To those of you who have experience with FetLife, is there a a decent size Utah presence on that platform? Or not so much?
Yes and no. Fet life does have some swinging on there and can be fairly active, it's not it's primary focus. Fet covers a variety of kinks and acts more like a social for adult activities. Yes you can hook up but that's not it's focus. So I'd recommend trying it out.
I didn’t have much luck with it. I was hit with a bunch of fake profiles
Couldn’t hurt I have had some interesting interactions on FET couldn’t be worse than fake profiles here 🤷♂️
Fet isn't typically used for finding people. It's honestly like a mix between Facebook and Instagram for kinksters. And a lot of kinksters don't "hook up" the she way, either. If you get on Fet, the purpose is to find a community that understands you. You meet people through gatherings that you learn about once you start to get involved. You can hook up if that's what people are looking for, but it's most often not what they're there for.
I agree. It's not a hook up site so people get frustrated that they don't have success that way. It's like a kink FB I've had lots of success making connections at events that I've found on there. We are pretty involved in the community now.
We met on fetlife.
We love fet
. Our main profile pic on here is a screenshot from our fet account. 😬
. Our main profile pic on here is a screenshot from our fet account. 😬Might have to give it a shot. Swingular was pretty much dead before and now its like beating a dead horse. I’m hoping one day it will get better and more lively, but that might be in another year or two.
For now, Facebook groups seem to be where it’s at if you don’t want to buy a membership.
For now, Facebook groups seem to be where it’s at if you don’t want to buy a membership.
For not being a hookup site, we sure hooked up with a lot of people off FL. And most the unicorns we played with came from that site.
Even when we still lived in Utah, we were twice as likely to hook up from FL than from this antiquated platform.
Even when we still lived in Utah, we were twice as likely to hook up from FL than from this antiquated platform.
Me and my wife met a couple from FetLife it was all about different kinks and such. This particular couple was into bondage play, hot oils, nipple clamps etc. Their kinks just Was not our cup of tea. They were a nice couple and they either changed their profile name or deleted account.
FIT_N_FUN wrote:
For not being a hookup site, we sure hooked up with a lot of people off FL. And most the unicorns we played with came from that site.
Even when we still lived in Utah, we were twice as likely to hook up from FL than from this antiquated platform.
Hi guys we are looking to move to Pensacola fl. how do u like the change Utah is a amazing state and fl is so different we are hoping to be able to make the change successfully
Fet is pretty active in the kink community in Utah. That being said, a lot of the kink groups in Utah have a negative stigma towards the swing community.
We need to get back on Fetlife. Nice to see others interested.
UtSkier wrote:FIT_N_FUN wrote:
For not being a hookup site, we sure hooked up with a lot of people off FL. And most the unicorns we played with came from that site.
Even when we still lived in Utah, we were twice as likely to hook up from FL than from this antiquated platform.
Hi guys we are looking to move to Pensacola fl. how do u like the change Utah is a amazing state and fl is so different we are hoping to be able to make the change successfully
When we lived in UT, we already had our home here in Naples and never intended to stay out west.
Utah has a lot of great, natural beauty, but it's the weirdest place we ever lived, and that says a lot coming from a Floridian.
We can't really comment on Pensacola. It's a 9 hour drive from here and is more like Alabama than SWFL where we live. FL is a huge state with a lot of varying communities.
We hope it works out for you guys.
Love fetlife. 😘
Love it