Sounds hot to us
We have do it! It was hot. I could not wait to hear back from my wife on how her evening went. Our Friends told us the same thing. Not many Single Bi or str8 females out there.
Yes, and it does work as long as everyone is on board with it and okay with playing alone. It is hard to find a single female looking for a threesome, they are not as plentiful as single males in the lifestyle. So this is a good way to satisfy that fantasy with like-minded couples.
yes we have done this exact thing, as most have said about you all must be on same page. I am VERY ok with Michele being with others and she has even had a fmf that i set up for her. We also are great friends with 2 couples and have this same arrangement, have had all combinations. mfm fmf. the key is communication and each person is comfortable being the one at home....
can be great fun but make sure everyone is ok with it...
can be great fun but make sure everyone is ok with it...
We see it as the perfect way to enjoy the FMF scenario. We have yet to do it ourselves, but are very much open to the idea, though we'd only want to do it with a couple we've played with before. There's a lot less uncertainity that way as far as reciprocation and everyone enjoying themselves.
We agree it would be somethign we may try! It sounds so hot to us! Maybe even try some mfm with the couple also!
I love the idea.
A Foursome can always become a threesome with one watching. We prefer it that way rather than asking a lot of questions afterwards. Different Strokes for Different Folks, do what excites the both of you.
Ah, the ever elusive...
I agree with the above. Personally I Mrs. K_T and I wouldn't agree to it-not our agreement with one another.
But if you're looking for the Elusive and this is the solution you wish to take? Then it sounds equitable if it's good for all parties!
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I agree with the above. Personally I Mrs. K_T and I wouldn't agree to it-not our agreement with one another.
But if you're looking for the Elusive and this is the solution you wish to take? Then it sounds equitable if it's good for all parties!
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Hubby mentioned this to me as a possibilty but because I am not interested in another male we never tried it. I realize how difficult it is to find that single and elusive bi-fem but it is worth the wait to get what I want. He is understanding and doesn't complain because we have a great sex life either way and are happy. However, I think if everyone in the situation agrees and is comfortable then it sounds like a great idea. Have a great day all!
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FMF.....its nice....but call me a party but why limit...thats the stereo-typical teenage male wet dream. Most guys feel more comfortable with that because their cock is the only one where if there is another in the room most males feel a need to compete insted of just having fun with sex!!! so i feel it is more of a comfort issue more than anything else!!
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I'll have to agree with the others and say that it's unneccessary to exclude the other guy. Camera detail isn't such a bad duty when you know you're turn is next time. However, there are some pretty fuckin' shitty people in this lifestyle, so let me just say that you should probably make sure you know the couple well enough first. It would suck if the other guy got his and backed out when it's your turn. Just a thought.
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I'll have to agree with the others and say that it's unneccessary to exclude the other guy. Camera detail isn't such a bad duty when you know you're turn is next time. However, there are some pretty fuckin' shitty people in this lifestyle, so let me just say that you should probably make sure you know the couple well enough first. It would suck if the other guy got his and backed out when it's your turn. Just a thought.
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The thing that gets me is this...
I am a member of many sites...And one of them which shall remain nameless *COUGH COUGH* AFF *COUGH COUGH* has a huge chat room...In the chat room, there are typically 50% "single males", 25% couples, and 25% "single females"...The reason I put the quotation marks on the singles is that the VAST majority of BOTH singles are married and searching for unbeknownst to their partner bootay....My point..And I do have one...is that when people find out the guy is not actually single, they all attack him "He is an asshole, he is cheating, etc" but when they find out the woman is not single...No one says a word...Seems to me a double standard...Wondering why...
As to TR saying that there are a lot of assholes in the lifestyle...Indeed there are..And for you to be able to do the "rotating threesome" thing, you should establish a more than one time hop in the sack type of relationship with the others...
TR...What happened to UTCPL??? I posted when I would be in SLC, flight number and everything...*POOF* he and the posts disappeared...How did that happen?
I am a member of many sites...And one of them which shall remain nameless *COUGH COUGH* AFF *COUGH COUGH* has a huge chat room...In the chat room, there are typically 50% "single males", 25% couples, and 25% "single females"...The reason I put the quotation marks on the singles is that the VAST majority of BOTH singles are married and searching for unbeknownst to their partner bootay....My point..And I do have one...is that when people find out the guy is not actually single, they all attack him "He is an asshole, he is cheating, etc" but when they find out the woman is not single...No one says a word...Seems to me a double standard...Wondering why...
As to TR saying that there are a lot of assholes in the lifestyle...Indeed there are..And for you to be able to do the "rotating threesome" thing, you should establish a more than one time hop in the sack type of relationship with the others...
TR...What happened to UTCPL??? I posted when I would be in SLC, flight number and everything...*POOF* he and the posts disappeared...How did that happen?
Hello All!
Forgive the long post - but I simply wanted to respond to what VP stated SO well.
Posted by VP:
Here's a question:
Is it that a single swinging female is all that elusive, or is it just more likely that a woman who's secure enough in who she is to have a liberated lifestyle is probably more likely to have a boyfriend / husband? Thus making it a simple fact of life and society that the whole concept of a liberated single female is for the most part a myth or at best a temporary state.
Guys are programmed to be tomcats. There comes a time when "every boy must become a man". But little girls are taught that "sex is something only for your husband".
Society accepts single males prowling about generally - that's why when a single guy get shat upon in a swingers site, the resultant wailing bears striking resemblance to a chorus of whining mules. They don't get it: "They don't like me? Why? I'm hot..." Now if a woman were to go out there looking for it, then she's branded a home-wrecker, "slut", "whore", or worse. Tell me you'd sign up for that cruise?
IMHO: I think when a couple starts kvetching about the lack of single females, they might do well to have a look at why it is that they want just a woman and not her S/O. Chances are, deep down those same paradigms that are causing the lack of single females are deeply rooted in their own attitudes.
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From the "not so elusive" Te:
From my perspective I would have to agree with these statements wholeheartedly. I
Forgive the long post - but I simply wanted to respond to what VP stated SO well.
Posted by VP:
Here's a question:
Is it that a single swinging female is all that elusive, or is it just more likely that a woman who's secure enough in who she is to have a liberated lifestyle is probably more likely to have a boyfriend / husband? Thus making it a simple fact of life and society that the whole concept of a liberated single female is for the most part a myth or at best a temporary state.
Guys are programmed to be tomcats. There comes a time when "every boy must become a man". But little girls are taught that "sex is something only for your husband".
Society accepts single males prowling about generally - that's why when a single guy get shat upon in a swingers site, the resultant wailing bears striking resemblance to a chorus of whining mules. They don't get it: "They don't like me? Why? I'm hot..." Now if a woman were to go out there looking for it, then she's branded a home-wrecker, "slut", "whore", or worse. Tell me you'd sign up for that cruise?
IMHO: I think when a couple starts kvetching about the lack of single females, they might do well to have a look at why it is that they want just a woman and not her S/O. Chances are, deep down those same paradigms that are causing the lack of single females are deeply rooted in their own attitudes.
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From the "not so elusive" Te:
From my perspective I would have to agree with these statements wholeheartedly. I
bravo TE and VP
female looking for a threesome after noon fun ?
love to please ,I like giving plesher
I LOVE THE IDEA OF THE MAN FUCKING ME WHILE IM GIVING HER PLESHER VERRY CLEAN A SINGLE FEAMEL LOKING FOR A couple
LUNCH DAT AT MY PLACE
love to please ,I like giving plesher
I LOVE THE IDEA OF THE MAN FUCKING ME WHILE IM GIVING HER PLESHER VERRY CLEAN A SINGLE FEAMEL LOKING FOR A couple
LUNCH DAT AT MY PLACE
Amen TORGAN!!! Amen! Have a great day all! :-)
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<b>JSTJIM</b>, like gentlemen, we've shook hands and made peace. Thanks for your support brother. Let me know if you decide you even wanna take a trip out to Utah-rus. LOL! We have a spare room.
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<b>JSTJIM</b>, like gentlemen, we've shook hands and made peace. Thanks for your support brother. Let me know if you decide you even wanna take a trip out to Utah-rus. LOL! We have a spare room.
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VP, Te -
EXCELLENT points. And I agree.
The experience is great fun! WooHoo! We're all for it and are looking!
As someone who has been part of a couple, single male (ew!) and part of a couple...AND been successful finding the Elusive when we've been looking for one (not bragging) I have to say it IS about attitude. It's all about being comfortable in your own skin and with your relationship and just leaving the bullshit out of the play.
Ever been in a friends house when they argue? Was that comfortable? Well...that's how it is when you have your "baggage" sitting around when you try to play.
I think a good analogy for the Elusive Single Female is like trying to date the Supermodel. Everyone thinks she's too far out of reach...when in reality she's sitting home a lot of the time because the people trying to date her are either a) idiots or b) not approaching her because they think she's "too far out of reach!"
If you want to find the Elusive...just try! And do it intelligently...and be yourself. Actually READ THEIR PROFILES and respond in kind. (Don't send a cock pick...really. Just don't.)
I can promise you...this can actually work for you. I've met some WONDERFUL Elusive Single Females just by being *me*...and respecting them.
Just ask around...and of course, ask Mrs. K_T
K...hopping off my soap box.
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EXCELLENT points. And I agree.
The experience is great fun! WooHoo! We're all for it and are looking!
As someone who has been part of a couple, single male (ew!) and part of a couple...AND been successful finding the Elusive when we've been looking for one (not bragging) I have to say it IS about attitude. It's all about being comfortable in your own skin and with your relationship and just leaving the bullshit out of the play.
Ever been in a friends house when they argue? Was that comfortable? Well...that's how it is when you have your "baggage" sitting around when you try to play.
I think a good analogy for the Elusive Single Female is like trying to date the Supermodel. Everyone thinks she's too far out of reach...when in reality she's sitting home a lot of the time because the people trying to date her are either a) idiots or b) not approaching her because they think she's "too far out of reach!"
If you want to find the Elusive...just try! And do it intelligently...and be yourself. Actually READ THEIR PROFILES and respond in kind. (Don't send a cock pick...really. Just don't.)
I can promise you...this can actually work for you. I've met some WONDERFUL Elusive Single Females just by being *me*...and respecting them.
Just ask around...and of course, ask Mrs. K_T
K...hopping off my soap box.
Oh..DON!!!
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We would never agree to it. It has been our experience that the couples who only want fmf type encounters the male half of the couple has insecurity issues. It is really very rude & out of place to even ask the question in our opinion.
Sure does. Singles male or female are fair game though.
Depending upon circumstances, and the couple as well as how well you know them, how long, and how comfortable you all are with one another it could be rude and out of place to ask that question. For instances, if you just met a couple and things are going well you go to dinner, you have some drinks together at this point I think it would be rude and out of place to ask that quesiton. However, with a couple that you know well and have known for quite sometime and you are competely comfortable with them in and out of the bedroom I don't think it would b rude or out of place to ask. Especially if you all have talked about the fantasy of a 3some whether that be mfm, or fmf. Even when you know a couple for awhile and the comfort level is good you still have to approach that the right way you don't want to ruin a friendship over something like that. I believe something like that would work under the right circumstances....but why not let someone run a camera or just enjoy watching. Neither one of us mind sitting out and running a camera, or even just watching or going out of the room to mix everyone another drink even so that a husband can enjoy 2 females or so that the wife can enjoy two men. You could have one weekend get together be for the husbands to enjoy the two women and another get together b for the wifes to enjoy the two men. Everyone has their own view, and their own way of making this fantasy come true just do what works best for you. Although we are both open to trying new things, we both prefer that the other is around. You can still do the things you want to do, and try the things you want to try, why leave your spouse out of it. Just our thought, if I want to try something new and different then i certainly would want my spouse to b there to watch and enjoy watching me enjoy it.....and vice versa. Thats the whole reason we got into this so if you take that away then it's no fun for us.