There is something I don't get that I would like some clarity and opinions on. I'm a single male (wait don't run away now!!!) and I'm respectful and only look for people interested in single males etc... Though I do have a female friend who is interested in adding a female to our fun. So when I search I naturally only look at the profiles that list single males, females and couples. However what I usually find (to my disappointment) is that when I click on such profiles, people aren't looking for single males at all or even post "NO SINGLE MALES". Now I realize there are a lot of dickheads running around out there ruining it for us good guys but the way I see it if you really aren't interested in single males then why put that in the choices for what you are interested in? Anyone have some insight to this? Same with women that are searching for couples but then when they describe what they are looking for, they are only looking for the woman in the couple and want nothing to really do with the man. Again makes no sense to me. If you aren't interested in the couple as a couple then you should have only selected to be looking for single females. Am I nuts?
Nope not nuts!
Agree with you totally...
There is alot of stigma with certain lifestyle choices and so people tend not to put them or try to cover all bases incase they can connect with the people they want.
But remember a profile is just a static image (they don't get updated that often) and people change what the are looking for (sometimes daily). A profile should entice you to get to know them better... at least thats how we think it should work!
Agree with you totally...
There is alot of stigma with certain lifestyle choices and so people tend not to put them or try to cover all bases incase they can connect with the people they want.
But remember a profile is just a static image (they don't get updated that often) and people change what the are looking for (sometimes daily). A profile should entice you to get to know them better... at least thats how we think it should work!
Thanks I appreciate everyone's commentary and all of it was good stuff. Most were pretty much my same thoughts just voiced by others. I, as a single guy never expect anything but always hope for the best. I've met some cool women and couples in the past and had some great times and I know they are few and far between but when I usually get to meet people I make good friends and often have great times even when it's not a "hook up" (note that's just a figure of speech). Thanks for all the input.
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