<meta http-equiv="robots" content="noindex"><meta http-equiv="pragma" content="nocache">I have noticed alot of my fellow lifestylers in this group are falling into the habit of posting pics where their face(s) are either obsured or blacked out. to me and my gf this seems silly. It seems to me that if you dont want your face shown then dont post any pics at all. what are your thoughts?
Richard
Richard
I think people should post what they want to post, face or not,, it's up to them.
We post our faces...but that is because we do not worry about those that see us...If they see us, they were here looking...So they have no room to complain...
I don't post my face anywhere.
Not because I am embarrassed, ashamed or butt ass ugly. It's because I am very involved in two major non-profit organizations and I have no desire to embarrass them with my private life.
My husband accompanies me to many events, so his face is out of publication as well.
Should I run across someone IRL that knows me from my NP's, it would be okay - they are doing the same thing I am. But I don't need someone with an axe to grind finding my face online and undoing years of valuable work.
Besides, I think my boobs are quite pretty to look at.
Hell, few people notice I even have a face when we first meet. HAHA
Not because I am embarrassed, ashamed or butt ass ugly. It's because I am very involved in two major non-profit organizations and I have no desire to embarrass them with my private life.
My husband accompanies me to many events, so his face is out of publication as well.
Should I run across someone IRL that knows me from my NP's, it would be okay - they are doing the same thing I am. But I don't need someone with an axe to grind finding my face online and undoing years of valuable work.
Besides, I think my boobs are quite pretty to look at.

We have to agree with JSTJIM72; if someone sees your pics on this site (or any other similar site), they were obviously here looking. So...there's not a whole lot they can say, is there? After all, if it comes up sometime, you can always confront them with the standard "What were you doing surfing that site in the first place?"
Personally, if a profile does not contain face pics of BOTH him and her, we won't even attempt to make contact. After all, the Lifestyle is all about physical attraction...and if you can't SEE another member in their profile, what is there to be attracted to? Just our 2-cents.
Personally, if a profile does not contain face pics of BOTH him and her, we won't even attempt to make contact. After all, the Lifestyle is all about physical attraction...and if you can't SEE another member in their profile, what is there to be attracted to? Just our 2-cents.
Don
by posting ur private lives on the internet, faces or not they no longer are private.
late,
j & d
late,
j & d
In another thread on this site it was shown that you can search for a Swingular user name in Google, find their post in one of these forums and go on to see their profile. So, potential evil-doers don't even have to set up a free account.
What's more, you don't even need a user name. Typing something creative in Google such as
site:www.swingular.com "picture fun"
and you'll come across some very interesting pictures without being a member at all.
Try this when you're logged out of Swingular to see just how far you can get.
Personally, we'd rather show who we really are to serious, interested parties and not just anybody who wants a cheap thrill (who can, by the way, put us in an awkward situation at home and work).
What's more, you don't even need a user name. Typing something creative in Google such as
site:www.swingular.com "picture fun"
and you'll come across some very interesting pictures without being a member at all.
Try this when you're logged out of Swingular to see just how far you can get.
Personally, we'd rather show who we really are to serious, interested parties and not just anybody who wants a cheap thrill (who can, by the way, put us in an awkward situation at home and work).