Sometimes you meet a couple or you meet people that give you the impression,
they might be in the lifestyle or want to try it. But how do you ask without being
rude, or offending someone? Any Ideas guys?
-Latinlovers22
p.s. If anyone would like to play with us feel free to respond.
they might be in the lifestyle or want to try it. But how do you ask without being
rude, or offending someone? Any Ideas guys?
-Latinlovers22
p.s. If anyone would like to play with us feel free to respond.
There are a couple of ways. First of all, many of the swing websites, as well as NASCA, (the North American Swing Club Association) etc. have their own distinctive necklaces, or pins that will identify you as being in the lifestyle, but only to those members who know what the symbols mean, like the NASCA Apple with a bite taken out of it, etc.
Another thing you can do, is when you ask them if they would like to get together with you, you can use the phrase, "We'd love to get together with you sometime, if you think that you can swing it". Most people in the lifestyle know that this is something that other couples that are in the lifestyle would say to you if they are interested in you, but don't know if you are in the lifestyle or not.
Finally, you can ask them if they ever like to go out to clubs. If you know the names of some of the local off premise clubs in your area where people in the lifestyle tend to meet, you can strike up a conversation and say that you like going to such and such club, if they aren't in the lifestyle, it will be meaningless to them, and if they are, they will probably recognize the name and say something.
A few suggestions.
Cruisers
Another thing you can do, is when you ask them if they would like to get together with you, you can use the phrase, "We'd love to get together with you sometime, if you think that you can swing it". Most people in the lifestyle know that this is something that other couples that are in the lifestyle would say to you if they are interested in you, but don't know if you are in the lifestyle or not.
Finally, you can ask them if they ever like to go out to clubs. If you know the names of some of the local off premise clubs in your area where people in the lifestyle tend to meet, you can strike up a conversation and say that you like going to such and such club, if they aren't in the lifestyle, it will be meaningless to them, and if they are, they will probably recognize the name and say something.
A few suggestions.
Cruisers
How about since we live behind the Zion Curtain we just have a little curtain pin with a rip in it.... Would work great for Utah and could just say if asked that it means I am not LDS 
No offence, my wife is LDS... glad I corrupted her young! Evil grin
PS, I am sure the Geco and Aple are copy writed... lets start our own
Dave & Kristie (Yes, we used to run Utah Afterdark)
No offence, my wife is LDS... glad I corrupted her young! Evil grin
PS, I am sure the Geco and Aple are copy writed... lets start our own
Dave & Kristie (Yes, we used to run Utah Afterdark)
Hasn't anyone seen the old cartoon with the fox, named George, and the hound who is hunting for the fox. The hound says, in the best dumb deep voice you can imagine, to the fox, "Which way did he go George which way did he go"....The fox needless to say directs the hound to a cliff, with some complicated directions..like...: "Well you go down there, directing with his hand, turn right at that big tree and you jump over the log and he's just on the other side. When the hound comes back to the fox(George) the hound says that the fox isn't there. This cycle repeats about 3 or 4 times before the hound figures out who George is and that he is the fox....
SO WHO IS GEORGE?? You ask ..... You go down there, turn right at the big tree and jump over the log and George is just on the other side......
SO WHO IS GEORGE?? You ask ..... You go down there, turn right at the big tree and jump over the log and George is just on the other side......