Definitely vocal! Why be a bump on a log! ENJOY ENJOY ENJOY!
For me, the biggest turn-on about my partner having sex with someone else is knowing that she is being tremendously pleasured, even if she is receiving more pleasure than she does with me. One of the reasons we like seperate rooms is because I think when most people know they are being watched, they tend to hold back a little. I would love to watch her having sex with someone else (man or woman) when she doesn't even know I'm watching. That would be totally hot, especially if she was writhing in pleasure.
Opinons please......... A long time ago, I asked my ex and a girlfriend of hers if they ever had fantasies of being raped. I suspected they did and was surprised when they told the truth. They both said yes.
I do not condone rape, nor understand it in the form that most of us perceive it. Power, violence, or pain are not turn-ons, and I don't understand why they would be. But, and this is a big but (big butt, that's funny)......... if you (guys) knew that if you raped a woman, and before it was over, she would be loving it and even participating, wouldn't that be tremendously hot? Would you be turned on by setting up a situation where your wife would get raped if you knew she would love it and you could watch?
Just curious people. Don't start bashing me.
I do not condone rape, nor understand it in the form that most of us perceive it. Power, violence, or pain are not turn-ons, and I don't understand why they would be. But, and this is a big but (big butt, that's funny)......... if you (guys) knew that if you raped a woman, and before it was over, she would be loving it and even participating, wouldn't that be tremendously hot? Would you be turned on by setting up a situation where your wife would get raped if you knew she would love it and you could watch?
Just curious people. Don't start bashing me.
I think you may be blurring the lines between rape and domination?
As a woman who has been raped, there is nothing sexual/exciting about it. It was a violent act of aggression. Sex was merely the weapon of attack.
I've been tied up, rendered helpless and then pleasured. That was a huge turn on! But it was very different from rape. With rape, there is no consent. Your body is taken, violated and you are left feeling guilty, shamed, dirty, a thousand other horrid feelings.
But to give yourself to another, that is where the turn on is.
Trying not to bash, trying not to be snarky. I hope I succeeded...
As a woman who has been raped, there is nothing sexual/exciting about it. It was a violent act of aggression. Sex was merely the weapon of attack.
I've been tied up, rendered helpless and then pleasured. That was a huge turn on! But it was very different from rape. With rape, there is no consent. Your body is taken, violated and you are left feeling guilty, shamed, dirty, a thousand other horrid feelings.
But to give yourself to another, that is where the turn on is.
Trying not to bash, trying not to be snarky. I hope I succeeded...
I think it is super hot when a man is vocal. Very often, at least in my experience, men don't seem to make much noise. Maybe that contributes to the hotness of it when I come across one who does? Either way I like it!
On the other hand, it is almost a turn-off (note: I said "almost" - hee hee) when a woman is quiet. Unless there is a reason, sometimes we are somewhere we may not want others to know what we are doing, then it's kind of hot to HAVE to be quiet
Mrs DP
On the other hand, it is almost a turn-off (note: I said "almost" - hee hee) when a woman is quiet. Unless there is a reason, sometimes we are somewhere we may not want others to know what we are doing, then it's kind of hot to HAVE to be quiet
Mrs DP
We agree! It is a huge turn on to hear those little moans of pleasure in bed. Then when the temperature really starts to rise, those naughty words said with gasping breath, OMG those will keep you turned on for days after, just by thinking about them. It makes things so exciting to know how turned on the other person is. Even in unlikely places, (public ) something dirty whispered in an ear can get a great response. Why save that for just the bedroom?
Back in the days when the wife and I had lots and lots of sex...she almost always insisted the bedroom window, or any other room we were in, be closed so the neighbors didn't think she was killing me....ROFL I LOVE VOCAL moans, groans, gasps, dirty talk...one thing that just doesn't make is, " OH, INTERCOURSE ME......INTERCOURSE ME HARDER " DUH! As to the question of rape, I have had a couple lady friends who were raped, and I agree with others here, it's a matter of power, as opposed to playful domination...and one of the things experienced by both acquaintences was the guilt and confusion of have experienced orgasms during the sexual part of the rape....took a long time for them to understand that was their reflex mechanisms heightened by the situation and not THEM who were responsible for the orgasm... but it is truly one of life's uglies times....my sympathies and understanding goes out to anyone, male or female, who has had to experience it.... Jim
PET......... I understand your views on the subject, and who could have a better view than you on this. I am sorry for your experience. But remember, I said that before it was over, the woman would be loving it. I am not for one instant suggesting that someone put themselves out there in a dangerous situation or to be violated. Ya can't rape or violate a willing soul. I am sure it is a touchy subject for you, but if it was set up in the right way, it could be hot, don't you think? For me, the domination part is not the turn-on. Maybe it's the transition from fear to ecstasy. I would never consider this unless I was absolutely positive the outcome was as I described it. Could one ever be sure? I doubt it, but after all, it is just a fantasy.
You said, "But to give youself to another, that is the turn on." At some point in this scenario, you would be giving yourself to another, and possibly, even being the aggressor.
You said, "But to give youself to another, that is the turn on." At some point in this scenario, you would be giving yourself to another, and possibly, even being the aggressor.
Back in the days when the wife and I had lots and lots of sex...she almost always insisted the bedroom window, or any other room we were in, be closed so the neighbors didn't think she was killing me....ROFL I LOVE VOCAL moans, groans, gasps, dirty talk...on thing that just doesn't make is, " OH, INTERCOURSE ME......INTERCOURSE ME HARDER " DUH!
Nuttin sexier than a woman in the throes of passion moaning, "Fuck me."
I love the screamers 
Yes, vocal is great! My baby is very vocal, and I love hearing her receiving pleasure. I can be vocal at times, or, I can be very quiet. I guess it all matters on what is going on.
Ron
Ron
I hate it when she starts moaning and talking dirty.... it means I only have a few strokes left cause I can't hold on knowing she's feeling that good!
LOL TJ......... she makes one sound, I blow my load, and it's time for a cigarette. LMAO
Yeah... sexy noises, moaning and goaning and any aural pleasures definatly bring us close to the edge and make the experience so much more intense.
Althought sometime when meeting people for the first time its difficult to really let yourself go and we find ourselves trying to hold in the moans.
Althought sometime when meeting people for the first time its difficult to really let yourself go and we find ourselves trying to hold in the moans.
We have been reported by our neighbors a few times. The police have knocked on our door before. After they see all is right they smile and tell us to keep it down. I guess we consider that a compliment.
Vocal is a nice way to put it. I am so loud when I cumm people 5 room's down can get off from the sound lol
We live on a lakeside and have people walking by the lake all day long and she gets so loud that they look over to see what is going on. Her climbing to the top of the bed and banging on the windows doesn`t help things either. To this point the police have not been here to arrest me for anything but what a turn on when she starts singing. I agree that men are more quiet including me but I am hoping the hardness is enough of a display that I am indeed enjoying myself. And if I do make noise the wife knows she found yet another majic spot and will make it feel so good that I can`t take it so I try to keep quiet just to make her work harder but guess I just busted myself for putting that in writing.
CFB CPL........ thank you for your input. Your "mock rape" scenario is probably the only way this could work, but her knowing about it might ruin a good part of the turn-on. My idea of this would be her not knowing and eventually becoming a willing and passionate participant. The problem is that you can never know for sure that it would be a good thing for her. So, in reality, it may be impossible to make happen as I visualize it. Whether I am the doer or the watcher ( either way would be just as hot), the chances of it being a bad thing are too great to actually try it. Her not knowing and loving it would be hot. Her knowing would diminish the excitement. Her not loving it would just be rape. That would be wrong.
So your way may be the only way. Your place or mine? LOL
So your way may be the only way. Your place or mine? LOL
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I scream like a teenaged cheerleader when my wife tries to <i>play through</i> with her Titleist clubs. This is especially true when the 9 iron is in my taint region.
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I scream like a teenaged cheerleader when my wife tries to <i>play through</i> with her Titleist clubs. This is especially true when the 9 iron is in my taint region.
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Hey CFB CPL, we got plenty of beaches here. A midnight walk on the beach and I jump out from behind the dunes. She'll love it, I promise. LOL.
I was at a hotel with a woman last week and she was sreaming so loud when I was pumping her from behind that hotel security came to the door to see if everything was OK. I answered the door and they made her come to the door to verify. I guess next time I will bury her head in the pillow.
I can be vocal, but a guy has to coax it out of me. It is always in sincere response to his touching the right places, or being brought to hightened levels. I tend to bite my lip and moan more than scream. Chaulk it up to too many years of training to be quiet when young and at the parents house, or roommates, or just young and married with babies in the next room that if you woke them up the fun was over.
Personally, I like when the guy I am with makes sounds, moans, it shows I'm on the right track since everyone has their own 'trigger spots' I will admit that when in a group it is the various sounds- moans, heavy breathing, slapping bodies etc that are the excitement that comes to mind on replay for days afterward. I will admit that I sometimes wonder when a girl is ulta vocal if she's faking it, (oh baby oh baby.... so porn fake) it can actually distract me, but I probably only think that since I've never gotten so loud the cops where involved
Mrs.Curious
Personally, I like when the guy I am with makes sounds, moans, it shows I'm on the right track since everyone has their own 'trigger spots' I will admit that when in a group it is the various sounds- moans, heavy breathing, slapping bodies etc that are the excitement that comes to mind on replay for days afterward. I will admit that I sometimes wonder when a girl is ulta vocal if she's faking it, (oh baby oh baby.... so porn fake) it can actually distract me, but I probably only think that since I've never gotten so loud the cops where involved
Mrs.Curious
Mrs. Curious, you missed out on some awesome moaning this weekend. Aren't I a sweetheart to point that out? hehe
Oh well... There's always another time..
*sigh*
Oh well... There's always another time..
*sigh*
Well if you were not so far away I would totaly be up for the scenario. I do belive you would have to know that the man attempting to rape you was not a bad man! If it were me Iwould want to know that it was going to happen but not specificaly when. A stop word would be important, or maybe having a word to say incase you were unsure if it was real or not.