We are active in the lifestyle, but don't care if we meet people from the internet. We are regulars at the Pleasure Palace here in Tampa and meet most of our friends there. Doing it that way generally keeps us from wasting time with fakes or the just curious.
Not us we are looking for everything :-) EXCEPT single males don't call us we know where to find you. Sorry but endless internet chat is just not our game those cpls who want to chat for months on end before we meet go to the back of the pack lol.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
We are looking for friendships and maybe some sex.
When you don't have Lifestyle clubs near you, the internet is the only way yo go. With single males allowed on these sites(mostly for revenue) I can see where you are coming from. The Lifestyle is mainly a couples activity, all of us can find a local guy who wants to fuck our wife, no need for the internet for that...LOL
There are fakes and flakes everywhere, so we like to meet in person soon after contact to see if the couple is for real and both are on the same page. That way we do not have to chit chat on the net for endless weeks wasting our time.
There are fakes and flakes everywhere, so we like to meet in person soon after contact to see if the couple is for real and both are on the same page. That way we do not have to chit chat on the net for endless weeks wasting our time.
We are on here to find friends and hopefully some play partners. But, we also require that the people we meet be able to invest the time to become friends, because we have discovered that the one's who don't want to be friends first, are usually the one's who you don't want as play partners anyway.
We are active in the lifestyle too. We also go to Pleasure Palace quite often and have made many good friends there. We agree with all of you. People online are mostly not serious about the lifestyle. They are mostly just curious. We also delete people off our chat lists if we've been chatting with them for a while and there is no progress as far as making plans to meet. And about the friendship thing, at first we all want friendship first. But after gaining some experience and growing into the lifestyle we realize that the majority of our friends are couples we met at a club and played with, and THEN slowly became friends. The more times we played with them the closer we became as friends.
in ref. to RYANDT...
thats is what we noticed as well...
thats is what we noticed as well...
One of the main reasons we are in Swingular is to meet people in the Lifestyle whom we might see during our travels - to, there, and back.
We take two major trips a year and usually drive. The last four years we have gone to Las Vegas and driven the last three. We drove to Gatlinburg, TN, two years and went to Hawaii last year (we flew to Hawaii and back, LOL).
We take short trips in Oklahoma and to Texas and Kansas. We are considering a trip to Arkansas.
This means we need to find people in the Lifestyle on the internet if we want to play during our travels. This also means we cannot contact them here and jump in the sack with them within a week.
This does give us time to develop virtual friendships and get to know their likes and dislikes.
With this being said, we don't want to baby sit for them or loan them money or some of the other things close friends might do. Sexual play is still the objective and that always means there must be face to face attraction.
We take two major trips a year and usually drive. The last four years we have gone to Las Vegas and driven the last three. We drove to Gatlinburg, TN, two years and went to Hawaii last year (we flew to Hawaii and back, LOL).
We take short trips in Oklahoma and to Texas and Kansas. We are considering a trip to Arkansas.
This means we need to find people in the Lifestyle on the internet if we want to play during our travels. This also means we cannot contact them here and jump in the sack with them within a week.
This does give us time to develop virtual friendships and get to know their likes and dislikes.
With this being said, we don't want to baby sit for them or loan them money or some of the other things close friends might do. Sexual play is still the objective and that always means there must be face to face attraction.
Like the most of you we have friends from the outside world. We have our mailing list of frinds to keep informed of upcomming events. We are here because of some of those friends. Alot of them dont use instant messenger or things like that.. and its fun to bug them thru here.. but it is also fun to go through and see some of the others you dont normaly meet in the clubs here.
But what woman doenst like to window shop?
But what woman doenst like to window shop?
For us the internet works best. The two main adult clubs near us seem to draw mostly older couples. The internet gives us the best option to find couples near our age range and with similar interests.
We try to avoid extended chat/email tags and much prefer to meet soon after seeing a recent pic and establishing interest.
We try to avoid extended chat/email tags and much prefer to meet soon after seeing a recent pic and establishing interest.
we are looking for new friends to meet in the life style . we love to go to parties and hang out with a group of friends and have fun . we dont play with everybody .and we dont go looking for people all the time to just play with . we are also looking for friends to just meet and hang out with . we like to get to know people before we play . it is more of a turn on to know the people and waht they like and dont like and to be able to share yours likes and dislikes . and everybody can relax and have be themself . we love just hanging out and flirting with everyone also . it doesnt always have to lead to playing . and we like to han gout with peeople in the clubs and outside of the club . to us u can never have to many friends . and the ones that really turn us on are the ones we play with . we like the tease . and the challange to work thepeople up to a hot night of playing . and we only want to play with the ones that want to take the time to do the same for us . we tell everybody if u just have sex to offer then please move on . cause we can get that anywhere . the ones that want to get to know us and make it a night we cant forget and want more of then we would love to get wild with those...
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