Why is it so difficult to meet people in the lifestyle -
We have plenty of friends and offers - But, people flake or just never follow thought on plans - We’ve meet a few really fun people - But, there are so many people that are all for talk online and exchanging messages - But, no follow thru.…… 🤔
We have plenty of friends and offers - But, people flake or just never follow thought on plans - We’ve meet a few really fun people - But, there are so many people that are all for talk online and exchanging messages - But, no follow thru.…… 🤔
No follow through... that has been our experience as well.
EliandRosie wrote:
No follow through... that has been our experience as well.
We follow through
Sometimes its just life...We are both in the Medical field...Him gets called in on a consistent basis even when not scheduled, Her has to travel around the country to help her company sometimes with just a days notice, then add in kids, family, and responsibilities....we always try our best to communicate these factors upfront.
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I think people aren’t always prepared to take the next step -all talk and nothing.…….
BOOBERRIESJ wrote:
I think people aren’t always prepared to take the next step -all talk and nothing.…….
When we started in the lifestyle we went all in met a ton of people played several times a week. After a couple bad experiences we got picky and it has to be a spontaneous connection before we ever consider anything. We have several groups we hang out with where the option is always there but it’s nice to just have the friends to hang with
Maybe we are too selective - The wife is more of exhibitionist and loves to be naked - and plays only when it feel right
It’s good to be picky safety first
Whiskey_Girl wrote:
It’s good to be picky safety first
Absolutely…we aren’t necessarily picky, we just look for couples/singles we mesh and vibe well with. We prefer to establish a friendship where everyone is completely comfortable with whatever happens…we aren’t ones to jump from couple to couple or aka sport fuck, no judgement just us.
We have plenty of people wanting to meet. its just finding the time lol
We are always down to meet some new friends. We rarely hook up until we get to know the other couple. At least meet and see if there's some kind of connection.