We got the same email Ally. But we just deleted it, they must be a member on this site to be able to get our profile name....Don't know if it's legit or not but again we just deleted it...Not to mention that all our family is in the Los Angeles area and it appears they are too...
T & C
T & C
did the same
same here, we got the same email and just deleted it
We got an email from the owner of the site on our private off site email. The one you use for your account set up and was told about FX doing a show on swinging.
Hell why not, were not "ashamed" of the lifestyle. What the worst that can happen your neighbors know, what is the reason for all the secrecy, and dont say cuz we are known in our community, what a copout, if i was doing an artical this would be a good place to start, alltho, if they are legite or not is a differant story. either way what are ya scared of????
If your job looks at youe sex life, time for a new job
Not trying to argue, just saying if you choose this lifestyle some non descretions cum with it
Discretion (as basically defined by Websters Dictionary )
1: The quality of being discreet, cautious
2:Ability to make responsible decisions
3a: INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OR JUDGEMENT, to make responsible decisions
b: POWER OF FREE DECISION of choice
4: the result of separating or distinguishing
Discretionary
1: Left to discretion; excersing at one's own discretion
Swinger
1: One that swings as
a: a lively up-to-date person who indulges in what is considered fashionable
b: one who engages freely in sex
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Where some may want to be part of this documentary,
that is your INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OF JUDGEMENT, AND POWER OF FREE DECISION
some of us may not feel being part of a television documentary fits into our lives,
that is our INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OF JUDGEMENT, AND POWER OF FREE DECISION
We are swingers, that means we openly engage freely in sex, which is an act of discretion in itself, one most of us throughly enjoy,
that does not mean that being non-discreet means we must exploit our personal lives on the television.
But if that is your decision. Have a great time doing it!
oh and let us all know when the eposide airs, as i am sure many of us would like to see it. lol
just my 2 cents
xoxo
k
1: The quality of being discreet, cautious
2:Ability to make responsible decisions
3a: INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OR JUDGEMENT, to make responsible decisions
b: POWER OF FREE DECISION of choice
4: the result of separating or distinguishing
Discretionary
1: Left to discretion; excersing at one's own discretion
Swinger
1: One that swings as
a: a lively up-to-date person who indulges in what is considered fashionable
b: one who engages freely in sex
****************************
Where some may want to be part of this documentary,
that is your INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OF JUDGEMENT, AND POWER OF FREE DECISION
some of us may not feel being part of a television documentary fits into our lives,
that is our INDIVIDUAL CHOICE OF JUDGEMENT, AND POWER OF FREE DECISION
We are swingers, that means we openly engage freely in sex, which is an act of discretion in itself, one most of us throughly enjoy,
that does not mean that being non-discreet means we must exploit our personal lives on the television.
But if that is your decision. Have a great time doing it!
oh and let us all know when the eposide airs, as i am sure many of us would like to see it. lol
just my 2 cents
xoxo
k
Well said WERSHI!!!
discretion is a good thing to keep people from just generally knowing what you do. but on here you see alot of pics of peoples faces. so i guess if someone wanted to subscribe say a friend,co-worker or nieghbor then discretion would be out the window? i have seen alot of fx documentarys and dont they usally obsure the face of the people to provide some privacy? just some thoughts
discretion is a good thing to keep people from just generally knowing what you do. but on here you see alot of pics of peoples faces. so i guess if someone wanted to subscribe say a friend,co-worker or nieghbor then discretion would be out the window? i have seen alot of fx documentarys and dont they usally obsure the face of the people to provide some privacy? just some thoughts
Ill exploit myself if they cut me a check,
A good reason for someone to show discretion in this area of life is if the person is military. Thanks to some of the things written in the UCMJ(Uniform Code of Military Justice), the military swingers have to keep their lifestyle a secret because they can get into a heap of trouble. Just a couple examples who ever just has sex in the missionary postion, never has their partern go down on them or for those that like anal, no anal sex & the big kicker for the swinger lifestyle doesn't have sex with another person's spouse? All of that is punishable under the UCMJ so it wouldn't be a far fetched idea for them to lose their job if it came to the attention of the swinger's commander.
As a professional video producer...
This video may or may not be legit.
If it is legit, they still shouldn't be trusted completely.
Just because they say tasteful and showing swinging in a good light doesn't mean thats what they will do.
When you sign a release, they get cartblanche use of all video shot.
They may also do exactly as they say and would be a good thing for swinging.
If you wouldn't mind the exposure, then feel free to talk to them and get a better feel for what they are doing.
I myself have thought about doing a documentary about the subject too.
:-)
This video may or may not be legit.
If it is legit, they still shouldn't be trusted completely.
Just because they say tasteful and showing swinging in a good light doesn't mean thats what they will do.
When you sign a release, they get cartblanche use of all video shot.
They may also do exactly as they say and would be a good thing for swinging.
If you wouldn't mind the exposure, then feel free to talk to them and get a better feel for what they are doing.
I myself have thought about doing a documentary about the subject too.
:-)
COUPLES4FRIENDS
They blur peoples faces that didn't sign a signature on their talent rlease.
Once you sign the release, they can show anything you allow them to film.
Hope this helps.
They blur peoples faces that didn't sign a signature on their talent rlease.
Once you sign the release, they can show anything you allow them to film.
Hope this helps.
can you make them sign a modified release? or would that be too much attorney involvement
Posted By: ORLANDOCPLINHEAT Reply posted on:
Oct 20, 2006 - 8:28 pm
"If your job looks at youe sex life, time for a new job"
ORLANDOCPLINHEAT? What happens if we quit our current jobs and then find out BURGER KING has a hiring freeze? :S
Oct 20, 2006 - 8:28 pm
"If your job looks at youe sex life, time for a new job"
ORLANDOCPLINHEAT? What happens if we quit our current jobs and then find out BURGER KING has a hiring freeze? :S
I've always been quite open with my sexuality, feeling that "full disclosure obviates the problem" i.e. if *I* don't think it should be a secret, then it can't be "used against me".
HOWEVER, I have found that "the public" has their own sense of "right" - or at least "what to get upset at YOU about so that THEY can feel more holy" - and witch-hunts are not dead: I find that there are still a disturbing number of people in places of authority - who "execute" without asking for rebuttal or discussion: "You're a God-cursed PERVERT so you're fired before we even ASK you what it's all about".
So. Clearly I do not obscure my face. But I do advise caution. You can find yourself unemployed in a snap - and finding another job, as mentioned, isn't all that easy...
Generally, I have been burned by people who weren't even "involved" in my activities or even discussion of them - just someone appalled that there was a rumor that *someone* was having FUN somewhere - and they just had to STOP it!!! Yeah. This America, and it *does* happen.
HOWEVER, I have found that "the public" has their own sense of "right" - or at least "what to get upset at YOU about so that THEY can feel more holy" - and witch-hunts are not dead: I find that there are still a disturbing number of people in places of authority - who "execute" without asking for rebuttal or discussion: "You're a God-cursed PERVERT so you're fired before we even ASK you what it's all about".
So. Clearly I do not obscure my face. But I do advise caution. You can find yourself unemployed in a snap - and finding another job, as mentioned, isn't all that easy...
Generally, I have been burned by people who weren't even "involved" in my activities or even discussion of them - just someone appalled that there was a rumor that *someone* was having FUN somewhere - and they just had to STOP it!!! Yeah. This America, and it *does* happen.
We got this email too. Sounded kinda interesting....however, NO THANKS. We also choose to keep this lifestyle a seceret for several reasons. We are NOT ashamed by it we just do it to protect our family's and more importanlty our children. We live in small tight knit community so something like this just isnt understood very well. Some ppl can be very judgemental it is sad, but true in this world. They assume that cuz you "Swing" that you are a bad person that is going to hell.....they tend to forget that everyone has somthing in their life that they do or did that they dont want everyone knowing about. I dont care who you are there is something that u dont want others knowing for whatever reason, and that is your business.
We dont talk freely of our sex life with all who are in our community or our life. It isnt any of their business first of all. Therefore, swinging we consider part of our sex life and it isnt anyone business how we choose to make it fun....we dont judge those that do share it openly with others, and we certainly dont judge those that choose to keep it private...to each is own. No one should assume anything about others (i.e....assuming why someone would choose to keep their lifestyle a seceret....)
We dont talk freely of our sex life with all who are in our community or our life. It isnt any of their business first of all. Therefore, swinging we consider part of our sex life and it isnt anyone business how we choose to make it fun....we dont judge those that do share it openly with others, and we certainly dont judge those that choose to keep it private...to each is own. No one should assume anything about others (i.e....assuming why someone would choose to keep their lifestyle a seceret....)