We often read of single men that are looking for straight MFM action but are finding them few and far between. We do have high standards and like to meet in public first. Do you think that the men are mostly married and looking for an easy lay? We would love a few dependable regulars. We have only found one so far. I would love to have fun this Friday! Having a place to play is a real plus.
Jan
Jan
Hi Jan,
I have heard the same complaint from the couples that I have met with and talked to. They also have a hard time finding men that are serious about a straight MFM.
I think you are right about there being a lot of married men just looking for an easy lay and there are also a lot of the single guys that are looking for the same thing. They don't really understand what this lifestyle is all about and a lot of them are just looking for one night stands.
Those kind of individuals do make it more difficult for those of us that are in this for the long run and are looking for friends as well as play partners. I have met a few really nice couples and we get together when we can and always have a blast.
I am like you in another respect, I always meet in a public place first with absolutlely no expectations other than getting to know them better and making sure everyone is comfortable with each other.
I hope you have success finding some dependable regulars.
Take Care,
Ed
I have heard the same complaint from the couples that I have met with and talked to. They also have a hard time finding men that are serious about a straight MFM.
I think you are right about there being a lot of married men just looking for an easy lay and there are also a lot of the single guys that are looking for the same thing. They don't really understand what this lifestyle is all about and a lot of them are just looking for one night stands.
Those kind of individuals do make it more difficult for those of us that are in this for the long run and are looking for friends as well as play partners. I have met a few really nice couples and we get together when we can and always have a blast.
I am like you in another respect, I always meet in a public place first with absolutlely no expectations other than getting to know them better and making sure everyone is comfortable with each other.
I hope you have success finding some dependable regulars.
Take Care,
Ed
A lot depends on your location. Yes there are a lot of guys that are married and looking for sex on the side. Most of these are the ones that are only looking for a one night stand. However there are a few guys on here that completely understand and desire some friendship. It just takes some work in finding us since our voices get lost in all the others and truth in advertising (profile) is thrown out the window with all the married guys trying to get some on the side.
Just have patience it will happen. Sadly though most of the guys that don't know how to behave in this lifestyle or in the company of others can be very trying for couples.
Good luck in your search.
Chris
Just have patience it will happen. Sadly though most of the guys that don't know how to behave in this lifestyle or in the company of others can be very trying for couples.
Good luck in your search.
Chris
Very odd...BUT we have found the same thing...Mostly what we hear is to use men who arrre a part of a couple for your single male needs...We have not found any of those that can play alone or while the Mrs. watches...BUT we allow each other to do so....
Who knows...
You could always come to the Tampa Bay area...There are many single men here who are "in the lifestyle" but there are many who, like your post suggests, looking for an easy piece of ass...
Good luck...
Who knows...
You could always come to the Tampa Bay area...There are many single men here who are "in the lifestyle" but there are many who, like your post suggests, looking for an easy piece of ass...
Good luck...
<----------- VERY VERY REAL, just not very close to anybody ....
It took us 3 years to find the right guys. Its a jungle out there.