My bf and I tried a 3 some this last weekend. We were enjoying everything, but when he wanted to have sex with her he couldn't. And he was very embarrassed that he could not get or stay hard.
Is there something I can do to help, or is this a normal thing? He is very upset by this. I know we need to wait before we try again, but does anyone have any suggestions
Is there something I can do to help, or is this a normal thing? He is very upset by this. I know we need to wait before we try again, but does anyone have any suggestions
It’s called performance anxiety. I have had the same thing happen when playing with other couples. It’s normal and it does happen once in a while. There’s not a lot you can do besides something like viagra or PT141 peptides. It just kind of happens. Usually when a man is in a situation he isn’t used to or when he feels he needs to perform and then his body kind of betrays him. It’s very embarrassing and a hard pill to swallow. Especially the next time he tries it can be worse because of the first experience which will make him even more susceptible to it. I’m really sorry.
Nerves, and too much alcohol can cause problems. CBD or something like it may help with nerves but without the negative effects of alcohol.
Hope that is helpful.
Hope that is helpful.
This is where you the wife comes in to play. You know what gets him hard.
Whisper in his ear, suck on his neck, play with his nipples, talk dirty to him, tell him you love him, etc. And that usually works.
But like was said earlier if there's too much alcohol involved it's not going to happen.
Good luck.
By the way, that's very normal especially if it's your first experience.
Whisper in his ear, suck on his neck, play with his nipples, talk dirty to him, tell him you love him, etc. And that usually works.
But like was said earlier if there's too much alcohol involved it's not going to happen.
Good luck.
By the way, that's very normal especially if it's your first experience.
Yep unfortunately very common for men in the lifestyle especially in the beginning. Mostly because they are still coming to turns with themselves and their partners that this is OK. I can be a mental mind f*#@, we would say most men experience and some don't. We happened to be on the didn't experience it side for many years and then met several men in a row that, well they experienced it. Fortunately, you can get help if it is an ongoing thing.
Utahldscouple wrote:
Yep unfortunately very common for men in the lifestyle especially in the beginning. Mostly because they are still coming to turns with themselves and their partners that this is OK. I can be a mental mind f*#@, we would say most men experience and some don't. We happened to be on the didn't experience it side for many years and then met several men in a row that, well they experienced it. Fortunately, you can get help if it is an ongoing thing.
Seriously. What kind of help?
The blue pill?
Sometimes we just add to the problem because we start worrying about it.
It’s embarrassing for sure.
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you
RDPFUN wrote:Yep blue pill, yellow pill, dick shot, etc. so many different options nowadays.Utahldscouple wrote:
Yep unfortunately very common for men in the lifestyle especially in the beginning. Mostly because they are still coming to turns with themselves and their partners that this is OK. I can be a mental mind f*#@, we would say most men experience and some don't. We happened to be on the didn't experience it side for many years and then met several men in a row that, well they experienced it. Fortunately, you can get help if it is an ongoing thing.
Seriously. What kind of help?
The blue pill?
Sometimes we just add to the problem because we start worrying about it.
It’s embarrassing for sure.
And you are right, once you get in your head it's difficult to get out. Once you start to overthink it, it really goes downhill.
You say "dick shot!" Do you know the actual name for that procedure?
Sometimes we just add to the problem because we start worrying about it.
It’s embarrassing for sure.[/quote]Yep blue pill, yellow pill, dick shot, etc. so many different options nowadays.
And you are right, once you get in your head it's difficult to get out. Once you start to overthink it, it really goes downhill.[/quote]
Sometimes we just add to the problem because we start worrying about it.
It’s embarrassing for sure.[/quote]Yep blue pill, yellow pill, dick shot, etc. so many different options nowadays.
And you are right, once you get in your head it's difficult to get out. Once you start to overthink it, it really goes downhill.[/quote]
This always has to do with something on his mind and the only thing to do about it is talk openly. He might be worried about you. He might be worried about her. He might just be overwhelmed. He's probably a good guy. There's no reason for anyone to be embarrassed, or even confused. Just talk about it. And, there's plenty you can do still when something like this galena. And if you do relax and explore what's possible, that might help you relax enough to some the matter.
AROUSINGTIMES wrote:If you google "dick shot" you will actually see there are several options. Trimix is one we know of and the newer version Quadmix.
You say "dick shot!" Do you know the actual name for that procedure?
Sometimes we just add to the problem because we start worrying about it.
It’s embarrassing for sure.
Utahldscouple wrote:AROUSINGTIMES wrote:If you google "dick shot" you will actually see there are several options. Trimix is one we know of and the newer version Quadmix.
You say "dick shot!" Do you know the actual name for that procedure?
Sometimes we just add to the problem because we start worrying about it.
It’s embarrassing for sure.
Thank you!
Utahldscouple wrote:AROUSINGTIMES wrote:If you google "dick shot" you will actually see there are several options. Trimix is one we know of and the newer version Quadmix.
You say "dick shot!" Do you know the actual name for that procedure?
Sometimes we just add to the problem because we start worrying about it.
It’s embarrassing for sure.
Thank you!
I was with a man that was almost 25 years older than me and the dick shot worked everytime! It might pinch for a second but I know it’s def worth it to them in the end!! They completely forget about it!!