Hello Everyone!!
We just had a question for everyone, How much luck have you had finding a single female? Bi or straight...
We found ourselves that living in a larger city, we had very little luck.
We moved from SC to OH into a very small town, and have found 2 single hot girls to hook up with here. ( though our preference is still hot couples)
Doesn't make since lol
So we wanted to see what kind of luck everyone else has had
THanks
Donna & Brian here
We just had a question for everyone, How much luck have you had finding a single female? Bi or straight...
We found ourselves that living in a larger city, we had very little luck.
We moved from SC to OH into a very small town, and have found 2 single hot girls to hook up with here. ( though our preference is still hot couples)
Doesn't make since lol
So we wanted to see what kind of luck everyone else has had
THanks
Donna & Brian here
We have had minimal luck finding them and I am only interested in single fems. However, I know and accept that it will be difficult. We live in a small town and my husband and I meet many people in our lines of work but we have to be careful because we are in a town that frowns upon everything it seems. :-) We still get called all kind of names because we are interracial. We just take it day by day and are patient. Have a great day all!
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I am one of those happy Unicorns that couples seek out, and in my area there are quite a few of us. We seem to have too many non-quality single males here, and finding the quality single males is my dilemma. I think the problem many have in finding Unicorns (single bi-fems) is that either they don't know where to look, or they don't know how to be successful in their e-mails and first contacts. Profiles that have no OPEN pictures of both the male and the female, non-current and representative pics, or 20 of the female and 1 of the male, make it harder to know if there is an interest, and profiles with no insite into both's personality to say why anyone should be interested in both are extremly important in all aspects of swinging. I have yet to understand why all the female pics and few to 1 male pics. IMHO, No matter if you are seeking a straight couple or a bi-fem, there needs to be an equal number of M/F pics.
Worst thing someone can do is send an e-mail that is disrespectful. By that I mean the "ya wanna" ones, or those that say, "Would you do my wife cause I just know she has a bi-side hidden in her" or "Be my b-day present to my hubby" ect ones. Sometimes others seem to think we are less than a person and how we are contacted will effect any future contacts. I am so disappointed when I recieve mail like that. No, I am not interested in being the bi-chick that needs to convince your wife she is possibly bi-curious. That scenario SUCKS! Treat me as you would when talking to your wife or sister please and that will get you noticed. Please keep in mind we recieve a large amount of e-mails and have patience. If you are not answered in a week or two, don't hesitate to send another one that remains inviting, yet respectful. Sometimes e-mails get buried and then lost. It is usually nothing personal.
I perfer to meet my playmates at no pressured meets and greets. I invite couples to my parties all the time and pray before every party that they understand that I am usually only interested in meeting the first time. I NEED to feel the chemistry and attraction before I want to get into your bed. I also look for the stronger attraction to the female since that is the most important draw to the couples I am interested in. I already have a couple that are my best friends and I feel attached to, so additional couples or females are for fun times. If I chose to play with someone at a party, it is still my choice and being pushy will ensure that I will be selecting a non-pushy couple or person. I usually only play with females at parties.
Another great place to meet bi-fems is at clubs that cater to the bi-fem community. You have to be more careful in approaching females in clubs that are mostly lesbian, but always have your female half do the initial talking. If the chemistry and attraction is there, the rest will follow. If the female is strickly lesbian, she will let you know. Just be sweet and move on.... It is best to have the hubby there, but remember the draw for bi-fems and usually the female half of a couple.
If I accept a more intimate date with a couple, the rules and boundaries need to be expressed fully, and in advance. If there is a no-kissing rule, I personally won't have interest cause I have found through experience that issues arise easily and often when that rule is in place. One of the reason my main draw has to be with the female is to avoid DRAMA! I also love the passion and sensuality, and that involves lots of kissing with both the male and the female. Sorry, not trying to be negative, it is just my preference. I also prefer the male to allow me some quality time with the female before joining in. Most guys have little patience, and will try to jump in within 10 - 15 minutes. Patience dude! If you get the two females totally into heightened plezures, you will have more than you can handle when we invite you to join. Women respond differently and the most rewarding bi experiences come when there is no rush. If that is what the couple truly wants, it's fine if I know in advance, but the FF enjoyment is severly dimished for me.
I really love it when the male sits back comfortably and enjoys the eye candy until he is invited, no matter how long that takes. Having a male that understands that FF play is an extremly personal and erotic adventure helps. My couple always encourages special alone time. Sometimes he will watch, and sometimes he will go into another room until called, sometimes he is not even there. I will look up occasionally to see him watching from the door, but he keeps his distance and does not intrude until invited. That makes for the best encounters and we rewards him to no end when we are ready for him. He will call me sometimes and ask me if I will just make plans for his wife and I. I love him for that!
Don't know if any of my rambling will help you in your quest. Just be patient. We are here! :m
Worst thing someone can do is send an e-mail that is disrespectful. By that I mean the "ya wanna" ones, or those that say, "Would you do my wife cause I just know she has a bi-side hidden in her" or "Be my b-day present to my hubby" ect ones. Sometimes others seem to think we are less than a person and how we are contacted will effect any future contacts. I am so disappointed when I recieve mail like that. No, I am not interested in being the bi-chick that needs to convince your wife she is possibly bi-curious. That scenario SUCKS! Treat me as you would when talking to your wife or sister please and that will get you noticed. Please keep in mind we recieve a large amount of e-mails and have patience. If you are not answered in a week or two, don't hesitate to send another one that remains inviting, yet respectful. Sometimes e-mails get buried and then lost. It is usually nothing personal.
I perfer to meet my playmates at no pressured meets and greets. I invite couples to my parties all the time and pray before every party that they understand that I am usually only interested in meeting the first time. I NEED to feel the chemistry and attraction before I want to get into your bed. I also look for the stronger attraction to the female since that is the most important draw to the couples I am interested in. I already have a couple that are my best friends and I feel attached to, so additional couples or females are for fun times. If I chose to play with someone at a party, it is still my choice and being pushy will ensure that I will be selecting a non-pushy couple or person. I usually only play with females at parties.
Another great place to meet bi-fems is at clubs that cater to the bi-fem community. You have to be more careful in approaching females in clubs that are mostly lesbian, but always have your female half do the initial talking. If the chemistry and attraction is there, the rest will follow. If the female is strickly lesbian, she will let you know. Just be sweet and move on.... It is best to have the hubby there, but remember the draw for bi-fems and usually the female half of a couple.
If I accept a more intimate date with a couple, the rules and boundaries need to be expressed fully, and in advance. If there is a no-kissing rule, I personally won't have interest cause I have found through experience that issues arise easily and often when that rule is in place. One of the reason my main draw has to be with the female is to avoid DRAMA! I also love the passion and sensuality, and that involves lots of kissing with both the male and the female. Sorry, not trying to be negative, it is just my preference. I also prefer the male to allow me some quality time with the female before joining in. Most guys have little patience, and will try to jump in within 10 - 15 minutes. Patience dude! If you get the two females totally into heightened plezures, you will have more than you can handle when we invite you to join. Women respond differently and the most rewarding bi experiences come when there is no rush. If that is what the couple truly wants, it's fine if I know in advance, but the FF enjoyment is severly dimished for me.
I really love it when the male sits back comfortably and enjoys the eye candy until he is invited, no matter how long that takes. Having a male that understands that FF play is an extremly personal and erotic adventure helps. My couple always encourages special alone time. Sometimes he will watch, and sometimes he will go into another room until called, sometimes he is not even there. I will look up occasionally to see him watching from the door, but he keeps his distance and does not intrude until invited. That makes for the best encounters and we rewards him to no end when we are ready for him. He will call me sometimes and ask me if I will just make plans for his wife and I. I love him for that!
Don't know if any of my rambling will help you in your quest. Just be patient. We are here! :m
Based upon our luck so far, you would be more likely to win the lottery, AND find the holy grail AND ride a Unicorn than to find a good quality, attractive, and available single woman in the lifestyle... LOL
If they are attractive and a quality woman, their agenda is so full, that they are hardly ever available.
I am sure that they exist, (Like powerball Lotto winners, Unicorns, and the Holy Grail) just not in the last two places we have lived.
If they are attractive and a quality woman, their agenda is so full, that they are hardly ever available.
I am sure that they exist, (Like powerball Lotto winners, Unicorns, and the Holy Grail) just not in the last two places we have lived.
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Anytime you narrow your search, you will narrow your result. Most would say this isn't true with single males. However, if you add the "attractive, class, personality and availability" factors many have complained that quality single males can be hard to find as well.
My wife and I never look for singles because there is no need to. There is a male and female in a couple. You can always find a couple that is willing to let the girls play. Some will even let you take turns doind the FMF and MFM. To us singles are over-rated. Anyway, that's our opinion. Happy hunting.
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Anytime you narrow your search, you will narrow your result. Most would say this isn't true with single males. However, if you add the "attractive, class, personality and availability" factors many have complained that quality single males can be hard to find as well.
My wife and I never look for singles because there is no need to. There is a male and female in a couple. You can always find a couple that is willing to let the girls play. Some will even let you take turns doind the FMF and MFM. To us singles are over-rated. Anyway, that's our opinion. Happy hunting.
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Actually... we've had pretty good luck with single females, but we haven't really found them on the site... We throw non-swinger parties and have lots of non-swinger friends... add some good music, a little drinky, a bit of flirting on both my part and the wifey... and before you know it big hot orgies.... ok not really big hot orgies, but we have had an experience or two where the ladies get to rolling around naked... sometimes I get to join in... sometimes not... either way its well worth it and it's always a super sexy time... and at the very least has been the source of some really cool friendships.
The thing is... most girls want to at least experiment with other girls... and lots of girls like casual sex without all the drama or clingy guys... so by going to their element... you open up your opportunities..
Cheers...
The thing is... most girls want to at least experiment with other girls... and lots of girls like casual sex without all the drama or clingy guys... so by going to their element... you open up your opportunities..
Cheers...
I think the key here is simple.
The less you try, the less desperate you seem, the more honest you are - the better off you'll be.
Sure. Mrs. K_T and I look for single females, but we look in a particular niche. We also really try to have something interesting to say and offer "something" that might be of interest. There are no cock pics in the email, nothing offensive and we try to put NO pressure out there at all.
I think a lot of couples simply want to have a single female with them TOO badly and, well, it shows! If you really want to have a single female join you, then give them a reason to *want* to join you! It's a great place to start.
-K_T
The less you try, the less desperate you seem, the more honest you are - the better off you'll be.
Sure. Mrs. K_T and I look for single females, but we look in a particular niche. We also really try to have something interesting to say and offer "something" that might be of interest. There are no cock pics in the email, nothing offensive and we try to put NO pressure out there at all.
I think a lot of couples simply want to have a single female with them TOO badly and, well, it shows! If you really want to have a single female join you, then give them a reason to *want* to join you! It's a great place to start.
-K_T
You mean like... they would be the center of attention in a candle lit private in-home spa room with a four handed hot oil massage as the ice breaker?
Offer stands!
(or a 6 handed massage for a nice bi wife!)
d&c
Offer stands!
(or a 6 handed massage for a nice bi wife!)
d&c
You massage too? It's like the best thing to ever have for the lifestyle! 
We have no luck problem finding them...BUT we are members of 6 sites...We (OK, HE) think it is the whole fantasy thing...Everyone wants that barbie doll thing going on...Just our experience...We are also lucky...He prefers the thicker, curvier women...So not an issue...He DOES appreciate the thinner, less curvy women, BUT not as much...Aside from Mrs. TR,,,she is thin AND sexy as hell...Sorry Don, had to throw that in...