A couple reached out to us. We where not interested. So we sent the standard "No thank you" letter. This is what they responded with.
"Lol no worries. We fuck hotter and younger, and don't deal with old goober ass guys. Best of luck"
Is this the kind of response we should be getting for a simple "No thank you" letter?
It seems a little excessive for us. We want to see what the group thinks.
"Lol no worries. We fuck hotter and younger, and don't deal with old goober ass guys. Best of luck"
Is this the kind of response we should be getting for a simple "No thank you" letter?
It seems a little excessive for us. We want to see what the group thinks.
We get negative responses all the time but that's on them. You can only control what you can control. You can control your response to them and let it go after that. We understand that we aren't everyone's cup of tea. We go back and forth with the idea of not responding at all or giving a response that you aren't interested. We feel if someone reaches out the least you can do is politely respond.
Not an acceptable response in my opinion. Chalk it up as a confirmation that you made the right choice.
I think you dodged a bullet. Respect and knowing expectations in the lifestyle are where you will see success. I wouldn’t respond.
This is almost the exact reason we made this post a few days ago. What should be a simple “Good luck to you guys 
” ends up causing so much bruised ego and anger. It’s really strange. 🤷🏿♂️
” ends up causing so much bruised ego and anger. It’s really strange. 🤷🏿♂️I never understood why some people just have to take it to the top and take rejection as a personal stab…you made the right choice
They wrote you a totally unacceptable response. If we receive an email and can see face pics, we always reply back with a very courteous message. You're better off without them.
Utahldscouple wrote:
We feel if someone reaches out the least you can do is politely respond.
Spot on, in our opinion! And that doesn't just apply to communications on this website. We think it applies to everyday life...phone calls, texts, and emails. Unless rude, inappropriate, or otherwise negative, we feel it to be common courtesy to respond to everyone, even if we don't have any interest...even if it's with an emoji. It seems however, that ignoring has become common if not accepted practice in everyday life these days. Make America Courteous Again!
Yes, I agree. A rather rude, crude response to a polite "no thank you." Probably drunk and riding high on their horse of glass. Or, drunk and high perched upon their house of cards since the glass horse is already in pieces.
We always respond to a message - we consider that as a basic courtesy. If somebody responds back with a crass or derogatory message, we know we made the right decision to say “thanks but no thanks”.
The one that always surprises me is when they ask why we don’t want to get with them.
The one that always surprises me is when they ask why we don’t want to get with them.
When one finally learns that a person's behavior has more to do with their internal struggle than it ever did with you, you learn grace ~
No a correct response should have been ok thanks for the curtisy on responding to me
Candyrocks69 wrote:Agreed. We hate when someone ask why!daburr wrote:
No a correct response should have been ok thanks for the curtisy on responding to me
Truth. No one is owed an explanation. A response is a courtesy.
Not acceptable, but not a surprise either. There are a lot of insecure singles and couples on this site. On the flip side, I’ve met some wonderful, down to earth people. You attract what you put out there. Your “not interested” response was great. Keep being respectful, ignore the haters, and have fun.
When we raised this issue under “Help”—for example, we were accused of being racist and then attacked again, accused of playing the victim—almost everyone remained silent. Now, suddenly, everyone’s sympathetic because it’s coming from a couple? Something about this doesn’t add up, and the more you think about it, the less it does.
I’m always wondering if I respond enough too.
No one has ever been rued , most interaction or conversations have been smooth.
Also, no ‘s always maybes….😉
No one has ever been rued , most interaction or conversations have been smooth.
Also, no ‘s always maybes….😉
We try to talk to people on here and no one ever really responds. But we would never give that kind of response if someone says no thank you. I’m sorry that’s not very kind of them. No one deserves to be treated that way because they aren’t interested in them. Apparently they can’t handle rejection well and shouldn’t be asking anyone for anything until they work on their poor little hurt feelings.
Hopefully, the person who replied with such a disturbing response is reading these comments and learns a lesson on proper etiquette
I always appreciate a "no thank you" over a non response any day of the week. No way should you have been treated like that. Just remember you did the right thing.
Utahldscouple wrote:
We hate when someone ask why!
Same. Suddenly feels like we're talking to a used car salesman when this happens. Really awkward.