We are just wondering if anyone has had to deal with their family or friends finding out they are in this lifestyle?? Definitely not something we want to have to deal with but how do you if the situation arises?
Most of our families and many of our friends know that we participate in the lifestyle. There really wasn't a time when they "found out", or we were "discovered". Siren and I are probably more candid about it than the average couple.
It's all good and has worked well for us.
~J&L~
It's all good and has worked well for us.
~J&L~
Jim's family has no clue, and if they did find out we would be looked down on....
And all of are friends know, we have always been up front with them, and all of them dont really seam to care...
And as for my family, most of them know, but the really mormon sister and my dad have no clue.
If they did find out i dont know what they would think.....AND I REALLY DONT CARE
And all of are friends know, we have always been up front with them, and all of them dont really seam to care...
And as for my family, most of them know, but the really mormon sister and my dad have no clue.
If they did find out i dont know what they would think.....AND I REALLY DONT CARE
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Yes they have and we don't care. <u>No one</u> should be afraid to have anyone find out. Ideally, society should not concern themselves with what one does behind closed doors as long as all parties are legal consentual adults. The only people that still wish to judge are the idiots that are trying to somehow force a relious dogma on the entire populous many of whom are hypocrites because they follow no such moral code. Additionally, the Christian Bible states repeatedly that we should not judge, that god gave us free will to choose, yet there are countless hypocrite morons that live in my state that do it without restraint. I also see it in the workplace. What the fuck is up with that???
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Yes they have and we don't care. <u>No one</u> should be afraid to have anyone find out. Ideally, society should not concern themselves with what one does behind closed doors as long as all parties are legal consentual adults. The only people that still wish to judge are the idiots that are trying to somehow force a relious dogma on the entire populous many of whom are hypocrites because they follow no such moral code. Additionally, the Christian Bible states repeatedly that we should not judge, that god gave us free will to choose, yet there are countless hypocrite morons that live in my state that do it without restraint. I also see it in the workplace. What the fuck is up with that???
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His sister found out through his stupidity...He IM'd her on yahoo...she looked at his profile...BOOM...The ways to dessiminate information television, telegraph, telephone, tellesister...Sooooo EVeryone knows...He does not care...She is a little more cautious...In our opinion...Who's business is it anyway? It has not caused any problems...The sister actually sends people who contact her our way...LOL
In my family there is open communication and honesty. that being said I have never disclosed the fact that I participate in this lifestyle for 3 reasons.
the first is that it simply is no ones business but mine. the second is that while ther is open and honest communication ther is very little tolerance and you can bet my parents would do all that they could to make me change my ways. the third is that I am a single fulll time fater of 2 small children and this lifestyle, at least in florida, could cause me to loose my children ad that aint gonna happen.
-Richard
the first is that it simply is no ones business but mine. the second is that while ther is open and honest communication ther is very little tolerance and you can bet my parents would do all that they could to make me change my ways. the third is that I am a single fulll time fater of 2 small children and this lifestyle, at least in florida, could cause me to loose my children ad that aint gonna happen.
-Richard