I guess people would call me out of shape but any of you muscular 300 pounders that would like to find out can take a shot at my stomach with a punch and get a big big surprize. What is HWP anyway.. I was, at 39 185# -205 and no fat on the body... 8" thighs, 44" chest... 18" arms 6'1" tall. After 3 heart attacks I started gaining weight... Mostly water but also real weight.... It was discovered that I was diabetic and producing excess quantities of insulin. Well as we all know, when we get older our matabolism's slow and we naturally tend to put on weight... much of this due to excess insulin as a result of slowed metabolic processes. I may have excess wight but I'm in pretty good shape for a iabetic heart patient that had quad bypass surgery in '95. I'm married to a petite sexy woman but in the lifestyle I prefer bigger women... One is 5'10" -and 250 but really not fat.. Just a big woman and so sweet, I think she agrivates my diabetes. I have a girlfriend who is about 200 and again not fat.... I'm not drawn to women who have rolls that have to be explorred to find a sexy place.
I don't even know what HWP means..... What is HW proportional to one is not to someone else. I once had sex with a woman who was about 5'2" about 180 pounds but didn't look fat when she was naked and who was so sexy.... So what is little and what is big and so in the past eleven (11) years I have learned that sexy is whatever sexy is... and I try not to judge a piece of fruit as a lemon or an orange until I've checked out the piece first.
What have you learned in the lifestyle about people? What do you look for in people??
Can you tell anything about the kind of people or their personalities by a picture or what they may write? HAve you ever met someone at a party or social and found yourself liking them regardless of their looks or their job or their "health" (arthritis, heart, diabetes, HBP, Kidney problems, etc....)???? Then you find them on a swinger site and they don't look like the same people and you don't like their profile....
We're learned that sexy comes in many package sizes and shapes and colors.
I don't even know what HWP means..... What is HW proportional to one is not to someone else. I once had sex with a woman who was about 5'2" about 180 pounds but didn't look fat when she was naked and who was so sexy.... So what is little and what is big and so in the past eleven (11) years I have learned that sexy is whatever sexy is... and I try not to judge a piece of fruit as a lemon or an orange until I've checked out the piece first.
What have you learned in the lifestyle about people? What do you look for in people??
Can you tell anything about the kind of people or their personalities by a picture or what they may write? HAve you ever met someone at a party or social and found yourself liking them regardless of their looks or their job or their "health" (arthritis, heart, diabetes, HBP, Kidney problems, etc....)???? Then you find them on a swinger site and they don't look like the same people and you don't like their profile....
We're learned that sexy comes in many package sizes and shapes and colors.
Yes, you can tell a lot about someone by their pictures, their profile and their posts. And yes, a person that is physically attractive may be ugly inside. And yes, the reverse of this is also true.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but as most know this lifestyle is ruled by pantsize for women and men. For the people that are honest HWP is related to BMI. However for all the people that don't have a clue about that chances are good that you are not HWP. But hey it's just a government standard and we all know what kinds of problems they create.
Bottom line it all comes down to attraction that's why it's important to share CURRENT pictures it cuts down on wasted time.
Bottom line it all comes down to attraction that's why it's important to share CURRENT pictures it cuts down on wasted time.
We sure agree with you, sexy is a state of mind. It really seems to us that the folks who are the sexiest are folks that are comfortable in their own skin. Some folks have a smile that turns you on regardless of their body type, others are so much fun to be around that body type really doesn't matter any more.
So we have learned to keep an open mind, as we have made great friends with the most unlikely people since we joined the lifestyle, and in fact that may have been the most enjoyable part of the whole experience(lol...then again maybe not). We have just become alot more open to accept everyone based on how they accept us instead of some sterotype.
T and V
So we have learned to keep an open mind, as we have made great friends with the most unlikely people since we joined the lifestyle, and in fact that may have been the most enjoyable part of the whole experience(lol...then again maybe not). We have just become alot more open to accept everyone based on how they accept us instead of some sterotype.
T and V
Historically, I have always been attracted to thin, small-breasted women, so EXPLORR after gazing at your wife's new pics, all I have to say is......... "Damn, we live pretty close together..... why ain't we f*#^kin?" LOL
Since being in the lifestyle, I have had some great times with women that earlier in my life, I probably would have passed right by. Now, I seem to find something erotically alluring about most any woman. They are all beautiful and sexy in their own unique way. God bless em!
52 years old and still learning!!!!
Since being in the lifestyle, I have had some great times with women that earlier in my life, I probably would have passed right by. Now, I seem to find something erotically alluring about most any woman. They are all beautiful and sexy in their own unique way. God bless em!
52 years old and still learning!!!!
Red Hot....I guess if you can tell a lot about a person by their picture ........does this mean you are a beach.......just thought I would ask judging by your picture.
I always thought that people who were asking for HWP didn't want to play...isn't that what HWP stand for "Hell why Play" (jk) but that is the way we look at it. If you rule out a lot of the opportunities in the playing field then HWP?
I always thought that people who were asking for HWP didn't want to play...isn't that what HWP stand for "Hell why Play" (jk) but that is the way we look at it. If you rule out a lot of the opportunities in the playing field then HWP?
ULUVBIGBLKDICK
You are right. It always strikes me as strange for the people the refuse to post a weight which I might understand but the majority of them also refuse to post pictures. To me it's almost like them shouting that they are embrassed about themselves and trying to trick people into emailing them. Just be honest and up front. It not only saves time, but it really does improve your chances of finding the right people.
btw: great point about pictures. I always like to use the rule of thumb that if a picture is more than 9 months then it's too old to be sending to people.
You are right. It always strikes me as strange for the people the refuse to post a weight which I might understand but the majority of them also refuse to post pictures. To me it's almost like them shouting that they are embrassed about themselves and trying to trick people into emailing them. Just be honest and up front. It not only saves time, but it really does improve your chances of finding the right people.
btw: great point about pictures. I always like to use the rule of thumb that if a picture is more than 9 months then it's too old to be sending to people.
'Bottom line it all comes down to attraction that's why it's important to share CURRENT pictures it cuts down on wasted time. "
Lost1972, you only have a pic of your eyes and nothing else in your profile. You shouldn't be beating up others here. Oh, I guess thats a "current" pic of your eyes?
Lost1972, you only have a pic of your eyes and nothing else in your profile. You shouldn't be beating up others here. Oh, I guess thats a "current" pic of your eyes?