So, we've all been in this situation before... We're shopping at the local mall or warehouse club or what have you... And you see another couple (or woman) checking you both out. If you could see their little thought balloons, you're sure that their thoughts are revolving around a nice "you and them" sandwich right about then.
What would you do (or HAVE YOU DONE) to intimate to them that you're also 'open' to those sorts of activities?
Reason I ask - my wife frequently gets hit on by other women in public right in front of me. It's obvious to both of us, naturally, but when (later) I suggest that she start flirting back, she usually blushes and responds that not ~everyone~ out there is into this sort of lifestyle... So how can we tell? Do we just risk offending people by flat-out ASKING them? If so, what do you ask? (Pardon me, but can I borrow your wife for a few moments here...) hehehe
Just wondering if there's some sort of 'conduct code' we should all follow
What would you do (or HAVE YOU DONE) to intimate to them that you're also 'open' to those sorts of activities?
Reason I ask - my wife frequently gets hit on by other women in public right in front of me. It's obvious to both of us, naturally, but when (later) I suggest that she start flirting back, she usually blushes and responds that not ~everyone~ out there is into this sort of lifestyle... So how can we tell? Do we just risk offending people by flat-out ASKING them? If so, what do you ask? (Pardon me, but can I borrow your wife for a few moments here...) hehehe
Just wondering if there's some sort of 'conduct code' we should all follow
Try dropping the word lifestyle into a sentance,or ask if you have meet before and use a club name everyone knows is a swingers club. In Dallas the key word would be San sousi.
A couple of months ago, in Savahana Ga, we met a great couple on River Street. He started up a conversation and we ended up having a couple of beers with them. We clicked together so well, we actually went to dinner and afterwards danced until about 2 am with them. Nothing happened that night, but they talked us into staying one more night, and staying in thier room with them. They explained that it was an apartment and had several beds. Rose and I both thought that we would all end up in one that night. Turns out our first impressionwas way off. He maya point of stating to me that he could never understand how anyone could possibly "chect" on his partner. Needless to say nothing happened, but it didn't stop us from having a great weekend with them.
Then 2 weeks ago we are in Key West Florida vacationing, and I notivced a couple just down the bar from us. I thought they might be looking at us, but couldn't really be sure. Making a long storie short we didn't do anything about it, but as we were leaving, she stopped us and asked if we wanted to stay for maybe one more drink. We did, and the night was a wonderful night of dancing flirting ans some really great sex in thier room!
Bottom line is you never really know how a situation is going to end up unless you "go with the flow"
Then 2 weeks ago we are in Key West Florida vacationing, and I notivced a couple just down the bar from us. I thought they might be looking at us, but couldn't really be sure. Making a long storie short we didn't do anything about it, but as we were leaving, she stopped us and asked if we wanted to stay for maybe one more drink. We did, and the night was a wonderful night of dancing flirting ans some really great sex in thier room!
Bottom line is you never really know how a situation is going to end up unless you "go with the flow"
I say go for it. If they are flirting try and hang out, maybe go to someones place, hang out and see where things go. Have a few drinks Just because you do not meet at a club or online does not mean a suprise meeting isnt just as good. Just a thought.