To start with , We are newbie couple and understand fantasy is different from reality.
We recently have been to Crystal hot springs on a weekday and met other couple in the pool area. Scene had 2 other couple + us + 1 single guy who was not participating in the talk.
We started talking casually, topics like politics, age , kids , travel etc.
We kind of got a sense that couple1 were also chill and open like us. definitely clicked .
We definitely have good feelings to open up n play with other couples but how do we know other couple are also interested ?
What could we have done at that moment?
Icebreaking can go anyway.. we talked abt different possibilities but how cud we have grabbed the opportunity ?
Pls be realistic in your advices , as we will try those next time.
-Cpl
We recently have been to Crystal hot springs on a weekday and met other couple in the pool area. Scene had 2 other couple + us + 1 single guy who was not participating in the talk.
We started talking casually, topics like politics, age , kids , travel etc.
We kind of got a sense that couple1 were also chill and open like us. definitely clicked .
We definitely have good feelings to open up n play with other couples but how do we know other couple are also interested ?
What could we have done at that moment?
Icebreaking can go anyway.. we talked abt different possibilities but how cud we have grabbed the opportunity ?
Pls be realistic in your advices , as we will try those next time.
-Cpl
Are you asking couples only? Or everyone?
Pictures always help -
CPL2CPL24 wrote:The problem with places like Crystal and Lava, is there is a mix of vanilla and LS coupled. Unless you know for certainty they are LS, progressing the discussion can be a bit difficult. Now if you know they are LS it makes things way easier. Just as simple as let's get together for drinks or dinner. Maybe now or later. If you don't know try and progress the conversation to see if they are LS. Talking about some experiences mentioning some risque scenarios while posing questions too, may help it along. Watch their body language when you talk about it as well as how they engage. If you are pretty open and don't care you can ask if they are part of the LS or mention you guys are. There is no perfect way to navigate those areas.
To start with , We are newbie couple and understand fantasy is different from reality.
We recently have been to Crystal hot springs on a weekday and met other couple in the pool area. Scene had 2 other couple + us + 1 single guy who was not participating in the talk.
We started talking casually, topics like politics, age , kids , travel etc.
We kind of got a sense that couple1 were also chill and open like us. definitely clicked .
We definitely have good feelings to open up n play with other couples but how do we know other couple are also interested ?
What could we have done at that moment?
Icebreaking can go anyway.. we talked abt different possibilities but how cud we have grabbed the opportunity ?
Pls be realistic in your advices , as we will try those next time.
-Cpl
i have found dropping the vanilla word in the convo can tell you a lot. See if they know what that means or how they react to it. if they have never heard the word below it is easy to deflect off of it and move on without it getting akward.
J&J
J&J
We met and talked to a couple at the hotel pool in Vegas a while back and they looked the part so I just flat out asked them if they were in the life style…they weren’t, but at least we knew then and didn’t have to wonder anymore. We still chatted with them and got to know a really cool couple. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
If you’re “play-minded,” you’re either seducing or allowing yourself to be seduced. And if I’m not the one being seduced, I’ll put on my own seduction hat and unleash the dragon—in the most subtle way possible. Seduction is an art, and to truly understand it—especially when it comes to attracting other couples or single women—The Art of Seduction is a must-read.
Valuable suggestion . Thank you
Utahldscouple wrote:CPL2CPL24 wrote:The problem with places like Crystal and Lava, is there is a mix of vanilla and LS coupled. Unless you know for certainty they are LS, progressing the discussion can be a bit difficult. Now if you know they are LS it makes things way easier. Just as simple as let's get together for drinks or dinner. Maybe now or later. If you don't know try and progress the conversation to see if they are LS. Talking about some experiences mentioning some risque scenarios while posing questions too, may help it along. Watch their body language when you talk about it as well as how they engage. If you are pretty open and don't care you can ask if they are part of the LS or mention you guys are. There is no perfect way to navigate those areas.
To start with , We are newbie couple and understand fantasy is different from reality.
We recently have been to Crystal hot springs on a weekday and met other couple in the pool area. Scene had 2 other couple + us + 1 single guy who was not participating in the talk.
We started talking casually, topics like politics, age , kids , travel etc.
We kind of got a sense that couple1 were also chill and open like us. definitely clicked .
We definitely have good feelings to open up n play with other couples but how do we know other couple are also interested ?
What could we have done at that moment?
Icebreaking can go anyway.. we talked abt different possibilities but how cud we have grabbed the opportunity ?
Pls be realistic in your advices , as we will try those next time.
-Cpl
JOHN_JILL wrote:
i have found dropping the vanilla word in the convo can tell you a lot. See if they know what that means or how they react to it. if they have never heard the word below it is easy to deflect off of it and move on without it getting akward.
J&J
Sounds like a plan .
TCINDAVIS wrote:
We met and talked to a couple at the hotel pool in Vegas a while back and they looked the part so I just flat out asked them if they were in the life style…they weren’t, but at least we knew then and didn’t have to wonder anymore. We still chatted with them and got to know a really cool couple. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
At times being up straight saves lot of time
