Whatever happened to sensuality as part of this lifestyle?
I realize that I'm wired a bit differently than most men. I prefer a soft, sensual exploration as opposed to a wham-bam type of event. I crave, desire, and attempt to create in each experience a sense of wonder, fascination, adoration, and anticipation--all meant to heighten arousal. Yes, I am a bit different. Don't get me wrong, sometimes quick and hard can be immensely satisfying. But by and large, the slower the better for me. I love a paced and methodical reveal, teasing and being teased, slowly seducing and being seduced.
It seems that most of those reaching out to me recently, for my particular massage or for play in general, have been more along the lines of quicker is better. Just another way to get off quickly.
Am I reading this wrong? Am I just having different experiences than others? Guide me, oh wise ones.
I realize that I'm wired a bit differently than most men. I prefer a soft, sensual exploration as opposed to a wham-bam type of event. I crave, desire, and attempt to create in each experience a sense of wonder, fascination, adoration, and anticipation--all meant to heighten arousal. Yes, I am a bit different. Don't get me wrong, sometimes quick and hard can be immensely satisfying. But by and large, the slower the better for me. I love a paced and methodical reveal, teasing and being teased, slowly seducing and being seduced.
It seems that most of those reaching out to me recently, for my particular massage or for play in general, have been more along the lines of quicker is better. Just another way to get off quickly.
Am I reading this wrong? Am I just having different experiences than others? Guide me, oh wise ones.
Great question! Hmmmmm, I'm pretty sure the answer will, unfortunately, be "it depends." đ
elgomut wrote:
Honestly, this is what I feel my wife wins with and I find exceptional. Iâve seen it in one other. But her sensuality combined with her new-found sexuality is mind blowing to me and what keeps her my #1 Drawing out foreplay and how much she actually enjoys pleasing is a big turn-on
I. LOVE. THIS! Way to prioritize one anotherâs pleasure above your own.
Both of us enjoy this type of interaction......We would rather flirt, tease, and touch to see if we all mesh well and to see how the mood is......If everybody's having fun doing the above then who knows what will happen, but we don't ever plan our playtime because we do not want a "wham Bam thank you ma'am" experience. But that is just us as well. So you are not alone TWEEDCOAT
We are bringing it back. đ€đ«đ«
Itâs not gone, youâll just need to find the right couple or female youâre looking for. We will say there is definitely an over abundance of single men on here just looking for a quick bang. Youll see the same single men posting several times a week every week looking for afternoon fun/morning fun/etcâŠyouâll also find the same single men consistently posting in posts that donât apply to them, definitely thirsty for attention, and ultimately just looking for the quick bang.
A sexy welcome to this first-time hotwifeâour kind of âsensualityâ for lifestyle Queens. đ€
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