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Hey everyone, I was thinking that where I come from we am the "Naughty ones" and my friends all would describe us as eccentric, (and if they only knew!), but being in this lifestyle has opened up my eyes to a whole new world. I will call it "The naughty crowd!"
We don't have any "naughty" friends, I don't have anyone to discuss swinging with except my best friend who is gay, and the people I have met on this site.
Anyway, I would love to hear some "Naughty crowd" stories, I know you all have one or two! maybe how you got into the lifestyle or a first experience, maybe a swap gone wrong, I don't know! Lets have some fun with this one!

~Mrs~
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Hmmm...I have a few stories. Hehehe.

Enjoy....

I guess it was the words that first drew her attention. So she contacted me. We did the online "Safety Dance" for a couple of weeks. When the time came we both made the arrangements to meet.

This is the Word folks. Online Dating Etiquette...even for Kinks.

(Let people know where you are, who you're with. Set up a "Safety Call". 'Nuff Said. It's just the Sane thing to do.)

Our conversations, IM, Phone...Cam play...was hot. We talked limits, we agreed upon them. We had the proper "Safe Words" in place. There was no mistaking what would happen once we disposed of formalities. Unless our chemistry turned into a total train wreck, we would probably descend into some form of Animal Sex.

And so it was. Rain, dinner, the two-car drive back to my place. Lovely. I kissed her and she bit me. I took her by the throat - and applied pressure. There is a certain satisfaction when you look into the eyes of your sub - cutting off her air supply, hearing the wet noises of empty swallows, watching the eyes turn to fire as the juices truly begin to flow. Watching for that telltale moment when the fire recedes...when a dull sheen appears and fear begins creep in.

You will know much about a sub in that moment. You will learn all you will ever need to know about your D/s relationship and the level of Trust you will achieve. You will know by watching the fear...by watching what happens to it.

She. She took the fear and cast it aside. I watched it fade in a flicker, cut down by the calm smile of one emotion.

Trust.


I let her go, pull in new breath, and took her to the bedroom, bound her and allowed her the privilege of feeling my hands and a new set of virgin, hardwood paddles. Her ass reddened, but did not mark. I moved to a four-tail, applied to her breasts, thighs and ass. She gasped, cried and moaned.


She begged.


I held her, praised her for being such a good sub and continued to apply Domination. She yielded to me, but I was not out to break her
K T,
Wow, that was soooooo Fucking Hot! um um um!
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Thanks!

It's the true story of the first date of Ms. K_T and me.

(sigh) good times...

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DAMN!!!!!
Kinbaku....why does that NOT surprise me??

~J~
Very sick but to each his own. Hopefully no one gets hurt
Swap gone wrong.. I really had to dig this one out of the memory trash- I'd seriously deep sixed it, hubby had to bring it up just now so I could even remember! but ewwww
We'd been emailing this couple for a couple weeks, seemed very equally matched and met for dinner, had a great time. We made a date to get together the next weekend in a hotel room. We arrived first, paid for the room and waited, sexual excitement building all the while. They show up about an hour late for starters (a HUGE pet peeve of mine) and the cute couple we saw the week before had vanished. Clothes looked like they had been laying on the floor for weeks, she was all excited to show me the lingerie she had picked to wear (since we'd discussed I have a lingerie fetish) and it looked like she had borrowed it from her mom! The lace was torn, it didn't fit her and Im sure it was dirty too. He was unshaved/scruffy and his clothes and hands were filthy, like he'd been working on his car. We didn't know what to do, we both gave eachother the 'we need to run' look and at this point we both just wanted them out of 'our' hotel room so at least we could still have hot hotel sex. She excused herself to the bathroom to 'freshen' up and he quickly started getting naked. We were glued at the hip and whispering our escape plan, I made hubby be the one to break the news that they were NOT getting laid tonight! Just as my hubby was about to talk, the guy turned to him and asked if he could suck him off (huge NO) startling us both, and she emerged from the bathroom naked and said 'just had to take out my tampon' Thats when I noticed a small trickle of blood on her inner thigh. I am sure I actually visibly shuddered. Thank goodness my husband found his voice and said he was sorry but he just wasnt getting the right vibe and we were going to go. They stayed the night in OUR hotel room and we went home! Just goes to show, it takes all kinds and some lessons cost more than others ;)
Mrs.Curious, with Mr filling in the details!
Thank goodness we've had many postitive sexperiences that outweigh the negative, although it was about a year before we ventured out to new couples after this one! ah, the tried and true, gotta love ya!
if you didn't shudder I just did... wow alright I need to go burn that post out of my memory I'll be back later.

Josh
Alright back.

Every now and then a post will pop up on here talking about meeting a couple outside the lifestyle and wanting to ask "Are you swingers?"

Last year my family and I moved up to Spokane Washington and once we got settled in got to know our neighbors. Turned out the couple next door was near our age and had a daughter close to our sons age, so instant parental friendship since our little ones hit it off.
After a while of getting to know them we became better friends and that question started to kind of creep up in my mind. One sunday looking through a swinger website I happend across a couple who lived in our town, about our age similar intrests and they looked vaguely fimiliar. it wasn't till I got further into their photo albums that I recognized the tattoo on the male half of our neighbors upper arm.
I started laughing and called out to my wife "you'll never believe this!" I kept laughing and told her "I knew there was another reason we got along so well."

Turned out that we weren't what they normally look for in fuck buddies but the friendship we had built up more then made up for the differences. So its been a year and occassionally we still get together for fun time. Its nice to be able to go over to each others houses on the premise of a sleep over and just wait for the little ones to tire themselves out. Then tire ourselves out.

Not sure if thats the kind of stuff your looking for but I find it amusing.

Josh
OK...OK...OK...Horror story...Stand back!!!!

We met on another LARGE adult site (no names...a**)...We played after a bit of chatting and flriting online...ENded up moving in together...After a few weeks of discussions we decided we wanted to continue "the lifestyle" due to unfulfilled fantasies, and this is our first club encounter:

We went to a club, more like a house party, but it is a club. We felt a NEED to hook up and play as we did not know the rules and etiquette. There were pornos playing in every room, people making out, etc. We have all been the newbie...

Anyway I (male typing) went to the restroom after asking if she would be OK for a few by herself. When I returned, she was talking to a couple. The man was a little guy, MAYBE 5' 4", the lady was large, as a sidebar, I prefer thicker women, to her that meant heavy. She did not understand that thick meant curvy, not heavy. Not all heavy women are curvy and not all thin women lack curves, but she did not understand that at this point, plus her distorted view of herself...Anyway...The lady was wider than tall.

I looked at the man and thought, "Well, he is small, but sort of handsome I guess" keep in mind, I am NOT bi, so I have no clue what handsome is apparently. Looked at her and thought, "Well....I reckon she is doable...Hell...I can take one for the team" so we proceeded.

We went into the hot tub with the couple, talked a little, started to make out, and I went to performm oral on this woman and there was a distinct flavor that was NOT good. She, wanting to experience a woman for the first time, began a sequence of heading towards this woman's vaginal area, I gave her the, "NO...DON'T DO IT!!!!" look, but she did not catch on (we had only been together for a couple of months at that point). She stuck her tongue out, started to move towards her, and all I could think was, "GOD, this is gonna suck" and the face she made when it touched this woman, OMFG....I knew she would NEVER go near a vagina again.

We ended up going into a room. Started to make out, caressing, oral, etc. The other guy was having a blast, meanwhile, this lady was performing oral and I was so turned off, I was not even erect ( a breeze makes me erect, so this is NOT a good sign). After a short while, the other man suddenly jumps off of my girl, pulls off the condom and pops his man jam on this woman's chest. FINALLY, I thought, I can stop with this lady. SO I IMMEDIATELY went back to my girl, she came to me.

We started to caress and feel safe. I almost instantaneously gained an erection, being new togther, we were still using crash helmets, so I wispered to her, "Get a condom, klets get it on" so she did, as I put it on, this woman bends over, spreads her vagina and ass open, and says, "Oh yeah, give it to me baby!" I looked at her, looked at Sandra, looked at her...What am I supposed to do, so I felt obligated to have sex with this woman. I entered her from behind, USUALLY the easiest way for me to have a poor performance, but as God often does, he played a joke on me...Gave me my A++++ game, I COULD NOT cum. Sandra was massaging my balls, I was thinking EVERY sexy thought I could, ANYTHING to make me cum...but nope...A++++ game was here.

FINALLY, I came and felt I was done. Sandra comes to me, "We gotta go NOW" so we get our clothes...we are in the parking lot, half dressed, she is crying, OMFG, what a mess.

We get into the car, she is crying and not able to string 2 words together, let alone a sentence. Speaking half German, half English. Finally, I get her calmed down, she says, "I was doing him because I thought you would like her!"

Moral of the story: COMMUNICATE BEFORE PLAYING!!!!!!!!

BTW, found out why hse tasted funny. Abotu 6 months later, Sandra was in the bathroom, just out of the shower, and who can deny a nice freshly shaved and washed vagina? Not me, that's for sure! So as I get close, she says, "NO, don't, I had monostat in there last night!" I did not care, it was last night...So I took a lick, guess what it tasted like...Come on now, take a wild guess.

It tasted EXACTLY like thae woman from the club!!!!!

*insert barf noise here*
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Pride,

Thanks for your comment in the forum regarding the story. I assure you that no one got hurt and no one has gotten hurt (although the possibility does exist). I've been trained by nationally recognized Dom's/Domme's - Masters/slaves and I have personally experienced pretty much everything I put my subs/slaves and partners through in a scene. I do this specifically so I know what the experience is like.

I also a trained EMTs and CPR for quite a while, so if there is a need for any medical treatment I am qualified to give it.

Before ANY scene is performed lengthy conversations are conducted outlining expectations, limits (both hard and soft) and just general conversation so we get to know what will happen, who we are and whether the chemistry is right.

I make sure my contact information is passed onto them well beforehand (at least a few days) so they have the opportunity to pass it on to anyone they need for safety sake and I encourage them to run my name through the sex offender's database (so they can be sure I'm not on it - which I'm not).

Also, I offer contracts. These outline the scene, what is agreed to, what the limits are, what the safe word( s ) are and any other pertinent information. Both parties sign and voila - a legal document.

I just wanted to let you know that I do appreciate your view and not all of us are "deviants" out to hurt people. Many of us are Safe, Sane individuals seeking this type of play.

Thanks! Have a great weekend!

-K_T
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Hey All !

Great stories, so far
Hey Dev, I'm hoping that was us! lol hubby still has marks from the scratches!

Okay, so you've read the horror story, maybe it is time to share the good ones too. Sounds like an easy thing to do, but I am having a hard time separating all the experiences! I've boiled it down to a couple of firsts,
The first time I kissed a girl.... we were getting ready to go out and celebrate new years eve 1999, doing the classic 'try on everything in the closet' before going out routine. She was wearing only a bra and panties and I was fully clothed... we were joking around, talking about how my top needed to show more cleavage and then all of a sudden it was quiet, our breathing seemed so loud and my heart was beating out of my chest as she leaned in to kiss me. It seemed so natural and for lack of better word.. soft. No wonder men like to kiss us, we're damn soft! We kissed for a few minutes while our hands started to explore and the passions were rising, then the guys came back from the store... we stopped, like it was embarrassing (if I only knew what I know now, I'd have let them both watch!)

The first time another man (besides my husband) made me 'gush'... My ejaculation is random, for years I could never predict when it would happen. Then I found my 'button' and can almost always maneuver myself into the perfect 'hit it every time' spot. Then one day when I was least expecting it, a man found my faucet button and turned it on with his hands. Never before had I drenched a man between my thighs and as my body writhed I was amazed to watch as he literally milked me dry, my body shuddering, my breath in gasps, I've never been louder.... damn.... I think I need to call him now!

The first time I saw my husband inside another woman... Before it happened I was the insecure one of the couple, I was already playing with other men, he either was involved or liked the play by play, but I wasnt sure I was the sharing type. The night it happened was almost an accident, it was unplanned and turned out extremely hot. I found out that not only was I the sharing type but I craved it! Watching her take control of him and use him the way I can was fascinating, like an out of body experience!

The first times seem to stick in my head, first DP, first oral from a woman, first group.... not that all firsts were best, but I remember them all in detail. Seems to me, I need to think up more firsts to have! any ideas for me?!
Mrs.Curious
T4 - :D mmm.... perhaps not! hehe

Curious!!

I was hoping that, by putting up that story, I'd figure out who that couple was.... lots and lots of fun. :D for sure! Your stories were great! It sounds like you've had some amazing experiences...

Ain't life grand?

Te
Well, this has been an interesting topic and great stories. Got me thinking about the best times we have had playing with others. Actually, one of the hottest experiences was at a good friend's birthday party where she had rented a hot tub. We had many good times at hot tub parties before, mostly at our previous residence and she missed these...anyway, Ended up with just the right mix of open-minded people in the hot tub and it was really fun. One couple whose inhibitions were the lowest had no problem starting things with the whipped creme and strawberry kisses all around. Then there were hands everywhere and those two wasted no time in getting it on. Of course, this just raised the temp. and everyone was enjoying themselves. There was this really hot dreadlocked young man who I always flirted with when I saw him around and this time we fullfilled that desire to a teasingly tantalizing degree. I liked that this all evolved naturally and there were no expectations or pressures. Everyone involved just played to the degree they were comfortable with and noone felt left out either. I love kissing and enjoyed everyone I got to kiss. Eventually the party was winding down and it was time to get out of the hot tub....We were staying over nite so had to find a bed, just so happened that the two who had been initiating play in the hot tub were inviting us to share their bed...hmmm, could be fun? :! So, we joined them and they started to get it on again, she was grinding on top of him and we proceeded to to get hot and get it on as well, the two of us women reaching across to eachother and kissing here and there, the excitement building and we all came together! Wow, that was a first! Very hot and intense. Now, that was a fun party! A
Our sexiest night was at a house party. (We had only meet one of the couples befor that night!) We decided to blindfold all the men and make them guess who's tits they were grabbing. After all that fun the girls started dancing together and the next thing we now my skirt was up, and lets just say one of the other girls was having a lot of fun under it! Needless to say we went home with a lot of new friends that night! ;)