It's a funny thing that something as passionate and erotic as the swingers Lifestyle have a dent in it's armor. What We mean is being judge by the Color of your Skin and Not the content of your Character. There are a lot of wonderful people in the world from all walks of life, we should want to learn more and except people for who they are. It's a harsh reality being an Interracial Couple, when one of you are wanted and the other is not Due to there Ethic Status. Let's be honest that sucks, no one likes being Judge. We just don't think it has any place being in the lifestyle we consider so wonderful.
US2FOR2
US2FOR2
Hi all, black or white, red or yellow, or whatever color you may have!
First of all a happy and healthy 2004. For us the word 'interracial' is skipped from our vocabular. We discovered that word for the first time on this swingersforum and must say that we are a bit dissapointed. Isn't it a word that fits better in the middle ages?
We have many friends not being caucasian and hope to meet many more in the future! Lets judge people from the inside and not from the outside. And you can always say if you don't want "interracial' contacts "sorry, not interested".
Happy swinging!
Alex and Bea from the Netherlands.
First of all a happy and healthy 2004. For us the word 'interracial' is skipped from our vocabular. We discovered that word for the first time on this swingersforum and must say that we are a bit dissapointed. Isn't it a word that fits better in the middle ages?
We have many friends not being caucasian and hope to meet many more in the future! Lets judge people from the inside and not from the outside. And you can always say if you don't want "interracial' contacts "sorry, not interested".
Happy swinging!
Alex and Bea from the Netherlands.
We agree labels other than *full swap* etc have no place in our vocabulary. If you are anyhere near North Carolina, contact us!!! But I think some are still so narrow minded that color is a barrier to their enjoyment, not only of this lifestyle but of life in general.
Yes it's unfortunate that alot of people can only see BLACK or WHITE. But also unfortunately it runs even deeper in the lifestyle then just being BLACK or WHITE. What about all the people who love to see two women having sex, but find it totally repulsive if two men want to share the same thing. Personally it takes a VERY BRAVE man to tell people he's BI or even BI-Curious, I personally feel that if all the people who claim to be open minded, really were, then this lifestyle would be 1000% better then it is. What about all the inconciderate people who won't even answer your mail, not even a "No Thank You"
We all know that people will be people, but a little curtisity toward eachother I'm sure would go a long way. But then again thats just my 2 cents.
We all know that people will be people, but a little curtisity toward eachother I'm sure would go a long way. But then again thats just my 2 cents.
People in the lifestyle that let race,religion or yankee/rebel interfer with thier fun just don't get it! After all its all pink on the inside and its not like we are chosssing lifeslong partners here we are looking for people who want to have fun period. In our book as long as the person/persons are fun it doesn't matter what race they are.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
We have run into a few situations that have saddened us. In some cases they may want HIM because he is black and in others they want HER because she is not. Neither on works for us because we would much prefer to be wanted because of who we are, and those who have been with us can verify that they have not been disappointed.
I have to agree with the previous posts. It saddens me to see that a lifestyle so open still has a few close-minded people that let race be an issue. How can you be open to seeing your other half with someone else but not be open to all different races and nationalitys? It is something that me and my other half try to deal with and not let it get us down. Besides I figure it is their loss not mine!
And eliminating people as a possible match does limit the possibility of finding that ideal connection.