So We've been mostly caught up with career/promoting/stressful garbage for the entirety of 2023. We met up with 2 couples and a few single males/females the entire year. compared to the last 15 years we really let the passion die. So this year after a long talk with the hubs we decided to set some goals for ourselves.
We want to get back into having a healthy sexual relationship and getting our adult/sex life style back on track.
Our goals as a Couple:
- Attend at least 1 lifestyle event a month.
- Meet 1 couple/select single every 2 week.
- 3 booty calls a month
Goals Individually(female half):
-Participate in a gangbang
-Play/find/create a gloryhole
So far thats what we've come up with. Very serious this year as i feel like me and my husband over invested in our professional life and neglected our love for the lifestyle and it put us more in a depression and yearning for passion and fun. We would love to hear from everyone on what your goals are this year and what you'd love to do and give us some ideas as well!
As always DMs open
We want to get back into having a healthy sexual relationship and getting our adult/sex life style back on track.
Our goals as a Couple:
- Attend at least 1 lifestyle event a month.
- Meet 1 couple/select single every 2 week.
- 3 booty calls a month
Goals Individually(female half):
-Participate in a gangbang
-Play/find/create a gloryhole
So far thats what we've come up with. Very serious this year as i feel like me and my husband over invested in our professional life and neglected our love for the lifestyle and it put us more in a depression and yearning for passion and fun. We would love to hear from everyone on what your goals are this year and what you'd love to do and give us some ideas as well!
As always DMs open
I guess we should look at setting some goals also. We used to be very active and we would love to get more so.
Ours has been to host an LS houseboat party and this year we are doing it. We also want to attend a few clubs we hear about throughout the 🇺🇸! We did several this year and loved it. Other than that we feel pretty satisfied with our LS involvement (we are pretty active). We are always open to dinner/drinks!
Life certainly got in the way of our goals last year as well, it was busy.
Our 2024 goals are:
1) Make more ls friends and just grab drinks without having to plan a big play date
2) A separate room full swap for both of us
3) Meet a couple we can play regularly with, in any combination
4) Mr to meet a couple for hotwife play
5) Meet a single or attached male and female for MFM and MFF
Anyone want to help us with 1 - 4?
Our 2024 goals are:
1) Make more ls friends and just grab drinks without having to plan a big play date
2) A separate room full swap for both of us
3) Meet a couple we can play regularly with, in any combination
4) Mr to meet a couple for hotwife play
5) Meet a single or attached male and female for MFM and MFF
Anyone want to help us with 1 - 4?
I love be part of your goals. Delicioso
Due to work busy work schedules , life events, other interests getting in the way, we also have struggled to get out there. Although in the end most of us are on here for the same objective, but for us the social aspect has always been our initial interest. Our 2024 goals are to follow through and make time for our social interests !
I love the thoughts shared already! Being a goal driven person I love that others consider their sex life balance and self evaluation of their past year in evaluating life balance.
Like most, I definitely have fantasies in my mind I want to try and explore but I have never actually listed them out. I have thought for some time that I need to create a Fuck-it list for myself, similar to my Bucket List, with some realistic interests and some fantasies I would love to explore with other(s). Not necessarily the number of people, as I prefer fewer more select regular play friends, but more a list of places I want to have sex, experiences, and maybe some fantasies. Fun topic to discuss. Thanks for sharing.
I am open to hearing new ideas and any are welcome to messages on here or kik - extremexlr8 (mention you are from swingular if you do so I do not delete thinking it might be a spam bot)
A few that come to mind to start on my short list
- Helping a couple with their fantasy - something not on my list or that I have not thought of
- more date with wife while husband is in other room or on speaker phone listening (fantasy as I usually prefer the husband to be present)
- small house party orgy
- new clubs in I /we have not been to
- more Hotwife experiences
- attend a lifestyle masquerade party
- possibly explore some safe play with a bi or bi curious couple
- photograph and/or videographer for a boudoir or naked photo shoot session for a female to give her husband as a gift or for a couple
- more masseus sessions giving massage to a Hotwife or couple
- No gross or degrading fetishes
- Nothing illegal, other than outdoor play in dark/secluded areas
- more blindfolds, toys, costumes, or roleplay
- Someday will be daring enough to play with a close neighbor, coworker, or friend group
- Outside at night on blankets by camp trailer at a festival
- More helping a husband pleasing his wife
- Being a "Sugar Bull" for a couple treating me (not about the money, but more about being their date for a night or overnight at a condo or airbnb
- Locations
Airplane (thinking a private jet or plane)
Gondola - some resorts do Summer nights gondola rides so dark enough for an exciting ride
Nude Beach - have done before but explore more
(Checked) Side-by-side/ OHV
What are some other fun "Fuck-it List" fantasies I should add? These are just a few fun ones to share in group. Open to other thoughts and fantasies. I would love to hear others ideas.
Like most, I definitely have fantasies in my mind I want to try and explore but I have never actually listed them out. I have thought for some time that I need to create a Fuck-it list for myself, similar to my Bucket List, with some realistic interests and some fantasies I would love to explore with other(s). Not necessarily the number of people, as I prefer fewer more select regular play friends, but more a list of places I want to have sex, experiences, and maybe some fantasies. Fun topic to discuss. Thanks for sharing.
I am open to hearing new ideas and any are welcome to messages on here or kik - extremexlr8 (mention you are from swingular if you do so I do not delete thinking it might be a spam bot)
A few that come to mind to start on my short list
- Helping a couple with their fantasy - something not on my list or that I have not thought of
- more date with wife while husband is in other room or on speaker phone listening (fantasy as I usually prefer the husband to be present)
- small house party orgy
- new clubs in I /we have not been to
- more Hotwife experiences
- attend a lifestyle masquerade party
- possibly explore some safe play with a bi or bi curious couple
- photograph and/or videographer for a boudoir or naked photo shoot session for a female to give her husband as a gift or for a couple
- more masseus sessions giving massage to a Hotwife or couple
- No gross or degrading fetishes
- Nothing illegal, other than outdoor play in dark/secluded areas
- more blindfolds, toys, costumes, or roleplay
- Someday will be daring enough to play with a close neighbor, coworker, or friend group
- Outside at night on blankets by camp trailer at a festival
- More helping a husband pleasing his wife
- Being a "Sugar Bull" for a couple treating me (not about the money, but more about being their date for a night or overnight at a condo or airbnb
- Locations
Airplane (thinking a private jet or plane)
Gondola - some resorts do Summer nights gondola rides so dark enough for an exciting ride
Nude Beach - have done before but explore more
(Checked) Side-by-side/ OHV
What are some other fun "Fuck-it List" fantasies I should add? These are just a few fun ones to share in group. Open to other thoughts and fantasies. I would love to hear others ideas.
My goal, Swingular, is to fuck at least 12 of your wives this year. 
Anyone want to volunteer for Mrs January?
Stay happy, healthy, and horny this New Year!
Anyone want to volunteer for Mrs January?
Stay happy, healthy, and horny this New Year!
We made the same type of resolution as well. Been way too wrapped up in work etc. need new friends!!!
NewtoUtah wrote:
We made the same type of resolution as well. Been way too wrapped up in work etc. need new friends!!!
love to make new friends, PM us
I think our goals will be to get out camping more with lifestyle peeps. We really like the spontaneous play that occurs in the great outdoors.
Would also like to expand our friends circle and find friends that like to travel.
Would also like to expand our friends circle and find friends that like to travel.
just4funxxx11 wrote:
Life certainly got in the way of our goals last year as well, it was busy.
Our 2024 goals are:
1) Make more ls friends and just grab drinks without having to plan a big play date
2) A separate room full swap for both of us
3) Meet a couple we can play regularly with, in any combination
4) Mr to meet a couple for hotwife play
5) Meet a single or attached male and female for MFM and MFF
Anyone want to help us with 1 - 4?
1 and 3 (and to a lesser extent 2) sounds like you two are very much into the idea of "Make friends out of swingers."
Which has always been our goal while participating in the LS. It's nice to see when other people explicitly call this out.
just4funxxx11 wrote:
Life certainly got in the way of our goals last year as well, it was busy.
Our 2024 goals are:
1) Make more ls friends and just grab drinks without having to plan a big play date
2) A separate room full swap for both of us
3) Meet a couple we can play regularly with, in any combination
4) Mr to meet a couple for hotwife play
5) Meet a single or attached male and female for MFM and MFF
Anyone want to help us with 1 - 4?
3 is what dreams are made of.
4 he can definitely help us with.
We would love to meet you both! We are in process of moving to Utah from AZ, building in Daybreak. In Park City you must be loving all of this snow!
Paul/Kaycee
Paul/Kaycee