It took this long for you to realize that? 
Aye,
Val. I'm sure part of this comes from location. But all is not lost. I too am over 30. And I have found myself over 30 and single twice. Both times I have found great relationships. The first I found. My current relationship found me.
So, I understand the pain my friend. You are intelligent and not unpleasant to look at (yes, you're a good looking guy). So there are women out there who will want to find you and give you the white hot life of love you seek.
-K_T
Val. I'm sure part of this comes from location. But all is not lost. I too am over 30. And I have found myself over 30 and single twice. Both times I have found great relationships. The first I found. My current relationship found me.
So, I understand the pain my friend. You are intelligent and not unpleasant to look at (yes, you're a good looking guy). So there are women out there who will want to find you and give you the white hot life of love you seek.
-K_T
Your life long partner is out there. Found mine when i was 35. Wasn't even looking, just sorta found her. OPnly thing i believe is when you do find that partner being ion the over 30 crowd it will be a package deal. Mine included 5 kids and i would't trade a day for anything in the world.
Rob
Rob
Yup, singles (man or woman) after thirty are very much like parking spaces, the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped 
I got lucky, met her when I was 19......still took me way to damn long to figure out what I had though as it was almost another 4 years till we were married.
Most will tell you the time you find someone is when you have quit looking. Good luck on your quest, and like it is said, you are very likely to find it a package deal so you may want to invest in a book "step parenting for dummies".
I got lucky, met her when I was 19......still took me way to damn long to figure out what I had though as it was almost another 4 years till we were married.
Most will tell you the time you find someone is when you have quit looking. Good luck on your quest, and like it is said, you are very likely to find it a package deal so you may want to invest in a book "step parenting for dummies".
I felt much the same way being over 40 and looking!! But, just this year, on an adult site, I found the lady who has far more than I had ever thought I would be blessed with. We married in December and we still play. She treats me like a king and she is my queen. So, dont give up hope, it does happen. Good luck.
So I'm thinking, how bad must I look at 51?!? And another thing, how could I possibly meet someone out of the lifestyle whom I may introduce to swinging? I have found that the biggest issue with non-swingers is sex. I have thought that maybe it is just the cheating sex they don't like but I don't think that's gonna fly.
COOL!
Aye Val,
And thank you.
As one who has walked the Single and Couples line a few times I can attest to the words that he is saying.
Never take what you have for granted, it is a gift beyond measure.
Have a great day all.
And Mrs. K_T? I love you...thanks for finding me.
-Mr. K_T
And thank you.
As one who has walked the Single and Couples line a few times I can attest to the words that he is saying.
Never take what you have for granted, it is a gift beyond measure.
Have a great day all.
And Mrs. K_T? I love you...thanks for finding me.
-Mr. K_T
well hek, I haveta say I don't have ANY experience in the single world. Hubby and I started dating WAAAY to young and have been together ever sense. We were 15 and barely 16 for him. We often wonder if thats why we have such an interest in this lifestyle because we never got that chance to try different things, and so call "date" other people. We are completely devoted to one another and don't ever plan to be back in the dating scene again. If we had to be in the dating scene it would be a whole new world to us, sense we never really have experienced it.....only when we were young teenagers, and I am sure it's not quite like that at 30! LOL!
I have, however, had lots of girlfriends that had married young and divorced and been in the dating scene at 25 and 30 they survived it and found awesome partners at an older age. I think older means a bit wiser, having had lived a little so to speak. Been around the block a time or two can bring wisdom to a relationship and there's nothing wrong with that.
I agee with everyone else, things tend to happen when you quit tryen so hard, when you least expect it to. My advice, just relax, live for you...and the rest will come.
I have, however, had lots of girlfriends that had married young and divorced and been in the dating scene at 25 and 30 they survived it and found awesome partners at an older age. I think older means a bit wiser, having had lived a little so to speak. Been around the block a time or two can bring wisdom to a relationship and there's nothing wrong with that.
I agee with everyone else, things tend to happen when you quit tryen so hard, when you least expect it to. My advice, just relax, live for you...and the rest will come.