Ladies do you think about the times your lover has looked at another male as an outlet for sexual satisfaction. How would you deal with the two getting it on together ?
I do not mind what is the difference most men want the women with women so why can men be with men the same way.... i do not see a difference so i would encourage it if that is what he wanted
Tink
Tink
As far as this lady is concerned, it does not bother me at all to see my husband with another man. This is something that gives him enjoyment and satisifies a side of him that can only be satisfied by a man. If, you love your guy and this gives him sexual enjoyment then you are giving him something that shows you that you love him and respect him for everything that makes him the one that you have chosen to be with. If the man and woman loves each other then you should be able to handle all aspects of each others lives.
bi here
The subject of man on man sex was 1 thing I was scared to talk to my g/f about. But finally 1 night I told her and she said if thats what I wanted then it was ok with her. She has particeapated and even sat back with her toy,s and watched. knowing that latter that night I would make her the object of all my love and attention.
Men with men when women are around is great especially when the ladies decide to run the show. My wife is still getting used to the fact that I'm bi-curious we have been to two all bi parties and have had a blast soon I'm sure she will be directing the action she likes to direct lol.
Norm
Norm
I have to respond to this.....I'm a single black guy that enjoys meeting with fun couples and single ladies for fun times...I am contacted by quite a few couples where the guy wants to be "orally" bi with me...However I am not interested in that sort of thing....If it is brought up prior to meeting then everything is taken care of.. ie.. we dont meet...but when it is not brought up prior to , oh boy , it creates quite a commotion to say the least. As an open minded individual, I say to each their own..but that still means that there are some out there that are not comfortable with certain things...
Big Jay
Big Jay
BigJohnson,
Like all other limits, that should be discussed beforehand. If we are interested in playing with a guy, we clarify all that upfront. If that (bi stuff) isn't something he is into, then fine, we don't go there. However, it's pretty closed minded when a guy (single or as part of a couple) is so freaked out that a bi guy would even be present (even when it is abundantly clear that bi stuff will NOT go on) that it's a deal breaker--but, its better in the long run, cause we don't want to know that type of person. Same thing is true, incidently, of bi females as part of a couple. We discuss up front that Mrs. B here isn't bi, and that is enough, she doesn't freak out that she may be in the presence of a bi female, because the limits are established.
Interesting thread, and so far it has been positive...that's encouraging. And as far as Mrs. B, she doesn't just allow bi male stuff, she actually enjoys it, but it is rarely just a male-on-male thing, afterall we are playing as a couple.
Mr. B
Like all other limits, that should be discussed beforehand. If we are interested in playing with a guy, we clarify all that upfront. If that (bi stuff) isn't something he is into, then fine, we don't go there. However, it's pretty closed minded when a guy (single or as part of a couple) is so freaked out that a bi guy would even be present (even when it is abundantly clear that bi stuff will NOT go on) that it's a deal breaker--but, its better in the long run, cause we don't want to know that type of person. Same thing is true, incidently, of bi females as part of a couple. We discuss up front that Mrs. B here isn't bi, and that is enough, she doesn't freak out that she may be in the presence of a bi female, because the limits are established.
Interesting thread, and so far it has been positive...that's encouraging. And as far as Mrs. B, she doesn't just allow bi male stuff, she actually enjoys it, but it is rarely just a male-on-male thing, afterall we are playing as a couple.
Mr. B
Since I live here in Atlanta, I run across gay, bi and curious men all the time. Men here are on the DL because they are not open to their women about what they want sexually. I am Not Gay, Nor bi or even curious. I do love Anal sex performed on me but from a woman. I am not going to let a man do anything to me, but I dont mind women. So all that said just be safe and if your woman is cool with you and another man, so be it have fun.
SEX IS SEX, IF IT WAS MORE THEN THAT GOD WOULD HAVE KEPT IT FOR HIMSELF
SEX IS SEX, IF IT WAS MORE THEN THAT GOD WOULD HAVE KEPT IT FOR HIMSELF
what I want to know is why it's so hard to find a guy willing to admit he might be curious?
Good point, LEESANDEE,
We have found that there are a substantial number of guys, single or coupled, that put "straight" on their profile but are very much at least curious or willing to do some bi stuff when with a couple. Some don't consider themselves truly bi, because they wouldnt meet a guy alone--and its a label, like others, that one must self identify with as it isnt our place to ascribe it to them. Others don't want their straight swinging friends to know, and we certainly aren't going to breach discretion. The point is that there are many more bi or bi curious guys out there than the profiles indicate.
We have found that there are a substantial number of guys, single or coupled, that put "straight" on their profile but are very much at least curious or willing to do some bi stuff when with a couple. Some don't consider themselves truly bi, because they wouldnt meet a guy alone--and its a label, like others, that one must self identify with as it isnt our place to ascribe it to them. Others don't want their straight swinging friends to know, and we certainly aren't going to breach discretion. The point is that there are many more bi or bi curious guys out there than the profiles indicate.
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I think the same can be said for bi-females. While I have no interest in males and my wife is bi-curious, we've found a lot of women who aren't totally upfront about their orientation. We think that not advertising it is totally acceptable. People fear pressure and aren't always ready to act on their curiosity. While some of you are cool and won't pressure, there are plenty of people that do. That is why my wife no longer advertises as "curious".
One of the main "musts" in swinging is tolerance and acceptance. We respect anyone's lifestyle choices. We only have issues with those that do not respect ours. There are plenty of really cool homosexual and bisexual people in the world. We come from Oregon; a much more tolerant state than the one we currently reside. The issue seems way more blown out of proportion in conservative states.
I think what matters are the choices people have made for themselves. I don't think idividuals of any orientation should ever consider it ok to make sexual contact without first establishing that it is ok with the other person. It doesn't matter what you think the person is into.
If we were to point out wrongs that are commited by bisexuals or homosexuals, it would be lame tactics to guilt or persuade straight people into homosexual acts. I've heard everything from, "Everyone has homosexual desires" to "if you were trully open minded, it wouldn't matter". I find tactics like that despicible. An individual knows what they want or desire. I can honestly say I have never had a homosexual urge. If it happens to everyone, it hasn't happened to me yet. LOL!
I have had guys hit on me and even proposition me. Most are very respectful when I decline, however, I have been pressured as if my decision was somehow against my nature, according to the other person. If I were bi or gay, I wouldn't give a fuck what people think. Just as I could give a fuck now what any of you think about what I write here. I think if I were gay, I would be the most flamboyant son of a bitch here. LOL. Wait, I am the most... ahh nevermind HAHAHA!
Anyway, I think you should fuck whoever you want, that is legal and willing to fuck you too. As long as you respect the decisions of others and they do the same for you, it doesn't fuckin matter. We'll befriend who we want. Anyone not willing to befriend someone based on sexuality is a fuckin dimwit. However, anyone that assumes that everyone shares their same sexual orientation is a fuckin dimwit. That's my 2¢
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I think the same can be said for bi-females. While I have no interest in males and my wife is bi-curious, we've found a lot of women who aren't totally upfront about their orientation. We think that not advertising it is totally acceptable. People fear pressure and aren't always ready to act on their curiosity. While some of you are cool and won't pressure, there are plenty of people that do. That is why my wife no longer advertises as "curious".
One of the main "musts" in swinging is tolerance and acceptance. We respect anyone's lifestyle choices. We only have issues with those that do not respect ours. There are plenty of really cool homosexual and bisexual people in the world. We come from Oregon; a much more tolerant state than the one we currently reside. The issue seems way more blown out of proportion in conservative states.
I think what matters are the choices people have made for themselves. I don't think idividuals of any orientation should ever consider it ok to make sexual contact without first establishing that it is ok with the other person. It doesn't matter what you think the person is into.
If we were to point out wrongs that are commited by bisexuals or homosexuals, it would be lame tactics to guilt or persuade straight people into homosexual acts. I've heard everything from, "Everyone has homosexual desires" to "if you were trully open minded, it wouldn't matter". I find tactics like that despicible. An individual knows what they want or desire. I can honestly say I have never had a homosexual urge. If it happens to everyone, it hasn't happened to me yet. LOL!
I have had guys hit on me and even proposition me. Most are very respectful when I decline, however, I have been pressured as if my decision was somehow against my nature, according to the other person. If I were bi or gay, I wouldn't give a fuck what people think. Just as I could give a fuck now what any of you think about what I write here. I think if I were gay, I would be the most flamboyant son of a bitch here. LOL. Wait, I am the most... ahh nevermind HAHAHA!
Anyway, I think you should fuck whoever you want, that is legal and willing to fuck you too. As long as you respect the decisions of others and they do the same for you, it doesn't fuckin matter. We'll befriend who we want. Anyone not willing to befriend someone based on sexuality is a fuckin dimwit. However, anyone that assumes that everyone shares their same sexual orientation is a fuckin dimwit. That's my 2¢
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I love to watch women, at the same time I would like to experience the other side. Because of this curiosity I wouldn't be likely to be disrespectful of a couple that didn't want bi. Enjoy what you can while you can.
Didnt want to see this thread end so as far as we are concerned If it feels good do it. Pretty simple to us.
As a male who only recently enjoyed giving his first blowjob to another male I can tell you that for men it is overcoming the fear that the experience will some how change you. It doesn't. If a man iw respectful, honest, caring and open he will be so after a bi experience. If a man is somewhat of a jerk before a bi experience, he will be afterwards also.
The couple with whom I played the night of my first BJ were perfect for the experience. She loves watching her husband give oral sex to a man, and receiving oral sex from a man. She even helped by telling what techniques to us that would make the experience more enjoyable. The man and I have a lot in common and it appears we may become good friends as well as casual playmates.
The lady even suggested to her husband that he might want to play around during times she is working.
I guess what I'm saying is that the sex between men is just as enjoyable as between man and woman. We set boundaries on certain activities and the sex between me and his wife. We spent one whole night before we played together just talking about ground rules. When the sex finally happened it was natural, spontaneous, and extremely joyful.
Oh, and for you guys out there that are curious but won't admit it. try bananas first.
The couple with whom I played the night of my first BJ were perfect for the experience. She loves watching her husband give oral sex to a man, and receiving oral sex from a man. She even helped by telling what techniques to us that would make the experience more enjoyable. The man and I have a lot in common and it appears we may become good friends as well as casual playmates.
The lady even suggested to her husband that he might want to play around during times she is working.
I guess what I'm saying is that the sex between men is just as enjoyable as between man and woman. We set boundaries on certain activities and the sex between me and his wife. We spent one whole night before we played together just talking about ground rules. When the sex finally happened it was natural, spontaneous, and extremely joyful.
Oh, and for you guys out there that are curious but won't admit it. try bananas first.
I enjoy and live for it!