This is always a topic that most single males, whom are interested in the lifestyle, are interested in knowing. For each of you couples, who are interested in single men, what do you find to be the most important quality for a single guy to possess in order for you, as a couple, to choose him to be your playmate? I know the answers vary from couple to couple, and it is very important for single guys to know in order to be selected! Just thought it would be fun to see the variety of answers out there!


For us, She must want him, and He must approve, they have to first and foremost be HOT or sexy, its just sex, so it has to be a physical attraction, second they need to be a gentlemen, gentlemen know their place in the play and don't kiss and tell! Skills would come in third, but that can't be tested till you get through the taxi ride back to the motel!!! Also, he really needs to know when to leave.
I think most couples on this site don't want single males, for the same reasons we don't want single females. So it won't be about what you can change, you just have to find the couples that like MFM threeways!
~K~
I think most couples on this site don't want single males, for the same reasons we don't want single females. So it won't be about what you can change, you just have to find the couples that like MFM threeways!
~K~
We look for respect and attraction.....That is the numberone thing...
We DO prefer a man who knows what his place is in our relationship...We like a man who knows when to leave...A man WILLING (NO WE WILL NOT ALLOW) to pick up the check at the pub or restaurant we meet him at...
Basically...We want a gentleman...PERIOD
We DO prefer a man who knows what his place is in our relationship...We like a man who knows when to leave...A man WILLING (NO WE WILL NOT ALLOW) to pick up the check at the pub or restaurant we meet him at...
Basically...We want a gentleman...PERIOD
we seem to search for the respectfull more down to earth single males that arent full of themselves, because with cpls, we tend to have a problem with the other female when sara wants dp and she is left to fend for herselve for a while... even tho the dp is headed her way if she wants it.... but the fact remains in our exp, that the other female gets a little testy when i tell her man to slide over and eith fuck saras pussy with me or if its their thing to fuck her ass while i fuck her pussy or visa versa....so when sara is in for a good hard fucking we enlist sngl males, when she just wants to play and have fun we are up for cpls.... dennis and sara
From Mrs Aspen here:
1. Good Looks.....come on it is sex (tall, built, no fat, shaved or trimmed down under and on chest)
2. A testimonial from another couple about how good you are.
3. Your certification stamp from Swingular that you are real.
4. Your couples certification stamp from Swigular that they are real.
5. Respect
6. Patience
7. Understanding that this is for my husband and I and you just happen to be invited.
8. Size...yes it does matter....too big and it hurts....to small and I can't feel much 5" - 8" is plenty good. Usually I like your fingers just as much...or your toungue.
Other than that...perfection....good luck.
P.S. ............ Pictures, you must have pictures, and your cock is nice but I have seen many, what I really want to see is your full body, including your face, naked. If you are worried being discreet then only put your face in your private albumn.
1. Good Looks.....come on it is sex (tall, built, no fat, shaved or trimmed down under and on chest)
2. A testimonial from another couple about how good you are.
3. Your certification stamp from Swingular that you are real.
4. Your couples certification stamp from Swigular that they are real.
5. Respect
6. Patience
7. Understanding that this is for my husband and I and you just happen to be invited.
8. Size...yes it does matter....too big and it hurts....to small and I can't feel much 5" - 8" is plenty good. Usually I like your fingers just as much...or your toungue.
Other than that...perfection....good luck.
P.S. ............ Pictures, you must have pictures, and your cock is nice but I have seen many, what I really want to see is your full body, including your face, naked. If you are worried being discreet then only put your face in your private albumn.