T4,
Well the thing is.....we have over 2200 views on our profile and those people have probably got as much action off this site as us. I think there are ALOT of fakers out there in Swingular land.
We have all but given up on meeting real swingers on this site, (maybe we need to fly out East and hook up with some of you real swingers!!!) I mainly use the site now for the forum, hopefully I will be proven wrong.
~K~
Well the thing is.....we have over 2200 views on our profile and those people have probably got as much action off this site as us. I think there are ALOT of fakers out there in Swingular land.
We have all but given up on meeting real swingers on this site, (maybe we need to fly out East and hook up with some of you real swingers!!!) I mainly use the site now for the forum, hopefully I will be proven wrong.
~K~
Thats just cause they have not come our way 
Sexypants!!! Long time......
You are closer than ever, but still so far away
Geography sucks huh?!
Why haven't you came down and done us yet?
-Hopeful in the south
You are closer than ever, but still so far away
Geography sucks huh?!
Why haven't you came down and done us yet?
-Hopeful in the south
Well, I must say that hooking up with others for some fun has been much more frustrating than we ever expected, but as Valence said, " this IS the internet." We do meet a few from time to time, but it is a chore.
Classy........ you know we luv ya, and as far as you coming east........ Don't let the door hit ya in the ass! LOL.
Classy........ you know we luv ya, and as far as you coming east........ Don't let the door hit ya in the ass! LOL.
T4
I don't know if i would call all of them fakes but i would say a lot of people get on this site and others like it because of curiousity and decide it is not for them.Others get on to see how many pictures can be collected.And some i think get on here thinking they are going to find that elusive ken and barbie that will play with them and they do not want to settle for less.As for us we will meet anyone that is close enough to us or that are coming to our area,so bring yourself down here.We don't always play but we try to be friends with everyone we meet.
Phil
I don't know if i would call all of them fakes but i would say a lot of people get on this site and others like it because of curiousity and decide it is not for them.Others get on to see how many pictures can be collected.And some i think get on here thinking they are going to find that elusive ken and barbie that will play with them and they do not want to settle for less.As for us we will meet anyone that is close enough to us or that are coming to our area,so bring yourself down here.We don't always play but we try to be friends with everyone we meet.
Phil
I've been a member since November 2005, I've been viewed 175 times, I've received a few emails, and I have sent out several emails, but I cant say I have ever met anyone from THIS site.
I occassionally look for new single women on the site, I then sit quietly for a month and watch to see how active they are. If the profile pops up, and then sits dead, I figure it as a fake. If it pops up, but the member stays active a few times a week, then I write. Problem is, I have never gottan a reply. The only mail I get is from the webmaster telling me about the contest, or the site went down. I have gotten two letters from single women, but they were scammers, looking for someone to send them money. I report these profiles asap, with a copy of their letter.
A dreaded single male....
I occassionally look for new single women on the site, I then sit quietly for a month and watch to see how active they are. If the profile pops up, and then sits dead, I figure it as a fake. If it pops up, but the member stays active a few times a week, then I write. Problem is, I have never gottan a reply. The only mail I get is from the webmaster telling me about the contest, or the site went down. I have gotten two letters from single women, but they were scammers, looking for someone to send them money. I report these profiles asap, with a copy of their letter.
A dreaded single male....
We have been on this site a cpl of yrs now and have only met a cpl of people we belong to other swing sites and we meet a LOT of people it seems to us more people are using swingular for the forums then again we are in North Florida Not Utah where it seems like the ACTIVE lifestyle cpls seem to be if we were in South Florida maybe we would get more contacts on swingular then it could be due to the fact we are as old as dirt too lol.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
Maybe is like us, for the longest time we were in the hibernating stage.. but now that got confortable we came out of that two weeks ago and started meeting people... it's been fun so far but I think everybody is different
Stupid noob-esque question, but how does one check how many page views they have?
we have met all our "friends" at events and clubs that we learned of on this site. met them on line first then at the club or party later...
but were not looking for a quick fuck either. just some fun....
but were not looking for a quick fuck either. just some fun....
SF DUDE. no question is really ever dumb, we all learn by asking and you never know when someone else may have the same question. On your profile, under other details you will see TOTAL VIEWS... that will give your answer.
Just of few of our observations regarding your questions and comments;
We have been here just over 2 years and have over 19,000 views. One thing that really racks the numbers up is being in the chat room. Seems people like to look at who they are chatting with. Second is having an attractive picture of some kind that draws people in. Whenever we update our public pictures, our number of views immediately jumps.
Our view of the profiles you are mentioning probably dont get alot of attention because very few have pictures, the personal information is very bland or nothing at all, they dont seem to visit the chat room, and..... because the cost to join is so cheap, we believe alot of curiousity seekers and voyuers just sign up, log in occassionally to check out pictures and leave.
As for meeting people from this sight, our success has been limited. To us, it seems people migrate into groups or cliques that are hard to become a part of. Geography presents a major issue, (seems like we are always finding people we want to meet but they are sooooo far away). And finding the time and place where you dont stand out in the crowd and announce you are a swinger is tough. Some of us still want to maintain some amenimity(sp).
We love to have alot of naughty fun and have found alot of good people from this sight at one of the clubs we frequent, but seldom have been invited back for any extra ciricular activity.. and thats probably alot of our own fault. We may give off the wrong impressions. I think often we all may need to look deep into ourselves and see what impressions we are making and see if perhaps that is limiting our relationships. That being said, we also dont believe in taking one for the team. Its difficult to find couples where everyone is mutiually attracted.
Just of few of our observations regarding your questions and comments;
We have been here just over 2 years and have over 19,000 views. One thing that really racks the numbers up is being in the chat room. Seems people like to look at who they are chatting with. Second is having an attractive picture of some kind that draws people in. Whenever we update our public pictures, our number of views immediately jumps.
Our view of the profiles you are mentioning probably dont get alot of attention because very few have pictures, the personal information is very bland or nothing at all, they dont seem to visit the chat room, and..... because the cost to join is so cheap, we believe alot of curiousity seekers and voyuers just sign up, log in occassionally to check out pictures and leave.
As for meeting people from this sight, our success has been limited. To us, it seems people migrate into groups or cliques that are hard to become a part of. Geography presents a major issue, (seems like we are always finding people we want to meet but they are sooooo far away). And finding the time and place where you dont stand out in the crowd and announce you are a swinger is tough. Some of us still want to maintain some amenimity(sp).
We love to have alot of naughty fun and have found alot of good people from this sight at one of the clubs we frequent, but seldom have been invited back for any extra ciricular activity.. and thats probably alot of our own fault. We may give off the wrong impressions. I think often we all may need to look deep into ourselves and see what impressions we are making and see if perhaps that is limiting our relationships. That being said, we also dont believe in taking one for the team. Its difficult to find couples where everyone is mutiually attracted.
You will have to view your own profile. Its the last stat under OTHER DETAILS
Hey T... long time no see.
We have 6,461 views but "views" don't necessarily tell the story. We get a lot of views from folks who like our written profile, some come back yearly to say howdy looking for a profile update. (last update was 2002)
But the last time we received an "e-mail of interest" on this board Knots Landing was the number 1 show. So we rarely check this website.
The last time I was in this forum there was some kind of "Donnie" take over? Some silly fugger in EVERY POST hanging from a tire porch swing stressing my dial up modem with 2 megs of graphics so I could read "Hey Dewayne" what's up you narly dude)
I figured he was running for some political office, did he get elected?
We have 6,461 views but "views" don't necessarily tell the story. We get a lot of views from folks who like our written profile, some come back yearly to say howdy looking for a profile update. (last update was 2002)
But the last time we received an "e-mail of interest" on this board Knots Landing was the number 1 show. So we rarely check this website.
The last time I was in this forum there was some kind of "Donnie" take over? Some silly fugger in EVERY POST hanging from a tire porch swing stressing my dial up modem with 2 megs of graphics so I could read "Hey Dewayne" what's up you narly dude)
I figured he was running for some political office, did he get elected?
I really don't understand why we have little luck with COUPLES.
We are a REAL couple, who really swing, and really want to meet people. So thinking on it I have come up with a couple of reasons why.
Maybe its because we are NOT interested in single fems? I have noticed that the majority of females on here are BI, and I am not, so I think that could have an impact on our success with having couples want to meet us.
I think the MAJOR problem we have had is with Geography, we are down in in No-swingers land and to make the drive to SLC to meet someone who "doesn't play on the first date" or "wants to be friends first" is just not going to happen. Not sluts, but then again, yes we are! We are in this for the Sex I'm not gonna lie to ya! We don't want to make 2 trips to SLC on a maybe.
I'm not going to tell you we have never met anyone on this site, just that we don't really EXPECT to anymore, haven't given up yet, but we are feeling like its kind of a lost cause sometimes.
I think the forum is fun enough to keep up on, great pics and stories, I don't have any swinger friends so I love the interaction of it. I will probably always be here couple times a week, raising hell!
~K~
We are a REAL couple, who really swing, and really want to meet people. So thinking on it I have come up with a couple of reasons why.
Maybe its because we are NOT interested in single fems? I have noticed that the majority of females on here are BI, and I am not, so I think that could have an impact on our success with having couples want to meet us.
I think the MAJOR problem we have had is with Geography, we are down in in No-swingers land and to make the drive to SLC to meet someone who "doesn't play on the first date" or "wants to be friends first" is just not going to happen. Not sluts, but then again, yes we are! We are in this for the Sex I'm not gonna lie to ya! We don't want to make 2 trips to SLC on a maybe.
I'm not going to tell you we have never met anyone on this site, just that we don't really EXPECT to anymore, haven't given up yet, but we are feeling like its kind of a lost cause sometimes.
I think the forum is fun enough to keep up on, great pics and stories, I don't have any swinger friends so I love the interaction of it. I will probably always be here couple times a week, raising hell!
~K~
We lived in northeastern utah for while and had to drive back and forth to salt lake also. But we enjoyed doing it and met alot of fun people, We moved to Texas in Feb and not much action at all from Swingular down here. We are also on SLS and AFF which seems to work much better down here. Anyway, we had our first house warming house party and damn did the house get warm. Almost on fire to be truthful. LOL!! Invited 4 couples for a meet & greet and it turned into a nekked pool party and then...sorry, no details! We had a blast! So, real people do exist and they really swing. Keep looking!
those with the boring profiles would still have a lot of views,a person would have to view it to find it boring.most likely those with the fewest views would be the ones without a picture,be honest how many do you look at with no pic,and are not signed on very much to get their name out there.using T4 as an example i checked his profile only because we were both discussing the same thread without that he would have one less view.even when a person checks to see who is online how many people look at those without a pic?
Phil
Phil
I guess our problem is just the opposite of CLASSY. We have a hard time finding couples that don't want to play on the first date. Or couples that understand that only she plays and he watches her play. She isn't bi either (maybe someday) so it narrows our choices down. We would love to meet a couple that likes to hang out and go out and sometimes play with her while his wife and I just sit back and watch. I guess we can keep dreaming. Other than that problem we had pretty good luck with finding and meeting some nice single guys on here that love to show her a good time.
T4 i don't really find any profiles boring just those that lack substance,and i know ours ain't the greatest but at least there is something.normally i will not look at a profile without a picture
our pic is there for all to see.some people play the discrete game but that really doesn't wash either because if someone sees it then they are here looking also.and yes i do try to stay close to home with the profiles i check out other than like i said the ones in the thread.hell if their profile is provacative enough it just might be time for a road trip.
Phil
our pic is there for all to see.some people play the discrete game but that really doesn't wash either because if someone sees it then they are here looking also.and yes i do try to stay close to home with the profiles i check out other than like i said the ones in the thread.hell if their profile is provacative enough it just might be time for a road trip.
Phil
hell we lives in provo for 6 months and we did meet some very nice couples out there annd had some fun but it was even hard in utah to meet couples who were not into it for the reasons we say we are here they were into it for all the wrong reasons but none the less there are alot of sexy couples there. but it does seam that when you reach a certain age you are left out when it comes to sex with young people
I agree I don't really pay attention to profiles w/o pics unless they add me as a friend or post on the forums.
Speaking of forums, can't help but wonder if my time spent on the forum doesn't add to our problems with hooking up. I know there's a couple of people I would not care to meet after their posts in the forum, but on the other hand, there's alot of people on my "want to fuck" list simply because I liked what I heard in the forum.
I guess men just don't like sassy, outspoken, aggressive women? or..................do they?
~K~
Speaking of forums, can't help but wonder if my time spent on the forum doesn't add to our problems with hooking up. I know there's a couple of people I would not care to meet after their posts in the forum, but on the other hand, there's alot of people on my "want to fuck" list simply because I liked what I heard in the forum.
I guess men just don't like sassy, outspoken, aggressive women? or..................do they?
~K~