I remember seeing stats somewhere a few years back. Surprised me a bit.
From those here, I'd be curious to know whose idea it was to participate in the lifestyle. His or hers?
Would also be curious how the discussion came about and how you proceeded, whether it was dipping your toes in or jumping straight into the frying pan.
From those here, I'd be curious to know whose idea it was to participate in the lifestyle. His or hers?
Would also be curious how the discussion came about and how you proceeded, whether it was dipping your toes in or jumping straight into the frying pan.
For us we kinda eased into it. mutual idea after learning about some already friends haha. about 8 years in now and made a lot of good non judgmental friends along the way
Definitely hers. She wanted a birthday she would never forget. Had a lot of fun over the year. Have a lot of great friends. Then you get old and people die or move. Then your just old
Driving home from burning man and had some erotic fun and found out about this site and decided to give a try. Went right into the frying pan and had a blast. Now we are selective and things have to be spontaneous
For us it was talked about for a couple of years. We would use fantasy sharing as foreplay often times. I, he, would often ask about past experiences. I asked blatantly one nigh if she had the chance would she? We dipped our toes in, had one bad experience, and have made great friends since then.
My lovely wife introduced me to a swinging couple she was rooming with. She on the other hand did not swing, at the time. She wanted to marry me. I was cautious of the married thing,but when she spoke of playing with other women, coupled with being the good cook that
she is, I succumbed.
she is, I succumbed.
It was Mr.'s idea, but we'd been flirting with the concept together for a while. Using scenarios as foreplay to get each other excited. Going to a few nude hot-springs with a group of enthusiasts. This led to propositioning a fellow as a birthday present to her. The lifestyle parties followed there after. We liked fucking in front of others and liked watching others enjoying the show etc. etc. etc.
You mentioned going to nude hot springs... Just wanted to know where, cuz I've never heard of such a thing, we would totally be down for something like that
Thanks for replies. Of the stats I remember seeing, from a survey that escapes me now, I seem to recall as many women initiated it as men, and perhaps more.
JIGGARULESCHISSY wrote:Gold Bug here in Idaho,Chicken noodle in Lava hotsprings, Bishop Creek hotsprings in Nevada just to name a few.
You mentioned going to nude hot springs... Just wanted to know where, cuz I've never heard of such a thing, we would totally be down for something like that