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i love to see pictures of women squirting---- but one question i need to ask how do you get a women to squirt.. is it the guy job to do it'' or the women makes herself do it'' or both.. please if anybody knows .... let us know



thanks rhonda & regan
Now that is a mystery maybe we could find out the answers one weekend in Orlando...WEG
I am an amazing squirter. Don't have any pics at the moment, but lets get a few hot squirters together and take some...yummy yumm.

Monica and Dave

LVSTRIPPERBABE
Oh, and squirting can have a lot to do with technique. I have watched Dave make quite a few girls squirt that hadn't before, so I know almost all girls can squirt, if stimulated properly. It is hot to watch, I fucking love it.
Hi everyone,

Hunt I felt the same way for a long time. I fought the feeling, was highely embarrassed if it happened with anyone but my husband, now am just embarrassed. For me it is a very intense O that shutters through my whole body. My husband can make me cum that way anytime he wants. I squirt when I am fucked VERY hard very fast for a good amount of time.... when I do it I will SOAK a bed.....

Have not taken any pics of this but we will be alone in a few weekends, maybe something we should shoot for... ; )

Michele
Hey to everyone I am 37 and have been making women squirt since I was 17.I first found out that if you start by kissing and carressing in certain places like the neck or sucking or nibling on any ladys tits and doing alot of playing.the main thing is to when she starts to feel the urge to pee while you are doing the deed.she may try to stop you or slow you down.dont let her she will most definantly love you when its all over with,but guess what you can still make her cum as many times as YOU want.there is a place IN a woman that will make her squirt and squirt i will leave it at that. hope that answered some of youre questions and have fun finding that place.
Male here...I have made MANY women who were not squirters to squirt...So IMHO it is what the man does...BUT she must be relaxed....
I also am a squirter but have yet to be able to get a pic of it, I do have a video clip though;)

I am a bit different in that it is not an orgasm that makes me squirt, rather about 5 to 10 seconds of stimulating a specific spot vaginally. I am more of a gush, dribble, gush, dribble person and it will continue indefinitely. I have learned to relax and let it go and, if I contract various muscles, can squirt several feet instead of just gushing. This can easily be accomplished by myself or someone else.

I also have G-spot orgasms which make things even more wet once you get past the feeling that you need to pee. Generally speaking, for me this is more easily accomplished by a great deal of stimulation by a partner.
this might help a few people.. Relaxation is the key so far..
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_150/184_love_tip.html
http://www.orgasmguidebook.com/
Whilst I like to watch a woman orgasm, I often wonder what the draw to squirting (urninating) is for so many. I am not trying to offend anyone. I am only trying to figure it out. I guess it can be chocked up to any other fetish or desire. Just curious.

I guess I should add that many are under the impression that "squirting" is actually female ejaculate, when in reality, it is nothing more than urine. Women do not have the capability to ejaculate anything but urine. They have no fluids other than that of the mucus membrane to produce lubrication, blood during menstration and the bladder (not a gland) that excretes urine through the urethra which opens just between the clitoris and vaginal opening behind the labia majora/minora.

I find it very intriguing that people are drawn to this (men in general), as ejaculation is a masculin attribute of sexuality. I have no attraction to the idea and can't fathom the attraction even if the anatomy allowed such an event to occur.

I feel that "squirting" is just an evolution of golden showers and is symbolic of a woman's sexual climax and a way of marking the event of climax. If you think about it... There is no anatomical validity for such an event and logic shows that a sudden gush of liquid would flush sperm away from the cervix and uterus, greatly reducing fertilization.

So given my reasoning, I ask again... What is the draw? Why don't you just call it peeing?

Don from TR
Tequila...Do some research, it is not urine, it is not lubricant, it is undefined what a woman squirts.

It does not come out of the urethra, which would make it urine, it comes from inside the vaginal canal, the vagina tenses up so much that is forces it out, if you experience it, you would know what it looks, feels, and tastes like. It builds up in a sack behind the G-Spot, and upon orgasm the clenching of the muscles forces it out...The intensity decieds how far it will shoot.
Here's a good pic we found...We found the best position for her is to sit on the counter with her legs bent and I put 2 middle fingers curving up and in to the gspot. massage and lick the area. It should release some fluid within a couple of minutes... taste it too! relax and keep trying.. it will "cum" in time.
In response to Tequilarose....it isn't urine. I also squirt and it is awesome. During long sessions of sex when I have to actually pee it takes me a few minutes to get out of the sex mode to be able to pee. You should relax and give squirting a try, you might actually like it.
Skenes paraurethral gland is what most of you refer to. As I can find no OB/GYN or Medical textbook that refers to such a biological function. I googled the hell out of the subject looking for MD's that support such a claim. I found no actual medical site that makes such a claim. I found bunches of self-help site that did however.

It seems that most of the claims made are made by individuals with no medical background. Any medical reference show the Skene's gland to produce mucus to assist in lubrication. Because it is thought to be homologous with the male prostate gland, many have adopted this as fact. There is no medical proof as of yet.

It is my opinion that in order to produce the volume of fluid in most "squirting" that I've seen, it would take up a large area (grapefruit sized) between the vaginal wall and the rectum. The "squirting" I've seen is clear (not like semen, like urine), comes out in a jetting stream (not like semen, like urine), comes out in large quanity (not like semen, like urine). All these women that "squirt" are far exceeding Peter North's famous sprinkler-gasm.

I believe that their maybe a few partial hermaphrodites in the word that have such capability. What is more likely is the bladder is stimulated through blunt force during sex and urine is produce in the few women that have weaker bladders. Even the alleged studies that support your claim on these self-help sites say that it's only 40% of the women who can ejaculate. As there is no control on these studies, inaccuracy plagues it further.

Please post medical texts that show studies. References are always interesting to read. I am very open minded to actual scientific studies. I am however reluctant to read articles that make such claims and try to sell you dildoes to stimulate such a spot.

-TR-

P.S.

These grapefruit-sized glands would have to be clear to a OB/GYN during a pelvic exam.
I haveta say...i am impressed with the research you have done on this TR, and I think it is brilliant of you to want to know the facts.....BUT these women that have actually squirted a lot and have experience with it and have all said the same things...it doest look like, taste like, smell like, or whatever else they have said to help prove that they arent peeing actually. I dont know, I guess you can have all the research you need on this, but isnt the actual proof from them that they arent peeing proof enought, I dont know.........I am not tryen to be disrespectful to you, I am just curious thats all.
It would seem to me that if you had research on it that says nothing more then it is PEE but women that have actually squirted are saying NO NO it isnt......and they have experienced it, as well as tasted it....I believe I would go with what they are sayen. THey would know, they are squirters....I dont think they would taste their own urine.....maybe it is a form of urine. You know that urine has a distinct smell, and color...so you would think they would realize that it was pee..and not cum...........just a thought
OK...Looked for it...Try Web MD...it talks abbout Female ejaculate...

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/41/1689_50052.htm

I am currenly looking in medical jourmals...will update soon...

http://www.springerlink.com.proxy.usf.edu/content/g416pr8j84112106/?p=37400154e98c4a0d960f3271e709b375&pi=0

it is Archives of Sexual Behavior, Volume 19, number 1 Feb 1990

I can find a ton of it...But I cannot link it to you...I am in grad school, so I have access to thousands of databases around the world for information and research purposes...

If you have access to any medical databases, you will find it...
JSTJIM72 read the article you posted. It says nothing in there that supports your claim. It mentions an unnamed dutch anatomist that wrote about it. This article says nothing of the validity of your case. If you feel it does, please paste the sections that you think lend proof to your claim. Like this one: "A few women even say they ejaculate." which simple says that the only person saying that female ejaculation happens is the woman herself. This line was taken from the second to the last paragraph.


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I am glad you have tons of resources being a grad student, but it does no good if you can't post it. The latter link in your post is broken. The portal the site uses will not allow backdoor entry.

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Stitch-

If someone saw a ghost/ufo/bigfoot, would you try to prove they were lying? No you'd ask them to produce the photos. Your reasoning doesn't make sense to me. It comes down to who you believe the MD or the Dildo salesman.
Uh Ally... Forums are meant to discuss things. We are not arguing. We are simply expressing our opinions on the matter. If you don't want to be in the discussion, there is a remedy. I am just trying to shed some light on a common misunderstandings. People have a tendency to believe everything they hear or read. I am not set in stone on this either. I just need medical proof to be convinced. Sexologists are not MD's. I see no indepth articles to describe the anatomical process. What I see is a myth born out of an 80's porn movie called "G-spot" staring John Holmes.

I find this subject very fascinating and do not wish to argue with anyone. I only wish to have an interesting discussion. That is the point of this forum. All the people involved in this discussion seem to be intelligent adults with good intent. So, if any of you are getting upset, please don't read or post to this thread.

respectfully,

-TR-
:D That sounds like real fun!!!
Post police??? You are the one that was telling us to "leave it alone". By remedy I meant not to involve yourself, if you didn't like the nature of the thread. I was being civil and not getting upset. There's no need to call me names either. You are obviously tender about the subject, so it's probably not a good idea for you to post.

If you have an opinion as to whether or not the "female ejaculation" exists and/or the references to support your beliefs in the matter, then by all means shoot. You stated you didn't care and then told us to drop the subject. If you get offended or bothered by the thread discontinue to post in it. It will save us all from misunderstandings and drama.

The questions and statements I made regarding the subject of squirting/fem ejaculation were valid and mature questions delivered in an honest, curious and knowledge-seeking manner. It was not my intent to draw flames or persecution from anyone, to include you Ally.

So with all that being said, does anyone have any medical text regarding my original questions? I would prefer actual medical studies and papers written by doctors. Sexologists are fun to listen to, but so is reading your horoscope. I would like to see some textbook shots like the one I attached.


Respectfully,

-TR-
TR....in order to clarify my earlier post, I do "squirt" vaginally as any man or woman who has ever had one finger inside me for more than 10 seconds can attest. At first this phenomenon bothered me a great deal and out of curiosity I stimulated myself for a period of 5 minutes and measured the amount of fluid that came out - 4 ounces. Yes, that is correct, no exaggeration and my body does not stop after 5 minutes either. I don't know what it comes from and don't pretend to know, all I do know is that within 10 seconds of stimulating a very specific area just inside my vagina it just starts running out like a broken faucet. After relaxing and getting used to the idea that this is the way MY body works, I have learned to control various muscles (can you say Kegel exercise) and can cause this excess lubrication to squirt several feet.

I have also had what I consider to be a G-spot orgasm when massive amounts of fluid are squirted, as near as I have ever been able to tell, vaginally. The only difference I suppose is that this is an orgasm where the other is just simply lubrication to the extreme. I do have a video clip of this that I took myself, but I don't know as you could difinitively say where it is coming out of from a video. If we ever meet up, just ask and I'd be happy to let you investigate first-hand. :D

Hope this helps but then again maybe I am just a freak of nature and what I experience is not the same as everyone else.
FUNTIMES4ALL38, I find your post very interesting. It sounds as though your experiences are quite intense. It must have been quite surprising the first time. My questions are not posed with the intent to shame you or degrade your testimony of the pleasure derived from the act of "squirting". The questions are directed toward the scientific nature of the subject.

You mentioned that the volume was around 4-5 ounces. This is a little less than half a can of soda. That is quite a lot of liquid considering a male's orgasm volume and the paraurethral glands being the alleged female's version of the prostate and the location of said gland. Now in order for you to store that much in your paraurethral gland/s you would have to displace the area. The lump would be between your vaginal wall and your bladder during times between sexual activity. Logically, this would put different pressures on the bladder depending on the fullness of the gland and the fullness of your bladder. If the area in question (paraurethral glands) were to extrude the other direction it would cause a significant vaginal obstruction.

I am simply saying that it doesn't make sense for an unproven function of a mucus gland to cause that volume of liquid and the force of which it is expelled. The bladder's location is consistent with the area these phenomena are thought to occur. The pressure is applied toward the bladder which causes strong urination feelings.

If you look at the diagram I included in the next post, you will see that there is validity in what I am saying. Let me know what you think.

-TR-
exhibit #2 lol
Fck ya now i know where the "G" spot is and vickie is getting it tonight...lol
TR, I definitely do not take offense to your questions and at this point in my life am almost beyond embarassment too. The questions that you have are the same ones that I had and I still have no answers either other than the fluid is definitely, without any doubt, secreted vaginally. It is slightly thicker than water, somewhat whitish in color (pinkish may be more accurate), and is very sweet to the taste almost like peach nectar (the only comparison that comes to mind.)

I wish I could explain where the hell all that fluid comes from, it would have saved me years of embarrassment. There doesn't seem to be much if any valid medical research on the subject to help explain to either one of us. The only link I have found so far that at least references research I have listed below and I have not completely followed up on it yet.

http://www.answers.com/topic/female-ejaculation

Once again, if we ever run into each other I would be more than happy to let you decide for yourself. I am also emailing you my self-made video clip but like I said before I'm not sure how much you can really tell from it.

Mrs. Funtimes
I'm a believer in squirting. I've been with a squirter that came vaginally while I was penetrating her and can assure you it was not urine as I could feel it rushing down from my tip to base and along the top of my penis as well. If it were coming from the urethra it would have splashed my balls at most. It was a bit thicker than urine and most definitely did not smell like urine.

Women lube up through swelling of the vaginal walls. This excretes beads of moisture that accumulate into lube. Perhaps the tensing up during a G-spot orgasm makes it possible for them to blow it all in one shot instead of a perpetual seeping. Not unlike slowly squeezing a wet sponge as opposed to forcefully squeezing it.
FUNTIMES4ALL38, the answers.com link is a common compilation of several sexologist sites. I want to see a study performed by a few OB/GYN's with pics/movies and text describing the biological process.

I don't doubt the honesty of the women who claim to have them. In fact I say, if it's good for you, go with it! Do it as often as you and/or the people involved find it sexually rewarding to do so. I will partially agree with an earlier post of Ally's. She implied that if it feels good, that's all that matters in the end. I'm simply interested in the science of it all. :-)
TR.....well like I said, I wasnt tryen to be disrespectful to you on how u wanna know the actual facts on this...and ghosts/ufo/and bigfoots is a completely different topic than someone squirting. Hell YES if someone was telling me they say a ghost/ufo/or bigfoot I wouldnt just take their word for it...thats a different issue all together. Not to sound rude, but it sounds like you are disrespecting these ladies who have said they squirt, like u are saying they dont really...that they are the "dildo salesmen" as u put it. This is a "sex driven" site, right....and they are talken bout something sexual that happens to them, the least we could do is believe them. I think it is interesting too, and if the fluid that comes out is actually urine, then okay, its urine.....however it doesnt look like it, or taste like it or even smell like it so maybe it is a form of urine. I have only squirted one time...and it didnt actually SQUIRT per say at least not as far as the picture someone posted on here....but it did squirt. There are times that I get hot...and get that warm sensation but then I just notice that I get really lubed up, and wet, (as they might say).
I am not degrading your desire to know more about it, about the facts, and the studies behind it. It is interesting, and intriqueing.....but I wouldnt imply that it really isnt happening to these ladies bsides catching a pic of that has gotta be hard to do, just like catching a pic of ghost/ufo/or bigfoot.....(SMILE)......
no disrespect to you....seriously!!! I think u two are HOT HOT HOT, and I am intrigued to know....is it urine or is it not......????? cuz if it is urine....then SHIT, I have pee'd on my husband for godsakes...
I am not saying that these women don't squirt fluid. We are discussing the consistency of said squirt lol. This is all in good form and not meant to hurt anyone. If I have... Again, it is not my intent. I don't doubt the pleasure or existence of fluid that comes out. I just think that it's urine and not ejaculate in the sense of prostate (semen).


MY DEEPEST RESECT TO ALL THE LADIES!

-TR-
TR - It is not urine. It does not have the smell or taste of urine.

:p :p :p
LANCE_N_LUVVY , I have more than one friend who squirts. BTW, it's good to hear from you both again. I understand that you guys believe whole-heartedly in what you are saying, I just want medical evidence to accept what you are saying. It's a big controversy and as far as I can tell never been proven. I think medical studies would help shed light. If you guys can find some it would help me to understand the basis of your beliefs. :-)
My woman squirts quite often during our lovemaking and has very intense full body orgasms. I don't know where the source of it comes from but I love the way it is delivered.
TR...if you are eucated, then you will know that there probably not be a scientific/medical study done on squirting...Why? Because it is a VERY personal thing...Women, in general, have a hard enough time having an orgasm, so how hard do you think it would be to have one in a lab with a bunch of people in lab coats? There is a female ejaculation, does it always guch out and squirt 3 feet? No, of course not. Is it urine? No. Is it lube? No. It is a mixture of those different things.

Having experience with squirting, I can feel the build up of fluid inside the vagina, and I can also feel the release. Do I need a person with a few extra letters after their name to tell me this? No.

If you know someone who can do this, ask them to show you. Observe it closely,and find out for yourself. Better yet, assist them in doing it.

In my experience, there was not 4-5 ounces of fluid, there was MAYBE 2 ounces, sometimes more. EVERY woman I have been with has done it, just to varying degrees. You can feel the build up internally, if you use your fingers to stimulate, however, I have never been able to feel it with my penis. I can just feel the release, AND the forcing of the penis OUT of the vagina, not urethra, with the expelled fluid.

If you want sciientific proof, go to the library at the nearest med school, and search through the journals. If I could grant you access to the online databases, I would, but the system will not allow me to do so.

Lets let this one rest, there are people who know it is true, and there are people that know it is not true. Seems to me, there is one more topic we cannot discuss during happy hour ;)
I use to think it was Bullshit until a woman squirted in my mouth while I was giving her oral. I was mad as hell. I thought she peed but it turned out she squirted. Tasted very sweet, almost like honey. I felt proud after that because I was the only man to be able to make her squirt on a consistent basis.
SKEPTIC defined

1. a person who questions the validity or authenticity of something purporting to be factual.

2. a person who maintains a doubting attitude, as toward values, plans, statements, or the character of others.

3. Tequilarose
so.....back to the original poster's request.......LOL Does anyone have any pic's of thier women "squirting" ??? Whether it is urine, or not, it does sorda make for a awesome picture!!!! So, lets see them, already!!!
Not us but looks fun getting her to that point....
And the big one....OMG
LGSBCS....I wold work until my body went numb to get you there....

Drop a line anytime...I am sooooo there...
TR
Although unfortunately this "big O" is the exception rather than the rule in our case, I can tell you that it does in fact happen and it is in fact sweet in taste and there never seems to be enough to devour (sp) once it starts to flow, I want more and more and more, it is by far one of the most stimulating experiences I personally have been involved in and if I could master the art of producing this type of "O" every time I would never want for liquid refreshment again. I like others only wish we had taken the opportunity for a kodak moment when this take place but alas, I am not going to stop in the middle to pose for photos it is truly something that takes you beyond the human ability to say stop....once it starts there is no turning back it is "keep your hands and feet in the ride at all times hold on and Have fun"!

N&R
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Oct 11, 2006 - 9:59 am

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SKEPTIC defined

1. a person who questions the validity or authenticity of something purporting to be factual.

2. a person who maintains a doubting attitude, as toward values, plans, statements, or the character of others.

3. Tequilarose


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Let's see.... #1 applies when it's purported by sexologists who want to sell you products on the web (books, dildos, lotion etc.). It's like in the old days when the guy showed up in the horse-drawn wagon with the ointment, salves and potions or even today with the Naturepathic answer to you ailments and the medical answer. I choose the medical side.

example of sexologist site:

http://www.coolnurse.com/g_spot.htm

#2 Applies when there is something questionable to me, ie. Someone's got kool-aid for me to drink, that'll make me touch god or if I'm asked to stay in a compound with a assault rifle toting self-proclaimed messiah.

#3 That's who I am :-)


Look, I'm not doubting that it feels good or that you have a clear liquid come out. I just think it's urine. Someone telling me that it doesn't smell like it or tastes sweet doesn't convince me. I want labs. Urine when diluted doesn't smell and as far as the taste goes, I've never drank it so I wouldn't know.

As far as the comment about believing a doctor... Of course I wouldn't believe anyone who told me the sky was purple. All I have to do is look up. The real question is, If I started squirting this clear liquid into your mouth in a continuous jet stream and told you that's normal for some guys and showed you a few unaccredited sites that agreed with my claim...

a) would you keep drinking?

b) or are you considered a skeptic for denying my the pleasure of "squirting" in your mouth?

c) and/or do you research medical texts to see what trained professionals say about it?


If you read all of my posts, you will see that I'm not trying to be a troll and cause a flame fest. I am whole-heartedly interested in the subject and not "finger pointing" at anyone. I am glad these ladies have intense orgasms that helps fulfill their sex lives. I am just curious about the biology of it all. So there is no need to cast stones over the matter. I guess we can agree to disagree, until there is definitive proof. I will say no more, unless someone wishes to discuss it.

Respectfully,

-TR-
Here's one.
And another
Last one
TEQUILAROSE I admire your composure ( and I must say your physical attributes also) in your responses in this thread. I don't have any answers for you, and agree that you have a point. I don't know you well, but you must truely be a LADY!
Mr. Lusty
Hey DJQ,

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_uids=11306389&dopt=Abstract


just thought you might wanna take a look. oh here's another regarding issues that can debunk previous studies by whipple and the like.

http://www.clinchem.org/cgi/content/full/44/1/181

or here:

http://www.clinchem.org/cgi/content/full/44/3/691


or here:

http://www.bioline.org.br/request?mf04042
-TR-