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Iwas wondering,how many of us ladies started out in this lifestyle straight, and eventualy moved over to the bi-sexual side? When Nick and I started out in this lifestyle it was just to spice things up with different couples. As our experiences progressed though,I really started to enjoy my interaction with other woman. Prior to this,I never sought out the passion of another woman.
When we started in the lifestyle,my wife classed herself as bi curious.She had had a brief encounter with another woman in college and that was about the extent of her experience.
She played with some of the women we met on these sites but would never go down on them,just a little kissing touching and maybe breast sucking..She told me going further was not something she could ever see happen.
Then,we met a couple on another site that changed all that.We seemed to hit it off at a level never before experienced by us in this lifestyle..We had made friends in the past but never like this.
We meet every weekend sometimes to play other times with our families and just hang out.
But it was my wifes reaction with the female side of the couple.They have become lovers and she does everything she said she never would.She has also gone to the bedroom to play with her while myself and the other guy have just sat at the table drinking wine and chatting.
To watch them together is extremely erotic and hightens the sexual pleasure when we all play together.
I have attatched a pic I took while taking a break during a 3 day session with them,and my wife seemed to be so contented and her lover very happy.
Our experiences have differed each time...

When we first began the lifestyle, she was bi-curious....

Her first experience was horrible...Even the male half thought the woman tasted funny...We later found out why...She had yeast infection medication in her...Can it get any worse?

Her second experience was not long after the first, she told the couple we met that she was straight, the woman said, "How can you be a swinger and be straight?" and continued to "attack" her sexually, even though we were not interested in this couple...A new classification of women, Bi-Furious..LOL

Since the first two experiences, she has been listed as straight, mostly because she does not want to be attacked by women who are bi (this has happened many times), or be forced into performing simply because someone wants her to....

She is what we call bi-playful...She LOVES to kiss, caress, breast play, etc...BUT after having the first two experiences, she is less keen on oral...

Since her second experience, she has been with a few more women...She has enjoyed some, some not as much, therefore, she makes a decision based on each individual rather than a claim to be bi...

Make sense? To us it does...LOL