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when i signed up for this site i thoguht it said it was a swingers site to meet different people and enjoy life, more and more i am here seems to be about everything but swing, other r here to meet others with same interests sex, friendship and things like that, not to discuss things to bring u down if i wanted that i would watch the news all the time,

am i the one that feels this way
bring on the comments

If you get tired of all the non-sex forums, start a thread about sex then

I think there is room for everybody's interests.

Mrs DP

I have found that people have muddied up the forums with baggage. Your point is well made WAAA1101, I think that a swing site should be just that, not room for venting crap. I don't mean to sound indifferent about the massacre, war or such but I don't think a swing site forum is the place for it, nor is it a place to tolerate! Forums are not garbage disposal!!

That's really funny. I thought every forum was about talking about lots of different things from lots of different people. At least, the one's I've checked out are. Nobody is forcing you to read the "non-swing" talk, noboby is even asking you to. If you're scanning the forums and you don't like the topic, pass it by. It's pretty simple. I can't count the number of threads I've personally ignored. I like the threads where people are expressing their views on various things, simply because it's alot easier to see their views than it is to email and ask "hey, what are your thoughts on (insert topic)." It helps me decide if the people are someone that I'll be able to carry on a conversation with. If a person can't stimulate me mentally, there's no chance of them stimulating me sexually.

Mrs. Perverted

So should a swing site be a place where you have to comb through the ads like the classifieds? Don't you think it would be easier to find compatible partners or couples if one didn't have to tread through such muck?

As always, we need ballast to make the world go round.

WAAAAA,

get over it, its a forum.. if you dont like it, dont read it

Good for you all and showing your true color i am proud of u, but i did NOTjoin this suite for topics as death and things that would bring down this site, Most people that would JOIN a site like this ios for friendship and sex and fun, so truthfully would u join a site like this and think of itof fun, if u say yes u lie

go ahead and whine at me so more i do not care what u say, or WHO says it
i do not call names and things like that anymore i want fun and sex, if u think u r not the same way
WHY and the hell here
and for one who want me to go away waaaaaaaaa
get over yourselfi join this site like any one else fun sex and frinedship forums should be for fun not boring and down beat topics so come on
last thing i have to say is" ENJOY LIFE DO NOT LET IT GET U DOWN"

man look who is already whining i do not care if i the best spelllers i do not care u it make u feel good about your self calling other names and things like that do so, enjoy life

so if anyone else wants to step up and call me name go for it i have big shoulders for this or i would have not started the forum so who next you TR go for it i do not care or if any one of your forums buddies wantds i am speaking my peace , i THINK alot of u whining babies need to take your own advice , and i know alot of u will have NOOOOOO clue what that means..
so as i have said before ENJOY LIFE and fuck every one else who gets in your way
and as Larry the cable guy says"""Get'r' done"

BTW if u think my post is stupid WHY r u replying to it and u r caling ME stupid!!!!!

Have a good day

I think "Forum" is about being able to talk about any thing you want....doesnt have to be about just sex. If you want just sex or friendship, talk to people individually........ Just my thoughts

Jenn

*has sex with this thread*

Take THAT!

Can it be that Waaa1101 are to impatient? Maybe that is why they are complaining? Tequilla Rose had it right about "Tolerance" lol

to waaaaaa,just a quick question,when you go out to say a house party or say a swingers club is sex all you talk about?do you just walk up to other couples and the first thing out of your mouth is hey do you want to fuck?or do you at least say hello first?maybe talk about the weather a little bit,get to know them,ascertain if it is even some one you want to fuck.okay so maybe it was more than one question.hey virgin you telling some one else about spelling is like the pot calling the kettle black.i think we could all use a little spell check.just 4 cents
2 cents to each
Phil

If I look at my life in general I spend a hell of a lot more time talking about a whole lot of things, compared to talking sex...and even less time actually having sex....SO I guess we do have to fill the rest of the day after those exciting 20 seconds....

Hey Virgin not really meant to bust your chops.You are right i can understand your few misspelled words a lot easier than waaaaaa's every misspelled word.As i said we can all use a spell check now and then as we all hit the wrong key every now and then.i was just trying to keep it at the ball busting level that waaaaaa's vocabulary is so small that he can only talk about sex.on a lighter side is it sexual to tell some one to fuck off or call them a cocksucker?the aforementioned not intended to any particular person or thing just getting some sex into the thread.
Phil

man what a bunch of whining little babies we r being, highway and virgin, u make me laugh, i never once called name and look what is going on i think some one has issues, some might be right u might go to a party but u r not going to get into a discussion before u go back to there room to en joy fun, but sex is on your mind when u go to a party for swingers, come on be real.BTW TR if u do not like tasteless pic that is your problem , keep bringing the comments and for all who wanna keep slaming me KEEP BRINGIN IT. i still think if u don't wanna talk about sex in a sex place that is made for sex leave and go some where else little. topics that r funny is fine but things like death and crap like that go watch tv and STOP talking and bringing other down it is not made for this site
i guess u can not finger that out can ya!
:v :v :v :v poor things

Seems kind of ironic to me that WAAA has created the very type of thread he is criticizing.

Why is it whenever someone is unhappy about the way things work on this site someone tells them to "go the fuck away"? is that your idea of tolerance? Its not mine, public means unhappy people too, maybe YOU need to "get over it."
People are allowed to be unhappy with the results of this site, I have always been unhappy with it, and NO I will not go away, and Fuck You if you don't like my complaining.
Have any of you ever passed by a forum? Maybe you need to practice what you preach. I also believe a lot more interesting people would post more interesting topics if not for the "Forum Police" snapping everyone's heads off for saying anything they disagree with.

Just my 2 cents!!

Not everyone goes to a swingers party with sex on the brain.

Many go looking forward to conversation, good food, good wine or other drink, connecting with old friends, making new ones.

If sex happens, great! If not, a great night was still experienced.

There are some though who go expecting sex, are quite crude and crass and then leave the party in a huff because nobody would partner up with them.

Go to any online community that is geared for a specific topic or lifestyle and you will always find off topic conversation. Why is that? Because human beings are multi-faceted beings with a wide variety of interests. We crave knowledge, humor, entertainment, enlightenment, you name it, we want most of it, if not all. When one's thoughts and spoken topics all center around one thing, it makes a person very dull.

I'm an excellent cook. But if all I ever talked about was cheesecake, rack of lamb, creme brulee, I'd be pretty damn boring no matter how cute I am. It's the same with anyone. One track mind, one topic = boring.

Open up. Show who you are, what makes you tick. That is how you make connections IN and OUT of the bedroom.

Ali

WAAAA babies is that all u whiners are
bunch of panty waste if i have ever seen, all talk
u all talk freedom of speech now that some is standing up to u panty waste u all rebel and do not like it

ummm very funnylol, lol, lol

if u do not like what i am saying why do u keep replying and wasting your time

lol.......lmao.........lmfao

hey dumb shit waaaaaa you are the one rebelling.you are the one that started whining about thread topics that YOU do not like.in your opionion no one else should like them either.if you will check the forum site again,that is where you went to start this thread,there is a section titled just talk and if you open your eyes a little more under that heading it says"non lifestyle related topics...".it does not say non lifestyle related topics that every one agrees to.as to name calling i do not believe i was calling anyone a name,but you are slinging quite a few around.seems to me i defended you on the spelling issue.but truth be known either you did not go to school at all or didn't listen when you were there because a fucking complete moron spells a whole lot better than you.now like every one has said if you do not like a threads topic then don't read it.it is just like television if you do not like what is on(now i am only assuming this)you change the channel.and if you think i am calling you a moron let me assure you i am not as a moron can spell better.
Phil

now one more time to virgin isn't the definition of ironic and i quote no one:what women in the old days did to get the wrinkles out of your ic
Phil

highway u r good i do not know what to say but is that all u have everyone talk feeedom of speech til someone talksand u all bad mouth him
and highway i think u need to stick to the highway the road has treated u good....
so keep the baby comments cummin whatever makes u all feel good bring it on

Ya know what??? This all works two ways here. The most honorable Don and his faithful following continue to bash people for speaking their mind, but yet they preach that it's their right to post whatever they want. Isn't it funny that when Don thought he was gonna get banned that he got so humble and apologetic. Now that he thinks he's in admins good graces and can do what he wants, he's right back at it. Here's a thought Don.... Why don't YOU be the one to leave and start your own forum site so you can put everyone down and be in control of the whole thing? And for your information, don't be so confident that the majority has spoken. Only your followers have. I believe the real deal is that the MAJORITY ignores your idiotic antics. There, there's more fuel for your fire. You should be able to write for days now telling me what an illiterate low life I am. Have fun with it. It's my opinion that you should be gone and I'm stickin to it.

No-one much on this site are even from our area anyway.

Gumby up baby!

wish there were more that was closer to us. everyone does seem far away!

Well you know that those with birds in their heads are prone to flights of fantasy. I am glad that you have an opinion about everyone, because we do what they say about opinions. You have proven your point, not that there was ever one to start with.

ummmm

LOL virgin cpl....what's wrong? you have a guilty concience about something? I don't recall mentioning your name in any post but if the shoe fits, please feel free to wear it. And what was it you spent 9 years doing? Your profile says that you've only been here since feb. Your math is about as bad as Dons......putting people in a minority.....Hasve you two looked at how many members there are here, and how many people like you and Don post the way you do just to start shit? Do the math.... NOW who's the minority? And Don is right. He didn't start this thread, but he sure turned it into another one of his court holding sessions.
As far as me being some kind of forum cop.... I couldn't care less. I know how to avoid threads if I choose to, And if you do a little research you'll see that i seldom post here at all. Mainly when Don shows what a jerk he really is, and now it seems that your following in his footsteps. Goos luck with that.

TR and VIRGIN,
Why do you take everything said on this forum personally? Is it for the same reason your guilty conscience knows its you I'm speaking about? Delusions of grandeur.
What I said was maybe we would have a few more interesting topics and opinions if you would stop attacking everyone that doesn't agree with you.
Is this productive? Do you really feel you have accomplished something? I know YOU crave controversy, and fighting, but don't you dare speak for me, the majority of people don't crave controversy, they wish you would stop posting so the forum could be fun.
I pass up your meaningless, ridiculously long posts all the time, maybe you could try practicing what you preach and pass up some forums, and let US have some "freedom of speech" what do you say?

Classy not Trashy.........Perfect post. Thank you

DAVEJO,
Your welcome, anytime! I just believe in treating people the way they treat me.

WAAAAA-

There is room for all kinds of people and types of discussion.
Granted- the forums are a little cumbersome to wade through, but there's a place for all types of discussion here.
A decent search feature would make the forums much much easier to browse.

Mr U

Uand, I already tried that reasoning on the very first page

I think he just wants to vent.

I was addressing the original poster, and ONLY the original poster.
I was doing what the forum was intended to do, and that was answering the question of the original poster. Waaaa has a genuine, valid question, and I addressed it directly.

TR- you seem to think that this is about you. Sorry to inform you, it isn't. But somehow I'm not surprised that you want to make it so.

I guess the forum system here is just broken.

Swinging isn't just about finding people to have sex with. Yes, that is the main goal but I'd like to think that the people that I hook up with have other interest besides sex. we - at least I am here to meet people who share my lifestyle and make friends that I can chat with or just chill and enjoy each other without being pressured into anything.

I guesss certian people do not get things when u enter here and it says SWINGERS AND SEX ALL OVER the site and the wanna bring things here that have no place for it, then they wanna look at me as i the person that should not be here.LMAO when u enter and u see naked lady and sex dvd and u wanna say sex is not on your mind when u enter site like this or u meet couples from this site.. get the fuck real
bring it on
oh and btw i can care less i am not the best spell did i say i was or claim to be so the fuck what bunch of panty waste babies cring of some who stands up to u wanna be computer rambos
NEXT

WAAAAAAA...What a perfect name...

The problem is not your spelling, it is the fact that you are in your thirties and still type as if you are a teenager on myspace.com or ae using a phone to text someone...

As to the fact that sex is a part of this site, yes it is...BUT it is also a site for people to find, make, and communicate with friends and those with the same mindset....

NOT everyone wants to see a bone thin model, not everyone wants to see a giant vagina spread open, not everyone wants to be in lingere (sp?) all the time....SOME actually want to think and make friends before they hop in the sack...Ever think of that?

Quit your bellyaching...Get over yourself...And go make a friend....THATS why people post about things besides sex...

THE BIGGEST SEX ORGAN IS YOUR BRAIN, NOT YOUR COCK/PUSSY!!!!!!

Flipped me out...I am in my living room and all of a sudden someone is crying...HA HA HA HA

OH man u r fucking so cool how did u get so fucking cool man i hope u have no kids i would feel sorry for them if u did due to u r so fucking brilliant, r u thinking all this by your self or some of your butt buddies helping u, i mean OMG u r not even getting what u r even saying
if this is a JUST TALK forum why and the fuck r u so stupid and getting your wife panties and your bubbies panties in such a bunch
COme on read what u r saying and same with you other bone heads
U all say free speech and we have the right to say what we want
read this dam ass

" IF U DO NOT LIKE WHAT I SAY ON HEAR DO NOT READ IT , DO WHAT U ALWAYS SAY TO OTHER , DO NOT FUCKING READ OR RESPOND TO"

U can not even followw what u even say in other post

LOL

bring it on

Just jim u need to read ALL the post before u open your mouth trap or whatever u talk out of

now who is cring????
computer rambo

DON AND DAVE
You two r probably best butt buddies since your two jerk off are stupid and compare your cock next to each other, you also are computer rambo and btfw if u can't finger out what COMPUTER RAMBO is u r big loser than everyone thinks, plus u all have to put your loser 2 cents on things

HAVE A GOOD DAY

TR,
NO i am not on here to hear my self bitch i am tired of u fuck nuts getting on everyone forums and fucking it up due to your two cents that isn't worth shit. to bad when u was leaving the site u did not go through with it i would of paid for u to leave i know it would of save a,lot of headache for everyone that r to chicken to stand up to u and the other computer rambos on the site, if u do not like me postsing THEN FUCK NUT WHY DO U KEEP POSTING ON THE FORUM AND U keep bitching about it, i think U r the one u like to hear himself bitch
dumb ass

have a good day!!!

As I've said before.... Regardless of the category one slides crap into it still stinks. Little snide remarks about people..their grammer or use of U for YOU or 4 for the word FOUR and other shortcuts used on the web elseware. Maybe this person, the original posted, may be from some other country and has a limited vocabulary and or limited grammer. We are one of the only countries that speak only one language... Try German or French or Vietnamese, Chinees, or maybe Spanish, if that is not your native language. Most people try to communicate and people understand that there are limitations.

I understand that this is an open forum here, but forums on other sites have been shut down for lesser crapola than is used here. One shut down when the Gulf war started. Too much about death and opinions on the administration and the why or why not of being in a war. Then that sparked flaming, name calling and more. On this very site someone got very political and there was a call to have that one ousted. He was.. Maybe you remember him. And he used this very forum to voice his opinions..... So... Why do so many think that they are right and some others are wrong? If we voluntarily make things better... we will have a more friendly site and Forum. It's easy to say "if you don't like it don't read it", then why is this post 8 pages long????????????????? It's just that this site has become very controversal in that we love to piss on each other and on each other's thoughts... I got to page 5 and couldn't go any farther... Piss moan, counter piss and counter moan... Good boy or girl Charlie, you agree with me and we together piss on someone else...

Think about it...How many times can this go on with adults who should be old enough and wise enough to know that this is a childish pursuit.... What do you think about that... Maybe this can generate another 8 or 10 pages, HUH???? Understand I may read some of it BUT I will stand on the outside and watch the pissing contests. Too old to play that game and besides my diuretics dictate when I piss... LOL

Have a happy day and please give a thought to making this a better place to live.

WAAA1101,

So instead of starting a thread about sex you decide to start one that directly promotes conflict... Is that not the very problem you are complaining about? Doesn't make much sense to me.

TAMI

Tami...

Don't waste your time...THe problem is he is immature...look at the typing, what is this myspace and we are all about 12 or 13?

Waaaaa....You would pay for it? why not pay to get some cleaned up teeth and stuff...Maybe a shirt that does not scream 80's? Wonder how popular you are in Indiana or wherever the hell your trailer is located?

Anyway...Let the crying begin with waaaa leading the way crying all the way...

jstjim did your mother help you with that comment
TR him or her u make me laugh i start the post with a question now u and jst jim and virgin r trying to make me look like the bad guy it is to funny..... lmfao
this all started with a question now u all wanna turn on me act like i am starting shit when u computer rambo wanna be( which u all have not clue what it means) try and make me look like i am starting shit get a fucking clue all three of u , if u keep going with this it is fine with me, it seems to me it is YOU all that like to keep this thread going so u can get the last word in and make your self feel good, , I will repeat this is a swinger site to meet friends and have fun not to fuck be stupid and bring death and shit the brings down the site,

HAVE A GOOD DAY

I see both sides so..

When do you think the troops will come home? Anybody wanna fuck?

I think we need to finish what we start over there though.Anybody wanna fuck?

Man these gas prices are getting bad again...maybe 5 bucks a gallon by summer.Anybody wanna fuck?

Heard Tom and katie are in Marriage Counseling.Too bad huh? Anybody wanna fuck?

Heard Brad and Angalina are going to adopt YET another kid....
Anybody wanna fuck?

There now cant we all just get along? ................. OH, Anybody wanna fuck?

WAAA1101,

If you read my husbands first post, he did give you a on-topic, cordial and legitimate answer to the question you posed. You chose to be offended when he told you that regardless of what you think, people are going to talk about what they want to.

I was merely stating that you complain about arguments errupting within the forums when you are promoting it yourself. It does not make much sense to me. If you are unhappy with a topic why not start your own thread pertaining to what you wish to discuss? There are just as many people that would love to discuss various subjects pertaining to sex as there are who would like to talk about something ...else.

I for one, do not enjoy talking about sex all the time or war and death all the time. So I pick and chose which topic I want to comment on. It does not bother me to surf through many topics as I like to have a variety to chose from. If this site was about only one subject or the other, it would be very boring. I rather enjoy reading most of the posts wether they be about sex or not. It is entertaining for me.

I am not here to start an argument with you or anyone else. I was just posting my thoughts on the topic... Nothing more, nothing less. There's no need to get personal with me.

TAMI

The problem with waaaaaaa is that in my humble opinion he is a pathetic little man in brain power.Obviously he can't talk about any thing but sex must mean the fat bitch beside him isn't giving him any.Oh look other people can be rude also.Get a life and the sex talk will come but as i said previously do you go out and talk about nothing but sex with everyone that you meet.I guarantee if you met my wife and first thing out of your mouth was sex talk,you'd be in a world of deep shit.We got into this life style to meet people with like attitudes to be friends.Some we have met and became friends with and still have NOT had sex with them.Others we have met and talked a while about this that and the other things and had great sex with them.Now judging by your vocabulary and your picture it appears to me that is all you can do is talk about it.You must figure that if you talk about it enough some one will finally give in and give you some.NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!!!!!!!

I have to say after reading this entire thread... I wonder why people even continue to come to this website with all the mudslinging and name calling... come on people we are suppose to be adults... If ya cant say something nice or constructive then keep it to yourself..

Maybe ya all need to go to Jamaica where when someone is complaining all ya have to say is..

"No Problem Mon! soon come"

:z

FLCPL4FUN; was there a misspelling there.... at the end...

"...... Soon Cumming" ???? remember this is a swinger's site and even the young adults have to understanding coming and cumming..... :l

I took my whack at the STUFF.... (remember George Carlin; "my stuff is stuff and everyone else's stuff is shit" routine.... Wasn't my stuff, therefore someone else's.....S#*&) Need a bit of humor when a pissing contest takes 9 pages......well 8 if you consider those that have said enough is enough..... Sad sad situation.... Someone mentioned the age of 12 or 13 as being the way people were treating others... I say, if the foo shits :v

Sincitybi..... Being fat and ugly, I can tell from experience is not a problem for some of us men. I seem to have no problem with the ladies...even the very sexy young. Yes my wife is a good looking woman but that hasn't really been a plus for me.... I try to treat a lady like a lady even if she's not what some would call a lady.. Women like the journey and I try to be their tour guide... Gentle, slow, sensual and erotic.... Ugly hasn't been a handycap nor the fat thing... and since the diabetes got out of hand..... I am fat... at least 60 lbs too fat... Fat and ugly can be offset by gentle, slow, erotic, stimulating and just being a good tour guide on a nice journey..... and my wife is certainly not a mongaloid. Even my girl friends are not the most beautiful people in the world but they are beautiful people..... although one of my girlfriends face looks like a very young Drew Barrymore... I just saw "FIRESTARTER" and realized the resemblence. Besides ugly is in the eye of the beholder, isn't it?

Not trying to start a controvercy just saying that fat and ugly doesn't have to be a hinderance in swinging..... and might I add age also...... The weekend of the 14th, not one not two but 3 very good looking, young women, I had never met before, were all over me. We were at the same table at a social/party/dance of one of the clubs to which we belong. Based on their reaction to my aftershave... I think that it may have had something to do withtheir reactions to me. The aftershave is something new, not one of the mass marketed big name things. I've gotten comments just on the streets and in stores.... So maybe I'm a good guide and maybe I know how to dress and what fragrence's to wear... I've also been asked to give mustache rides.... So old and ugly and fat.... so what... I'm like the energizer bunny... I just keep cumming and cumming and cumming......

and I have no plans of going and going and going, at least, for a while yet. Have fun and enjoy... life is too short....

I guess all u morons do not get it
get a fuckign clue if u do not like me or my thread or my answer so fucking what i can care lessu can say all u want and call me name and sayi look like your mom( even though i think some of u have fucked some of your moms ) or whatever none of u have gotten to fucking clue this is a SWINGERS site and u calling people names like most of u have done to me which i can careless because i am guilty due to your stupity in the forum, tammi and don i can care less what language u speak or what ever, call me what u like go for it
what ever make all your egos bigger and think u r the MAN, who fucking cares
i do not even care if u think i make sense if u do not why and the fuck do u keep wasting your time with the forum all i have to say is shut up and go play with your self
any one else the wants to continue to be computer rambos with me have fun

have a good day

BTW reason i have not responded to some of u losers is some of us REAL people have job and friends
enjoy
have a good day

EUREKA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sincitybi hit it....

Just looked at the profile male: 5'5" tall, 210 lbs, 5'6", 135 lbs.

He is a troll who shaved and she has not figured it out...Poor girl...Bet he has a dicky doo too...Poor poor girl...

the palms of your hands do not count as friends.and giving your dad a blow job isn't a real job.
hey jst if you look at the picture i would say she is closer to 180 than 136

Oh...And by the way...He prefers chubby gals...They are lot more fun...BUT will make exceptions for those thin women who so desire

if you are talking to me we are always ready for a road trip.been to your city(village)many times.used to drive truck(team w/wife)and would stop at flying j.better yet pack up kids and come down here in july kill more birds that way.nascar at daytona(jimmie is better though),disney for kids,ocean,and it is always warm.well okay in july it is hot but hey beats wyo in january
phil

he started it

Don for once i would have to agree with ya i would like to drop it but when other wanna call me and my wife name i will not drop it u( don ) i agree

highway if u r threatening me and u now where the town is do it i never back down, u WILL regret it,

if others STILL wanna call me names and threaten me or my wife if it make u a bigger so called man to do so so fucking what i have never once called your wife names

other are wanting to keep harping on this that is there problem i can care less if we drop the subject but i was the one that started it i will finish it

have a good day

you need to learn to read a little better and understand what you read i said if the first words out of your mouth was sex talk,you would be in a world of shit.yes you are correct you started thread and you started the name calling.i've never regretted any thing
Phil

highway i can careless what and the fuck u say
btw tell u wife i said she needs to shave or iam sorry that is you face i can not tell they r both fucking ugly
have a good day loser

sin
all i can say is learn to stop having your mom help u it might help
have a good day
morons and also i am not the one who started the mud sling morons
if u wanna keep going do it if not stop witht he forum

Yea,..... well um.....

You have to love the forums. They truly bring out the 'best' in people. What better way to know what lives below the superficial covering we put forth in our profiles. Keep it up

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