We have never been to a swing club. We usually prefer more intimate settings, but I have wanted to see what it is like. Possibly easier than meeting couples online?
What is everyones take on them, and what is the proper ettiquette regarding meeting and approaching people in the swingers clubs.
Also which vegas/pheonix clubs are the best?
Thanks guys!
Mrs.T
What is everyones take on them, and what is the proper ettiquette regarding meeting and approaching people in the swingers clubs.
Also which vegas/pheonix clubs are the best?
Thanks guys!
Mrs.T
NOt familiar with that area of the country, however, familiar with the clubs...
We like the clubs to meet people we already know or for a meeting place for peeople we have written to online...We tend to be "friends with benefits," so we do not typicaly choose to try to hook up with someone at the club if we did not plan on meeting them there in the firt place,,,That being the case....Our uses and recommendations are:
1.) Expect nothing, but be prepared for anything.
2.) It is a sexually charged atmosphere, be prepared to be "randy"
3.) We like to go there ourselves, go to the playing area and play with each other...if someone of physical interest begins to watch...we invitet them to join...it is a nice little way to have a "stranger sex fantasy" come to fruition.
4.) the clubs, IN OUR EXPERIENCE, tend to be cliquish...Be prepared to be shunnned from some because you are not "in" with their group...One place we went to, said hello to a single male and he replied, "I am sorry, you'll have to talk to _____ before we can chat" I thought we were adults and could talk and play with whomever we wanted...BUT perhaops I was wrong...
Just our $0.02
We like the clubs to meet people we already know or for a meeting place for peeople we have written to online...We tend to be "friends with benefits," so we do not typicaly choose to try to hook up with someone at the club if we did not plan on meeting them there in the firt place,,,That being the case....Our uses and recommendations are:
1.) Expect nothing, but be prepared for anything.
2.) It is a sexually charged atmosphere, be prepared to be "randy"
3.) We like to go there ourselves, go to the playing area and play with each other...if someone of physical interest begins to watch...we invitet them to join...it is a nice little way to have a "stranger sex fantasy" come to fruition.
4.) the clubs, IN OUR EXPERIENCE, tend to be cliquish...Be prepared to be shunnned from some because you are not "in" with their group...One place we went to, said hello to a single male and he replied, "I am sorry, you'll have to talk to _____ before we can chat" I thought we were adults and could talk and play with whomever we wanted...BUT perhaops I was wrong...
Just our $0.02
We attend parties every weekend here in Vegas at the Red Rooster. Many people have their own opinions about clubs mostly do to their encounter at it. If you go and have a bad time, then you hate clubs, if you go and have a good time then you like them.
The Clichish thing always comes up, but we see is people come and because they are new and 'scared' they sit waiting for people to come to them. When in fact its the other way around, you need to talk to other people. We see two couples sitting across the room from one another but neither makes a move. If you can't approach people, then the club scene may not be for you.
We also see, at the Rooster anyway, that on Fri or Sat the house is more of a night club then a swing club. Many people come to be social rather then have sex, or they come to see sex then do it. So it makes it kind of difficult to find what you are looking for because you are surrounded by people who may not be looking for the same thing. Hence many locals dont bother 'finding' the new people, because they are tired of running into people not interested.
Come on out, in fact we are leaving in a minute to go to the Sunday hot tub party. Come with an open mind and no expectations, and talk to people.....You'll have fun
We should add, we find people at the club alot easier then on the websites. Too many people just on the website through pictures and words, rather then meeting the people and getting to know them. At a club you know what you are getting...not assuming what they are like
The Clichish thing always comes up, but we see is people come and because they are new and 'scared' they sit waiting for people to come to them. When in fact its the other way around, you need to talk to other people. We see two couples sitting across the room from one another but neither makes a move. If you can't approach people, then the club scene may not be for you.
We also see, at the Rooster anyway, that on Fri or Sat the house is more of a night club then a swing club. Many people come to be social rather then have sex, or they come to see sex then do it. So it makes it kind of difficult to find what you are looking for because you are surrounded by people who may not be looking for the same thing. Hence many locals dont bother 'finding' the new people, because they are tired of running into people not interested.
Come on out, in fact we are leaving in a minute to go to the Sunday hot tub party. Come with an open mind and no expectations, and talk to people.....You'll have fun
We should add, we find people at the club alot easier then on the websites. Too many people just on the website through pictures and words, rather then meeting the people and getting to know them. At a club you know what you are getting...not assuming what they are like
I agree with the cliquish thing. I am a single male swinger and went to a club in pittsburgh multiple times and never really got any attention till they put up a way to contact other members...the crazy thing is that when you are a single male at a club hyou just sit there, because if you go up to people they think you are an asshole single male. you wouldn't believe the responses i got just for saying hi to some people..it is un real...i did meet some great fun people who were down to earth but in general i went there hoping if nothing else to have a dirnk with people and hvae some fun but usually sat there at a table by my self without anyone coming up to me to talk
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We went to a club in Vegas called the Green Door in January. We went up stairs and started making out. It is probably hard for a single male to find some action there because when we started having sex we were immediately surrounded by single males. A bunch of single guys started crowding around us and at one point a guy was jacking off over us. I had to tell him to back off a couple of times and then told him to go away. Then we went down stairs to the couples only area. It was such a better environment. Most of the couples were just sitting around watching a few other couples having sex. We started having sex and one at a time, three other couples came up next to us and started having sex next to us. It was a no pressure environment and everyone in the couples only area seemed very polite. This was our first time in a swinging environment and we only did some touching and kissing with the other couples. It was a great night, but it was all anonymous. No one seemed to be hooking up for future encounters. It might just be that Vegas atmosphere.
Love the Greeen Door, alll the way, dont even waste your time on the others down town, the green door is safe, clean, and very very friendly, you cant go wrong, and pay the extra 5 for the monthly membership, you will go back
Let me try this again....
We belong to 6 or 7 clubs and go about every weekend to one of them. These clubs are technically "Off Premise: clubs.. This means a dance/social/party possibly with some soft sexual activity on the dance floor or at the tables in the "ballroom". There is no sexual intercourse, typically , in the ballroom. A strictly Off PRemise club has their dance and then people have to find their own places to get busy. The "Off Premise" clubs around here typically are hotel parties and a hospitality suite/s are provided for open play and couples can repair to their rooms for private fun... We have never run into a club that had enough of a clique to feel unfriendly.
I think that clubs are what you make of them. If you expect people to fluck to YOU, think again. You have to put yourself out there to meet people. The guy has to introduce himself around, ask ladies to dance and see what happens. Ladies who are fairly good looking will have no trouble finding men and or women who will be happy to dance and.... with them. It's really up to the couple to make the experience fun. If one goes to any club with expectations and they fail to come to fruition, they will have a bad time and thus clubs are bad.. If one goes to a club with no expectations and has a good time dancing and meeting people...and maybe hookup.... Great, and clubs are a lot of fun.
On premise clubs, those where sex happens where it happens can seem to be kind of cliquish, sometimes. One has to make the effort to get to know people and let them know you. Sometimes you can hook up in a NY second. If you are willing to make the effort to meet people and talk to them and maybe be a little forward..... ONe never knows whst may happen.
The club experience is what you make it.. So go out to a club have fun and make it happen....
Ray (Uncle Anne Landers)
We belong to 6 or 7 clubs and go about every weekend to one of them. These clubs are technically "Off Premise: clubs.. This means a dance/social/party possibly with some soft sexual activity on the dance floor or at the tables in the "ballroom". There is no sexual intercourse, typically , in the ballroom. A strictly Off PRemise club has their dance and then people have to find their own places to get busy. The "Off Premise" clubs around here typically are hotel parties and a hospitality suite/s are provided for open play and couples can repair to their rooms for private fun... We have never run into a club that had enough of a clique to feel unfriendly.
I think that clubs are what you make of them. If you expect people to fluck to YOU, think again. You have to put yourself out there to meet people. The guy has to introduce himself around, ask ladies to dance and see what happens. Ladies who are fairly good looking will have no trouble finding men and or women who will be happy to dance and.... with them. It's really up to the couple to make the experience fun. If one goes to any club with expectations and they fail to come to fruition, they will have a bad time and thus clubs are bad.. If one goes to a club with no expectations and has a good time dancing and meeting people...and maybe hookup.... Great, and clubs are a lot of fun.
On premise clubs, those where sex happens where it happens can seem to be kind of cliquish, sometimes. One has to make the effort to get to know people and let them know you. Sometimes you can hook up in a NY second. If you are willing to make the effort to meet people and talk to them and maybe be a little forward..... ONe never knows whst may happen.
The club experience is what you make it.. So go out to a club have fun and make it happen....
Ray (Uncle Anne Landers)