I personally can't tell you how to make this happen, but I think that it is a good idea. Finding a mate to experience this with seems like a great idea for a single, especially male. It opens a lot more doors for you, and you would have a person that already understands your interest and intentions.
When I was single I had a surprising amount of replies when on the dating services by putting that I was looking for a bi-sex partner who was open minded and interested in alternative relationship in my profile.
It is a good thing to have a partner that enables and encourages you within the scope of what you both want to experience. Seems like it would be the same in the lifestyle.
Good luck in your quest.
Michael
When I was single I had a surprising amount of replies when on the dating services by putting that I was looking for a bi-sex partner who was open minded and interested in alternative relationship in my profile.
It is a good thing to have a partner that enables and encourages you within the scope of what you both want to experience. Seems like it would be the same in the lifestyle.
Good luck in your quest.
Michael