After talking with several different swingers, I have often wondered if there were sexual acts that couples preferred not to do with a swinging partner.
We save our hearts for each other.
Yes...there are certain..."things".
But those might just be open for negotiation.
Others are just reserved for Love...and those we don't share.
-K_T
But those might just be open for negotiation.
Others are just reserved for Love...and those we don't share.
-K_T
We don't consciously save any special kinds of physical acts for each other alone, though there are some things we do together more than we do with others, because we know it drives each other wild. I have noticed that we tend to do those things that are seen as more tender and loving with each other than we do with our swing partners. Even when we do those things with others, it just doesn't feel the same. We will at times take a little more care (for lack of a better word) with our swing partners that we've become close friends than we do with others.
So that's us. Its an interesting topic though, thanks for bringing it up.
-SG
So that's us. Its an interesting topic though, thanks for bringing it up.
-SG
The obvious ones Love and unprotected sex! Then we will do Anal and that is something left just for us! Really dirty dirty talk tends to stay between us too.
:z Other then that we are pretty open to almost everything else with other swingers! We feel that every couple if they think about it has things that they only do with their partner its just some of it you never really notice it until you sit and think really hard about it.
:z Other then that we are pretty open to almost everything else with other swingers! We feel that every couple if they think about it has things that they only do with their partner its just some of it you never really notice it until you sit and think really hard about it.
Our sex is somewhat 'Kinkier" when were are alone...maybe because we are SOOOO comfortable with each other.
We have relaxed a lot sense our first experience. There was a lot we were not comfortable with doing with someone else....or more so, I think for me...I wasn't comfortable watching someone doing with my husband, but we have sense learned that although we may do some things with others that most married couples would never do, there are some very important things that we have with each other that just can't be shared and those are the feelings.....passion, love, comfort, and security. Those are things that we just do not have with someone else no matter what we do with them. We may passionately kiss someone else but the passion isn't there like it is with each other. We may have sex with some one else, but we would never make love with someone else. O and one more thing that is only something that is shared ONLY when with each other......NO CONDEMN wearing!! LOL