Whatever happened to sensuality as part of this lifestyle?
I realize that I'm wired a bit differently than most men. I prefer a soft, sensual exploration as opposed to a wham-bam type of event. I crave, desire, and attempt to create in each experience a sense of wonder, fascination, adoration, and anticipation--all meant to heighten arousal. Yes, I am a bit different. Don't get me wrong, sometimes quick and hard can be immensely satisfying. But by and large, the slower the better for me. I love a paced and methodical reveal, teasing and being teased, slowly seducing and being seduced.
It seems that most of those reaching out to me recently, for my particular massage or for play in general, have been more along the lines of quicker is better. Just another way to get off quickly.
Am I reading this wrong? Am I just having different experiences than others? Guide me, oh wise ones.
I realize that I'm wired a bit differently than most men. I prefer a soft, sensual exploration as opposed to a wham-bam type of event. I crave, desire, and attempt to create in each experience a sense of wonder, fascination, adoration, and anticipation--all meant to heighten arousal. Yes, I am a bit different. Don't get me wrong, sometimes quick and hard can be immensely satisfying. But by and large, the slower the better for me. I love a paced and methodical reveal, teasing and being teased, slowly seducing and being seduced.
It seems that most of those reaching out to me recently, for my particular massage or for play in general, have been more along the lines of quicker is better. Just another way to get off quickly.
Am I reading this wrong? Am I just having different experiences than others? Guide me, oh wise ones.