My wife and I have played a bit in the LS, but it was 14 years ago. Bit of background, my wife was approached by the female half of a couple for a threesome. I went to school with this lady, and she'd apparently had a crush on me. We discussed it, and decided to move forward. Had a few 3 ways, and a full swap with the husband, and a ton of fun. However, the lady told a vanilla relative of my wife. Needless to say this created stress and drama for us, so we stepped back and decided to wait until our kids were grown. That time has come in the last couple of years, but I'll be dammed if we can find a way to even get started.
Admittedly, I waited a while to reactivate the profile here, and tried using reddit. Post an ad, get some messages, have a couple that says they want to meet, set up a time/place, get ghosted. Send a message, never get replies. And we get that not every interaction is going to lead somewhere, some of these have lots of discussing of boundaries, so on, then crickets. 14 years and everything changed so much we have no clue where to start.
I realize, we're 50 years old and just beginning to get back in shape at the gym, but we aren't gremlins either. Many, many, many single guys messaging about how hot my wife is, a few couples saying they are interested, so maybe it's me. No idea, that's why I'm asking for help here.
I don't think we want anything too crazy, we'd just like to explore what's out there now that we finally have us time, and it feels like the world moved on and left us behind. So what can we do? We are in the Tooele area, and there's not really any clubs in Utah. We've thought of finding a club in Vegas maybe, but that takes time and money, and frankly tomorrow isn't promised. It could be months or more before we have the time to do so, and that's time we could be meeting new friends and having new experiences. I'm sure this is asked a lot, so I'm sorry in advance, but we're really floundering trying to find a way in.
Admittedly, I waited a while to reactivate the profile here, and tried using reddit. Post an ad, get some messages, have a couple that says they want to meet, set up a time/place, get ghosted. Send a message, never get replies. And we get that not every interaction is going to lead somewhere, some of these have lots of discussing of boundaries, so on, then crickets. 14 years and everything changed so much we have no clue where to start.
I realize, we're 50 years old and just beginning to get back in shape at the gym, but we aren't gremlins either. Many, many, many single guys messaging about how hot my wife is, a few couples saying they are interested, so maybe it's me. No idea, that's why I'm asking for help here.
I don't think we want anything too crazy, we'd just like to explore what's out there now that we finally have us time, and it feels like the world moved on and left us behind. So what can we do? We are in the Tooele area, and there's not really any clubs in Utah. We've thought of finding a club in Vegas maybe, but that takes time and money, and frankly tomorrow isn't promised. It could be months or more before we have the time to do so, and that's time we could be meeting new friends and having new experiences. I'm sure this is asked a lot, so I'm sorry in advance, but we're really floundering trying to find a way in.