all that, we do miss the reggae, the culture, and especially the jerked chicken. but its desire cancun hands down!
Hello...If you're looking for a hot weekend try Sea Mountain Resort in Palm Desert. All nude...sex anywhere... people from LA visit there often so its packed with lookers M&F on the weekends...best for those shout weekend vacations of 3-5 days...try sea mountain inn in Google and you'll find it...Have fun and remember to look meup when you come to Phoenix...I do sizzling erotic massages...BOB :h
Hello...If you're looking for a hot weekend try Sea Mountain Resort in Palm Desert. All nude...sex anywhere... people from LA visit there often so its packed with lookers M&F on the weekends...best for those shout weekend vacations of 3-5 days...try sea mountain inn in Google and you'll find it...Have fun and remember to look meup when you come to Phoenix...I do sizzling erotic massages...BOB :h