...because we got a well deserved divorce lol
After having sex with almost a thousand couples as a married couple all I can say is that I don't miss this tacky waste of time at all.
Now I am happily retired in the Caribbean Coast of Colombia at 54 y.o. and living with my 20 y.o. sexy AF Colombian fiancé.
Well, I do have my import business here so I guess I'll stop working later when I feel like it.
After having sex with almost a thousand couples as a married couple all I can say is that I don't miss this tacky waste of time at all.
Now I am happily retired in the Caribbean Coast of Colombia at 54 y.o. and living with my 20 y.o. sexy AF Colombian fiancé.
Well, I do have my import business here so I guess I'll stop working later when I feel like it.
A thousand couples? How long were you in the LS? That's a lot of couples. I don't think there is a 1000 decent looking couples out there to connect with!
Good for you on the retirement of the LS and work!
Good for you on the retirement of the LS and work!
This was in over 20 years. We started the LS in 1998, had our last encounter in 2023. We were mostly out of SoCal so a lot of pretty couples here, plus we are pretty sexy and easygoing ourselves. We were very good at making that instant connection good enough to play on first dates or at random encounters at venues. In 2003 we played with 4 unrelated couples in 1 night at Freedom Acres in SoCal.
This is fascinating, and I have so many questions.
What made you decide to post this? You said it's been two years since your last encounter, so why is your account still active and why did you log in today?
Is it an attempt to "save" (for lack of a better phrase) other couples from what happened to you?
Do you mind if I ask about the circumstances surrounding your divorce?
I do think it's interesting that you mentioned you're engaged to a women 30 years your junior. Is the age gap an important part of your new dynamic?
On the topic of age, Your profile says 49, but you stated here that you're 54, so which one of those is not accurate, and why?
I'm honestly just curious I'm very interested in the long term implications of the lifestyle.
What made you decide to post this? You said it's been two years since your last encounter, so why is your account still active and why did you log in today?
Is it an attempt to "save" (for lack of a better phrase) other couples from what happened to you?
Do you mind if I ask about the circumstances surrounding your divorce?
I do think it's interesting that you mentioned you're engaged to a women 30 years your junior. Is the age gap an important part of your new dynamic?
On the topic of age, Your profile says 49, but you stated here that you're 54, so which one of those is not accurate, and why?
I'm honestly just curious I'm very interested in the long term implications of the lifestyle.
And yet, here you are 😂
He needs someone to talk to.
1000 couples in 20 years? That was my wife’s weekend 😂j/k
Southern cal must be waaay different than Utah
Southern cal must be waaay different than Utah
Life’s so awesome that you just felt compelled for validation on a swinger site, that you’re no longer a member of?!
Sounds like graduating with a Masters degree only to revisit the high school reunion.
Type A personality do this so they can feel significant importance when they have felt marginalized their whole life.
Glad it’s working out!!!
Lmao!
Sounds like graduating with a Masters degree only to revisit the high school reunion.
Type A personality do this so they can feel significant importance when they have felt marginalized their whole life.
Glad it’s working out!!!
Lmao!
Thats a new couple every weekend for 20 years....
Good stuff here.
Quiet day at home. We live in Cartagena but my fiancé is out of town visiting relatives up in Santa Marta. Just remembering old stuff -for a moment-, nothing specific. Workday today but I'm my own boss and Colombians wake up late.
I logged in because I felt like it. Kindly direct your other question to the owners of the site.
Not at all. I think the LS was one of the best things that my former wife and I had in common. But now at 54 y.o. I see it like that. Some people change their views with time. Same as lot of Uthans abandoning LDS after several decades. However, nothing bad happened to me nor my former wife. See my next answer.
We made a promise to each other to retire to Spain in 2022, own a vineyard and spend the rest of our days together, in love and living a simpler life. So, being the intelligent (her more than me, hehe), driven and practical individuals we are, we worked hard towards it. However, she changed her mind about living overseas. Staying in SoCal means more work for me. So, I cut my losses, asked her for a divorce and retired to Colombia. I fulfill my promises and expect the same especially from my partner.
Absolutely! At a very young age I adopted a policy of "positioning" myself for success. I graduated college at 22 and left Puerto Rico for the military seeking better opportunities. With hard yet smart work, formal education (BA and MBA) and welcoming mentoring from the right people, I think I did okay. Now, Colombia is the 3rd and last "positioning" of my life. Some, (not all) younger ladies here seek not only the monetary support of an older gentleman, they also seek love, mentoring, safety, security and support with their advancement. I do not see my fiancé just as a hot little cutie, she is a woman with a lot of potential and motivation. I always love a new challenge and a new project. I love more to be a part of someone's success.
Lastly, there is no need for me to be with an older woman here when there are many of young hot girls seeking a real connection. I've always liked them young.
I lied. Humm, I guess I wanted to portray me as a younger fella to attract younger couples. My former wife's age is also inaccurate. LS interactions were never too serious for us. I think that was part of our LS success.
None in my case. I just grew out of it with time.
jandj801 wrote:
This is fascinating, and I have so many questions.
What made you decide to post this?
Quiet day at home. We live in Cartagena but my fiancé is out of town visiting relatives up in Santa Marta. Just remembering old stuff -for a moment-, nothing specific. Workday today but I'm my own boss and Colombians wake up late.
jandj801 wrote:
You said it's been two years since your last encounter, so why is your account still active and why did you log in today?
I logged in because I felt like it. Kindly direct your other question to the owners of the site.
jandj801 wrote:
Is it an attempt to "save" (for lack of a better phrase) other couples from what happened to you?
Not at all. I think the LS was one of the best things that my former wife and I had in common. But now at 54 y.o. I see it like that. Some people change their views with time. Same as lot of Uthans abandoning LDS after several decades. However, nothing bad happened to me nor my former wife. See my next answer.
jandj801 wrote:
Do you mind if I ask about the circumstances surrounding your divorce?
We made a promise to each other to retire to Spain in 2022, own a vineyard and spend the rest of our days together, in love and living a simpler life. So, being the intelligent (her more than me, hehe), driven and practical individuals we are, we worked hard towards it. However, she changed her mind about living overseas. Staying in SoCal means more work for me. So, I cut my losses, asked her for a divorce and retired to Colombia. I fulfill my promises and expect the same especially from my partner.
jandj801 wrote:
DI do think it's interesting that you mentioned you're engaged to a women 30 years your junior. Is the age gap an important part of your new dynamic?
Absolutely! At a very young age I adopted a policy of "positioning" myself for success. I graduated college at 22 and left Puerto Rico for the military seeking better opportunities. With hard yet smart work, formal education (BA and MBA) and welcoming mentoring from the right people, I think I did okay. Now, Colombia is the 3rd and last "positioning" of my life. Some, (not all) younger ladies here seek not only the monetary support of an older gentleman, they also seek love, mentoring, safety, security and support with their advancement. I do not see my fiancé just as a hot little cutie, she is a woman with a lot of potential and motivation. I always love a new challenge and a new project. I love more to be a part of someone's success.
Lastly, there is no need for me to be with an older woman here when there are many of young hot girls seeking a real connection. I've always liked them young.
jandj801 wrote:
On the topic of age, Your profile says 49, but you stated here that you're 54, so which one of those is not accurate, and why?
I lied. Humm, I guess I wanted to portray me as a younger fella to attract younger couples. My former wife's age is also inaccurate. LS interactions were never too serious for us. I think that was part of our LS success.
jandj801 wrote:
I'm honestly just curious I'm very interested in the long term implications of the lifestyle.
None in my case. I just grew out of it with time.
massageBBCguy wrote:
He needs someone to talk to.
Ah, says the gentleman who advertises the size of his member on his username to compensate for the size of his brain. Some people will always be frustrated an angry, definitely worth ignoring. Sometimes I choose to fuck with them for my own amusement instead.
There are people gaining something out of this post. But please keep your silly comments coming as they only expose you, not me. I am not seeking LS partners, you are.
MEOWMIX10000 wrote:
1000 couples in 20 years? That was my wife’s weekend 😂j/k
Southern cal must be waaay different than Utah
I do recommend it, plenty of hot couples that play just for the heck of it.
LOVEHER29 wrote:
Thats a new couple every weekend for 20 years....
Ok, let's do some math. I said rough estimate but they were more like 900+ from 1998 to 2023. That adds up to 1,300 weekends. Keep in mind we also played during the week when time allowed and often we had sex with more than one couple in a weekend.
My apologies for not keeping an accurate log.
Got to work!
I am sorry, looks like you are going through a lot mentally right now. You’ll be ok.
1000? And here we are struggling to find one. Might be time for us to be done.
So you say almost a 1000 couples, but yet in the same paragraph say it was a tacky waste of time, so why did you keep doing it? I believe his post is aimed at his ex wife, trying to muddy the waters for her to continue in the lifestyle, thinking nobody wants to have sex with a woman that's been with a 1000 men. Also absolutely no point in bringing up a 20 year old girlfriend, again aimed at the ex- wife. I call bullshit on both claims.
LICK_TICKLE_NCUM wrote:
1000? And here we are struggling to find one. Might be time for us to be done.
We feel in the same boat as well finding another couple.
Frankandsheila3sum wrote:
So you say almost a 1000 couples, but yet in the same paragraph say it was a tacky waste of time, so why did you keep doing it? I believe his post is aimed at his ex wife, trying to muddy the waters for her to continue in the lifestyle, thinking nobody wants to have sex with a woman that's been with a 1000 men. Also absolutely no point in bringing up a 20 year old girlfriend, again aimed at the ex- wife. I call bullshit on both claims.
Just changed my views with time, we just grew out of it. We can call it what we wish.
Here4funandplay wrote:LICK_TICKLE_NCUM wrote:
1000? And here we are struggling to find one. Might be time for us to be done.
We feel in the same boat as well finding another couple.
I just took a look at your profile and yes, you guys are very attractive. My ex-wife and I would had played with you guys in a heartbeat. I think people in UT overthink and expect too much out of the LS. It's supposed to be fun and the connections are not supposed to be deep. Our policy was sex first, friends later if we click. No soft swappers, no girls on girls. Rules make the LS boring. I know, backwards, huh? But it's what really works.