To those of you who have experience with FetLife, is there a a decent size Utah presence on that platform? Or not so much?
Yes and no. Fet life does have some swinging on there and can be fairly active, it's not it's primary focus. Fet covers a variety of kinks and acts more like a social for adult activities. Yes you can hook up but that's not it's focus. So I'd recommend trying it out.
I didn’t have much luck with it. I was hit with a bunch of fake profiles
Couldn’t hurt I have had some interesting interactions on FET couldn’t be worse than fake profiles here 🤷♂️
Fet isn't typically used for finding people. It's honestly like a mix between Facebook and Instagram for kinksters. And a lot of kinksters don't "hook up" the she way, either. If you get on Fet, the purpose is to find a community that understands you. You meet people through gatherings that you learn about once you start to get involved. You can hook up if that's what people are looking for, but it's most often not what they're there for.