I just wonder why it is so cliquish in our lifestyle. I am a single male and everytime i come in the chat room, i always say "hello everyone" or "what is up room". . .and i dont get an answer unless it is ramic, pinegrove, a few others. . .have i done something wrong on the site to piss everyone off? just wondering!
No worries we are a couple that has been on for awhile. We as of late has had the same problems. The crowd has changed alot since we first started going to the chat room. Not that any of the new peeps our bad its just seems we do not know alot of people in there any more. We r trying to get to know the new bunch. So i guess the best advice we can give is to hang in there and eventually we will all get to know you and chat more often. Im sure it wont work as good for you but the best conversation starter for us is when i flash my tits lol 
Amanda and Haden xoxoxoxoxoxxo
Amanda and Haden xoxoxoxoxoxxoActually, Amanda, sometimes when I get to see you flash your beauties - it leaves me speechless! Don't stop!
Amanda,I to get a bit quiet when you flash those nice boobs. Probably because the blood is flowing from my brain to other parts
LOL Well thanks guys.
sorry i forgot to say Haden does say hi too!!! see i knew i was forgetting some people..it is just crazy...how many times do you say hello room before you just say forget it!
From my perspective, it's not that way at all. I think people DO tend to be cautious. There are lurkers that have the potential to harm and it takes a while to get to know who's real and who's not.
That said - continue to be friendly and polite and you'll find people are the same way back.
-Te
That said - continue to be friendly and polite and you'll find people are the same way back.
-Te
Cliquish? I'm not so sure. While I will acknowledge that there is a general tendency for people to greet others that they know and are familiar with, I'm not sure that's enough to draw the 'clique' conclusion. As Te said above, people tend to keep to themselves until they get to know people. Sometimes part of getting to know everyone is just hanging around, and observing the conversation; as such there is no shortage of people in the chat who will say nothing to you unless you have said something to them.
Of course, other social quirks apply to the chat than just familiarity. There
Of course, other social quirks apply to the chat than just familiarity. There
We are long time members who use to go to the chat room allot and put on shows on a regular basis , but not anymore seems like this place has changed a great deal from when we first joined years back. When we do pop into the chat room it's either dead with very few people in it or a whole bunch when you say hi nobody says anything in return and the cam slots are all taken up by guys or people who are not even showing themselves and just showing an empty room so we just quit trying and cam somewhere else now. It's a real shame we really use to love coming on here on or nights off.
RIPBECKI....Where do you cam now?