The subject is probably self explanatory, but we were just wondering is there anything a couple can do to improve the chances of meeting a single female who
PRAY TO THE UNICORN GOD
If you get one send her my way lol
If you get one send her my way lol
We wanna know the secret too!! We would love to find a single female for girl/girl while the hubby watches or films it 
Well if the "last unicorn" is roaming around lost and alone (where is that old America CD)... we'd like to help her find her way home! *smile*
But I think we'll continue to focus our energies into our couple friends and single guys! *smile*
But I think we'll continue to focus our energies into our couple friends and single guys! *smile*
We actually have quite a few single female friends, check our profile for the latest updates. We strongly prefer couples because we are both straight and maybe it is the knowing that we are not very interested in singles that attracts them to us. What we hear from them is that they are concerned about not the woman but the male not being able to resist and try to take over the situation.
Just like when we were single and looking to hook up in a club we would dress very nice and go to the club and stand by ourself isolated from the crowd and the curiosity always killed the women and we never left alone.
We were out with one of the ladies last night and her and the wife were flirting and I think the wife is getting curious about the ladies and we talked about it late last night and the friend asked if I would want to join in if they hooked up and I said why would I because that is between them. Well the friend said she loves the idea that I let the wife seek her own fun and am not trying to include myself that it turns her on so much that she wants me there and to fully participate after they have their fun. So it proves what others have told me, so guys just lay back and have a don`t care attitude and the opportunity will come knocking.
Just like when we were single and looking to hook up in a club we would dress very nice and go to the club and stand by ourself isolated from the crowd and the curiosity always killed the women and we never left alone.
We were out with one of the ladies last night and her and the wife were flirting and I think the wife is getting curious about the ladies and we talked about it late last night and the friend asked if I would want to join in if they hooked up and I said why would I because that is between them. Well the friend said she loves the idea that I let the wife seek her own fun and am not trying to include myself that it turns her on so much that she wants me there and to fully participate after they have their fun. So it proves what others have told me, so guys just lay back and have a don`t care attitude and the opportunity will come knocking.
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You attract a single woman that's into couples, like a single male would. You go to venues that they haunt and you try and lure them with your package. LOL. In other words, the few that are out there that are into couples, are going to be looking for couples they're attracted to. The same applies to them, that applies to your Mrs. They're women, the'yre <u>not</u> any different than your wife. They only thing uncommon about them is that they are into couples. Women are usually looking for devotion and attention from one person. It's usually guys that are all about excess and indulgence. True, that doesn't always apply, which is why we have these "unicorns".
I personally think it's easier to focus on couples. I see nothing "unicorn" about them. I never did see the draw of a single female. Everything they offer, can be found in the female of another couple. I think the term "unicorn" derives from the male of the <i>seeking</i> couple. But hey, that is our opinion and what applies in our life. You do what makes you happy. Fuck it, if I think you're wasting your time and that single females are all hype when it comes to the "unicorn" bullshit.
So my advice is treat her like you would any lady you would pick up at a bar or party etc. If she's attracted, she will come. There is no secret. It's all about attraction. There is no special candy, candle or spell. Single women are no more special than a married or attached woman.
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You attract a single woman that's into couples, like a single male would. You go to venues that they haunt and you try and lure them with your package. LOL. In other words, the few that are out there that are into couples, are going to be looking for couples they're attracted to. The same applies to them, that applies to your Mrs. They're women, the'yre <u>not</u> any different than your wife. They only thing uncommon about them is that they are into couples. Women are usually looking for devotion and attention from one person. It's usually guys that are all about excess and indulgence. True, that doesn't always apply, which is why we have these "unicorns".
I personally think it's easier to focus on couples. I see nothing "unicorn" about them. I never did see the draw of a single female. Everything they offer, can be found in the female of another couple. I think the term "unicorn" derives from the male of the <i>seeking</i> couple. But hey, that is our opinion and what applies in our life. You do what makes you happy. Fuck it, if I think you're wasting your time and that single females are all hype when it comes to the "unicorn" bullshit.
So my advice is treat her like you would any lady you would pick up at a bar or party etc. If she's attracted, she will come. There is no secret. It's all about attraction. There is no special candy, candle or spell. Single women are no more special than a married or attached woman.
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-Don-
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That's not true Don, there is a secret. I tied a $100 bill to my big schlong one time and I had several bites. They didn't like me, they just wanted what came out of my wallet and my johnson.. LOL..
Ok, I lied. Don's right..
Ok, I lied. Don's right..
Okay.... may I growl a little bit here?
TR makes some really good points - it has been my experience that being treated with dignity and respect - rather than some fuck toy, goes a long way. I have SEVERAL couples I play with and they are all a kick to hang out with and play with. I look for people who are real, kind and can make me laugh. I look for couples who are secure with each other and BOTH are looking for the experience. I look for people who can be patient while I'm being cautious and safe. I have an insane schedule - so getting to the actual play day takes time - if they're patient with THIS (you know who you are) I'm impressed. Lastly I look for attraction.
Not every single woman is looking to have a connection and attention of one person. Because of personal reasons, it works for me NOT to. This is why I prefer to play with couples. I enjoy the attention of both the man and the woman and I like that I can kiss em goodbye at the end of the night. We all get our sexual needs met and have a few laughs along the way.
Uthot - thats just gross. It's a joke - I know, but still gross.
Good Luck!
-Te
TR makes some really good points - it has been my experience that being treated with dignity and respect - rather than some fuck toy, goes a long way. I have SEVERAL couples I play with and they are all a kick to hang out with and play with. I look for people who are real, kind and can make me laugh. I look for couples who are secure with each other and BOTH are looking for the experience. I look for people who can be patient while I'm being cautious and safe. I have an insane schedule - so getting to the actual play day takes time - if they're patient with THIS (you know who you are) I'm impressed. Lastly I look for attraction.
Not every single woman is looking to have a connection and attention of one person. Because of personal reasons, it works for me NOT to. This is why I prefer to play with couples. I enjoy the attention of both the man and the woman and I like that I can kiss em goodbye at the end of the night. We all get our sexual needs met and have a few laughs along the way.
Uthot - thats just gross. It's a joke - I know, but still gross.
Good Luck!
-Te
More importantly Deviante is looking for a couple she can watch Battlestar Galactica with. So that means all single ladies are looking for the same thing. That leads me to believe we will have a large influx of the single ladies in about 7 months...
haha..
haha..
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You're definetly the exception to my rant, save the "treat her like a lady" part. I had the pleasure of making your aquaintence and I must say, you are lovely and definetly fall in my idea of "unicorn". Why you ask? Because you don't let the label go to your head.
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You're definetly the exception to my rant, save the "treat her like a lady" part. I had the pleasure of making your aquaintence and I must say, you are lovely and definetly fall in my idea of "unicorn". Why you ask? Because you don't let the label go to your head.
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I usually avoid this... mostly cause we 3 get asked all the time. Take notes.
First step... do not look for one. especially do not look for one in a swinger's environment.
It is like when you are single, and want a parnter. you usually find one when you are not looking. My guess is they can sense being "hunted" and run.
Christy and I are on our 5th unicorn, but this is the first one that moved in. ( over a year ago )
So that is our "3" cents worth.
Rich signing for Rich, Christy, and Sadia
First step... do not look for one. especially do not look for one in a swinger's environment.
It is like when you are single, and want a parnter. you usually find one when you are not looking. My guess is they can sense being "hunted" and run.
Christy and I are on our 5th unicorn, but this is the first one that moved in. ( over a year ago )
So that is our "3" cents worth.
Rich signing for Rich, Christy, and Sadia
Now watching BSG naked with lifestyle friends sounds like the perfect way to spend an evening!
We find them all the time...not a problem...BUT it helps if your lady is actually into it...mine was not for a long time, so it was hard to get to...but when she turned the corner and decided she liked it (no, she is not full-on-bi, she likes to watch me...god is she sick)...they came...Our experience is that the lady of a couple should talk to the single lady, so she knows it is not some come-on from a dude...
TR...Another valid point from you, HOWEVER, we find it FAR more difficult to connect with a couple than singles...Just our experience...
TR...Another valid point from you, HOWEVER, we find it FAR more difficult to connect with a couple than singles...Just our experience...
SexyPants - HA! You frackin tease.... flashing my geekness publicly :P Your assumptions may just prove to be true, but perhaps you are forgetting that there may just be an influx of Cylon Deviants. ACK!! The image was just too much for me. Gods forbid......
TR - Thank you, very much for your kind words. I think you both are really cool people and should seriously consider adding single females to your repertoir of fun... hmmmm? hehe
JstJim - I agree wholeheartedly about communication being between the ladies. I am always a little dubious when I am only chatting with the male half. I am must more inclined to meet sooner if the other woman is trying to set it up and not the guy. I can't tell you how many times I've had the guy half contact me and tell me that his wife/gf wants him to meet me first and then she'll meet. Please....
Huggs
Te
TR - Thank you, very much for your kind words. I think you both are really cool people and should seriously consider adding single females to your repertoir of fun... hmmmm? hehe
JstJim - I agree wholeheartedly about communication being between the ladies. I am always a little dubious when I am only chatting with the male half. I am must more inclined to meet sooner if the other woman is trying to set it up and not the guy. I can't tell you how many times I've had the guy half contact me and tell me that his wife/gf wants him to meet me first and then she'll meet. Please....
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Te
quit now. They do not exist. People have photos of them but they also have photos of the "sasquach, alian space craft, & they also take direction directly from the unicorn god mentioned earlier.
Au contrare U2...they DO in fact exist! 
Battlestar Galactica? I knew that Deviante was a woman of exquisite taste and class!!
Haha T...I've always thought that, thank you for speaking your mind!
~J~
~J~
Thank you for the kind words R.S. - Battlestar Gallactica in all its forms is Da BOMB!! It's a deal breaker for sure. hehe Ya gotta love it, watch it and get all geeky with me to understand the full impact of the nerdiness that transpires. How bout I just show ya while you're here? *wink*
T4 - you know you really have a great point... but I think I'd have to... well see it to be the very best judge..
Note Te peering into the dark corners intently......
hehehe....
-Te
hehe Ya gotta love it, watch it and get all geeky with me to understand the full impact of the nerdiness that transpires. How bout I just show ya while you're here? *wink*T4 - you know you really have a great point... but I think I'd have to... well see it to be the very best judge..
Note Te peering into the dark corners intently......
hehehe....
-Te