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Hello all, we are just curious; Why is it that a lot of couples profiles don't have any pictures of the male half? Mrs Sweet would love to be able to see all the men folk! We feel personality trumps all, hands down, but we enjoy seeing all the sex pics! We would love to hear your inputs and feedback!

J & K

Well said "Wander", couldn't have said it better!

Hehe, we have both of us in ours...public and private.

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We feel the same way exactly. If both are in the ad then both need to have pics up.

If anyone see's the male half to this couple... We are so "not" screwed.... :l

I've always steered away from having my picture taken, as I am rather camera shy, and Mrs. Thought is truly the most photogenic of us two, and I rather relish taking her picture.

However, I've always maintained a few select pictures that include both of us, in all fairness to the ladies.

We have our pics posted in Public and Private. Its the ones who have no picture posted at all that make me leary. We want discrection as much as anyone so we choose nicely dressed one to put out for all to see...And Tami I love your Profile!

D and A

No body wants to see this body in the light naked. lol j/k as the man in this one i feel as stated here prior but at the same time i know i have to except it before others can so i know im not how i would like to be but who is??? so i have included pics from time to time and maintain at least one in our private album. And i too am less tense about others who have done the same

We would agree, if it's a couples profile both should be on it. Even though I (mr) probably cut our chances in half...lol.

T and V

Ranch we agree totally. Its amazing how we have 80 pictures of her and 30 of him. I just cant think of too many sexy ways to take a picture of a guy, but woman the ideas are endless. We personally have been working on tring to think of lately what we could do for new pictures of both. For those that have taken the effort to post and add pictures to their profile great job and keep it up!!!

T and B

In some instances, it is because guys in general don't like having their pics taken cuz they don't think they look that good or because they feel that by having one in their public album that it is more likely they could endanger their job, but more often than not it seems like there is more interest in what the female looks like than the male, possibly because there are more guys looking through profiles than girls. Also, some couples are just looking for girl play in which instance, what the guy looks like is pretty much irrelevant.

I totally agree, though we don't mind if people keep the pics of the guy in their private folder. Not having any at all leaves us wary of trying to get together with them. We have several in our private album, but usually only have one or two in our public, mostly because he figures that ppl are looking mostly to see what I look like, no matter how sexy I think he is. Sometimes it hard to find pics to put up of him, because we prefer keeping our face pics for our private album.

-SG

first pic with webcam about 6years ago ? got a better one now hard to take pic of us together need help on that mmmmm

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Well as the male half of this duo, I must say that in my opinion I am not the good looking one. I do however have a couple pics of me although not face shots. So in fairness to the females here I am so dont laugh to hard.
S

We have plenty of pictures of both of us, although all of the face and full body pictures of MR. PERV are in our private album. We also don't understand why so few couples have pictures of the male half. If we're going to play with a couple, we want to know what they both look like before we meet.

Ok, I just had to add this other thing. It REALLY bugs me when the only pics of the guys are of their anatomy. I mean I hate to say this, but that doesn't really excite me unless I have some idea of who the person is that it belongs to. As interesting or unusual as your cock might be, I'd like to know what I'm going to be looking at while I'm enjoying it. Call me demanding or high maintenance, but for me it isn't just about your cock.

It doesn't have to be a naked pic either. It can be one with your clothes on, I'd just like to see your face and get a sense of who you are before we meet. Though some pics of you stripping out of your clothes are good, too. A picture of your penis tells me nothing other than you are a man and you're proud of it.

Guys, look at it as an opportunity to show off your sexy smile or your gorgeous eyes or how great your ass looks in those tight-fitting jeans. I'm sure your wives could help you find your best assets. Be creative! And I mean creative like the awesome pics in Thoughtgarden's photo album, not creative like something involving body paint, props and your penis.

-SG

The most amusing thing about this thread is that the majority of responders have pics of both parties in their profiles. Sooooo... either the people who only post pics of the female half of the couple don't read OR are ignoring this thread completely.

Come on all you guys... get up on the photos. I can tell you that I am much more likely to respond to a profile with pics of both than with pics of only one party. They don't have to be naughty... just accurate

In fact, a good face photo is worth a thousand cock shots. Okay maybe 100 :P

Te.

Val,

You know you can't Photoshop the trees out, cuz then it wouldn't be a picture of you in your native habitat. Besides, I'm sure it fuels the fires of many women who fantasize about being ravaged by a sexy man like you in the middle of nowhere surrounded by the wonder and glory of nature. A man unafraid of exposing his true self to the world, no matter how unfashionable dressed, is hot! And your sense of humor sure helps! At least you're not trying to show off how big your kayak is!

-SG

Thank you for all the responses, we are glad to see that many feel the same as we do. Plus it is nice to see all the people that have both! We second Cidding's opinion on cock shots; 9.8 times out of 10 just a cock shot isn't any better than no picture at all!

We always ask for pics of him if there are none posted -- its been our experience that the women take better care of themselves and like to strut their stuff more. Here's our 2 cents worth.

I have come to the realization that no one really wants to see the men, especialy single men. It has become apparent to me that swinging (or even dating for that matter) is a sport for couples and single females only.

OK Tequila 90%? How about the other 10% LOL. A previous poster said it best. Most single men on sites like this post a photo of their cock, and expect that that is what will impress someone. Unfortunately, it is men like that that ruin it for the real single men who are honest and sincere.

Also I have been hearing stories about people meeting single men on sites like this and these guys expect a lady to jump in the back seat of their car parked in a Wal Mart parking lot for a romp. Is this REALLY happening? No wonder no one wants to deal with single men!

I have to agree, if you don't have a pic of your Man, I wont even bother look further.
Why are the Men so ashamed?

P.S. why post a pic of your "junk" when half the fun is finding out what the "junk" looks like!
And personaly its easier for me to find a single male at a straight club and take him home, at least I can see how cute his personality is before he shows me his "junk"!

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hi there what kind do u want to see we have a all in 1 cam webcam camcorder

me all dress up when i was in mich

or more like this mmmmmmm

Tequila Rose, Thanks for the input and advice. I am new at this and I have been just "Observing". I do realize that yes the odds are against single men, but the way you put it was not at all condescending!

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