Since in other forums there are a variety of reasons for REJECTION of others...might be interesting to see a cross section of what brought you to this lifestyle as a single or couple, and what you expect or do gain by participation ....
Curiousity, voyuerism, sex. We didnt know about lifestyles, we just stumbled into with a friend... then we found more of it on the internet. It filled a sexual void in our lives. We have kept going because of friendships and fantasies.
We met on another site for the lifestyle, and decided that there were FAR to many fantasies left to fullfil before we quit...So we sort of stumbled into it also...and then kept it up after we got what we wanted from the site...
What brought us here was an unfulfilled fantasy which actually still has yet to be fulfilled. We weren't really sure that we'd be ok with seeing each other with others, but we wanted to give it a try and see what happened. What has happened is we have developed a tremendous openess of communication to our relationship. There were things that just didn't get talked about, mostly due to our very straight-laced upbringings and sex was one of them. We are now comfortable speaking freely about anything with each other, especially our sexual desires. We know that while we can seek all the pleasures that life has to offer we'll always have each other. We discovered that we love watching each other be pleasured almost as much as we enjoy giving pleasure to each other. We've also made some incredible friends that we wouldn't have met otherwise and our lives are richer because of it. Yes there's been some BS here and there but being in the lifestyle has deepened our relationshp and commitment to each other as well as opened us to a world of erotic unending pleasure. Or at least that's what I feel we've gotten out of it.
-SG
-SG
Ex girlfreind back in 98
We met on the internet (not lifestyle site). We lived 300 miles apart. Before we even met in person, we decided that our relationship would involve the lifestyle. We live together now (have been for about 2 years), and are very happy with what we do. We have met and played with some wonderful people, but have also had some very frustrating experiences. This doesn't have to be so hard people.
Short and sweet
We like to fuck!
Oh yeah we also like meeting fun open minded people and having a great time with or without sex.
We like to fuck!
Oh yeah we also like meeting fun open minded people and having a great time with or without sex.
The two of us have been in the lifestyle before we met each other and we just keep going!
-K_T
-K_T
I have always enjoyed swinging. In prior relationships, on my own and in my current relationship. In my last marriage I simply announced that I needed more fun. We had a profile a few hours later. In my current relationship I'm given as much freedom to explore as I could possibly want...
Now how cool is that???
Gotta love it ....
Te
Now how cool is that???
Gotta love it ....
Te
I was tricked and bamboozled into it.
When I was in college, I spoke to a 'single' woman online on aol. I was conservative back then. She invited me over her home to meet in person. We talked, made out, and took things to the bedroom. While having fun, in mid stroke, I heard a noise, and turned around to see a man literally walk out of her bedroom closet. I fucking freaked out and (pardon my language) almost shit my pants. I stammered that I didnt know she had a man. I thought I was a dead man, this being the early ninety's in Texas. He said everything was kewl and that this was the only way that he could get me to play with this wife. He explained that he was a voyeur and was into the interracial thing. Honestly, I think I was like a dear in some headlights, because I should've jumped through a window. He got me a drink, he explained somethings, and I calmed down. His wife played with me and I was rock solid again. Funny how things happen. I played with his wife on many occasions and learned alot of things. He always watched but never participated. Years later, i'm still in this thing.
When I was in college, I spoke to a 'single' woman online on aol. I was conservative back then. She invited me over her home to meet in person. We talked, made out, and took things to the bedroom. While having fun, in mid stroke, I heard a noise, and turned around to see a man literally walk out of her bedroom closet. I fucking freaked out and (pardon my language) almost shit my pants. I stammered that I didnt know she had a man. I thought I was a dead man, this being the early ninety's in Texas. He said everything was kewl and that this was the only way that he could get me to play with this wife. He explained that he was a voyeur and was into the interracial thing. Honestly, I think I was like a dear in some headlights, because I should've jumped through a window. He got me a drink, he explained somethings, and I calmed down. His wife played with me and I was rock solid again. Funny how things happen. I played with his wife on many occasions and learned alot of things. He always watched but never participated. Years later, i'm still in this thing.
Curiousity most of all saw a thing on HOB real sex. And one night been really really drunk and playing on the puter lol. But have love the sex :z
It's simple ......... I LOVE WOMEN, everything about them. Thank God I found someone to be my partner in crime .... LOL.
I find women hot and where else are there so many sexy ones Bi Female mo
We love you too, MO