Alright, it has to be said—some of us need to go back and read this book. Not just read it, but actually apply the principles it lays out. This isn’t a jab at anyone, but honestly, some of us could really use the help.
It's actually a good book. Sometimes applying isn't as easy as it seems and it's easier to do so in business because you can be fake about it. You can apply this principles with your friends, only to find out they aren't your friends and they are just using you. Great principles for business not sure it's as useful for actual friendships.
If people would focus on just being good people this world would be a lot better off. You don't have to be kind or friends with everyone, but not being mean or rude doesn't take much effort. We have been guilty of not being kind but we do try and improve.
If people would focus on just being good people this world would be a lot better off. You don't have to be kind or friends with everyone, but not being mean or rude doesn't take much effort. We have been guilty of not being kind but we do try and improve.
Utahldscouple wrote:
It's actually a good book. Sometimes applying isn't as easy as it seems and it's easier to do so in business because you can be fake about it. You can apply this principles with your friends, only to find out they aren't your friends and they are just using you. Great principles for business not sure it's as useful for actual friendships.
If people would focus on just being good people this world would be a lot better off. You don't have to be kind or friends with everyone, but not being mean or rude doesn't take much effort. We have been guilty of not being kind but we do try and improve.
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited. After chatting with some people here, it’s clear that many could really use this book. I’ve always recommended it privately—just looking at the table of contents, it’s clear this book is crucial, especially in the LS. NO JOKE!
Some may get serious help from this table. lol
Hey! You know what? Maybe from this table.
massageBBCguy wrote:
Alright, it has to be said—some of us need to go back and read this book. Not just read it, but actually apply the principles it lays out. This isn’t a jab at anyone, but honestly, some of us could really use the help.
Assuming this post was inspired by being treated like shit from people here, I'd be willing to bet the treatment is driven by you being a single male.
massageBBCguy wrote:Again, a good book that I think people should read in general. But to really apply these principles takes a lot of work and you need to read the book multiple times to really grasp them. Seems like you may have had some really negative experiences in the LS, which is sad to hear yet not surprising. We need a Joey Swell for the LS, we need to do better!Utahldscouple wrote:
It's actually a good book. Sometimes applying isn't as easy as it seems and it's easier to do so in business because you can be fake about it. You can apply this principles with your friends, only to find out they aren't your friends and they are just using you. Great principles for business not sure it's as useful for actual friendships.
If people would focus on just being good people this world would be a lot better off. You don't have to be kind or friends with everyone, but not being mean or rude doesn't take much effort. We have been guilty of not being kind but we do try and improve.
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited. After chatting with some people here, it’s clear that many could really use this book. I’ve always recommended it privately—just looking at the table of contents, it’s clear this book is crucial, especially in the LS. NO JOKE!
massageBBCguy wrote:
[quote=Utahldscouple]It's actually a good book. Sometimes applying isn't as easy as it seems and it's easier to do so in business because you can be fake about it. You can apply this principles with your friends, only to find out they aren't your friends and they are just using you. Great principles for business not sure it's as useful for actual friendships.
If people would focus on just being good people this world would be a lot better off. You don't have to be kind or friends with everyone, but not being mean or rude doesn't take much effort. We have been guilty of not being kind but we do try and improve.
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited. After chatting with some people here, it’s clear that many could really use this book. I’ve always recommended it privately—just looking at the table of contents, it’s clear this book is crucial, especially in the LS. NO JOKE! [/quote
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited.
Hello, your phrase “
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited” is very condescending. There could be a reason that you’re finding it difficult in the LS.
Remember, if you’re getting the same result from multiple people, perhaps look at your reflection and be humble.
~Janda
JANDA14 wrote:massageBBCguy wrote:
[quote=Utahldscouple]It's actually a good book. Sometimes applying isn't as easy as it seems and it's easier to do so in business because you can be fake about it. You can apply this principles with your friends, only to find out they aren't your friends and they are just using you. Great principles for business not sure it's as useful for actual friendships.
If people would focus on just being good people this world would be a lot better off. You don't have to be kind or friends with everyone, but not being mean or rude doesn't take much effort. We have been guilty of not being kind but we do try and improve.
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited. After chatting with some people here, it’s clear that many could really use this book. I’ve always recommended it privately—just looking at the table of contents, it’s clear this book is crucial, especially in the LS. NO JOKE! [/quote
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited.
Hello, your phrase “
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited” is very condescending. There could be a reason that you’re finding it difficult in the LS.
Remember, if you’re getting the same result from multiple people, perhaps look at your reflection and be humble.
~Janda
Why you being mean?
massageBBCguy wrote:JANDA14 wrote:
[quote=massageBBCguy][quote=Utahldscouple]It's actually a good book. Sometimes applying isn't as easy as it seems and it's easier to do so in business because you can be fake about it. You can apply this principles with your friends, only to find out they aren't your friends and they are just using you. Great principles for business not sure it's as useful for actual friendships.
If people would focus on just being good people this world would be a lot better off. You don't have to be kind or friends with everyone, but not being mean or rude doesn't take much effort. We have been guilty of not being kind but we do try and improve.
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited. After chatting with some people here, it’s clear that many could really use this book. I’ve always recommended it privately—just looking at the table of contents, it’s clear this book is crucial, especially in the LS. NO JOKE! [/quote
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited.
Hello, your phrase “
Your summary is generally accurate, but a bit limited” is very condescending. There could be a reason that you’re finding it difficult in the LS.
Remember, if you’re getting the same result from multiple people, perhaps look at your reflection and be humble.
~Janda
Why you being mean?
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That isn’t being mean. That’s free advice! You cant have a condescending comment, then play the victim card. Those two roles don’t run parallel.
To clarify, we fit into the fantasy category in the lifestyle. We’re two Black men who love hosting and giving great massages (when we’re not too distracted!). So, not sure why anyone would assume this post is about us struggling to meet people—especially after a quick look at our profile.
The help in our caption isn’t a call for assistance. We’re offering help because some might wonder why we’ve said we’re no longer interested. It’s not a lack of attraction—it’s about the vibe. This book can help with learning, among other things, how to create the right vibe.
So again, it’s not about us struggling to meet people here!
Not sure why you are so mad Chief. lol
The help in our caption isn’t a call for assistance. We’re offering help because some might wonder why we’ve said we’re no longer interested. It’s not a lack of attraction—it’s about the vibe. This book can help with learning, among other things, how to create the right vibe.
So again, it’s not about us struggling to meet people here!
Not sure why you are so mad Chief. lol
We’re not playing the victim, nor are we RACIST. This was a difficult post to make, but it felt necessary after a series of awkward conversations. (See below)
And this.
massageBBCguy wrote:
We’re not playing the victim, nor are we RACIST. This was a difficult post to make, but it felt necessary after a series of awkward conversations. (See below)
So I must be missing something!
If someone wasn’t into you because you’re black doesn’t mean they are racist. If you’re not into gay men, does that make you a homophobe? NO!
Don’t villify people for their line and dislikes.
You’ve posted 2 conversations. Let me ask you, Have you had any positive conversations? I’m assuming the answer is YES! Have you made a post celebrating those people?! I don’t see one.
Stop playing the victim. You’re NOT!
JANDA14 wrote:massageBBCguy wrote:
We’re not playing the victim, nor are we RACIST. This was a difficult post to make, but it felt necessary after a series of awkward conversations. (See below)
So I must be missing something!
If someone wasn’t into you because you’re black doesn’t mean they are racist. If you’re not into gay men, does that make you a homophobe? NO!
Don’t villify people for their line and dislikes.
You’ve posted 2 conversations. Let me ask you, Have you had any positive conversations? I’m assuming the answer is YES! Have you made a post celebrating those people?! I don’t see one.
Stop playing the victim. You’re NOT!
Though we’re not obligated to clarify, since you seem genuinely invested: the message below is from us, while the one above is from another member. We hope this helps Chief.
🤷🏿♂️
Just fixed a bowl of popcorn for the Drama……..
Single males posting books and advice for couples………lol
Single males posting books and advice for couples………lol
Drawn2Adventure wrote:
Just fixed a bowl of popcorn for the Drama……..
Single males posting books and advice for couples………lol
Cute.
massageBBCguy wrote:Drawn2Adventure wrote:
Just fixed a bowl of popcorn for the Drama……..
Single males posting books and advice for couples………lol
Cute.
Spot on truth……
It's actually a good book for people to be better at being nice. From what we have seen these guys are polite. I think the purpose of the post is to address exactly what they are seeing on post here as well as responses via messages. Can we be a little more polite on our responses? Like I moms have all said, if you don't have anything good to say don't say anything at all (can't say we haven't been guilty of that as sarcasm sometimes doesn't come across well in text).