Both me and my wife discuss about what is a safe way to swap ( fun and forget ) meaning, one that gives us rush and we are back to routine.
we know the answer is 'it depends' on situations and choices. But we would also like to know what is a hassle free experience you guys prefer/had.
some of them could be:
1) travel outside the city you are in to meet couple only once or very rarely.
2) go to local parties for the sake of convenience and meet more couples frequently.
3) make your home a place to play and have only 1 or 2 couples and give ur best to them.
4) any other suggestions/preferences?
we know the answer is 'it depends' on situations and choices. But we would also like to know what is a hassle free experience you guys prefer/had.
some of them could be:
1) travel outside the city you are in to meet couple only once or very rarely.
2) go to local parties for the sake of convenience and meet more couples frequently.
3) make your home a place to play and have only 1 or 2 couples and give ur best to them.
4) any other suggestions/preferences?
Assuming you meaning an ongoing situation that you can regularly rely on. We have found traveling works best for us. Keeps a lot of couples as bay. We have a couple we play with regularly and they both are a little obsessive (yes many red flags for us) but being they are not local it makes it easy to keep them in check. If they were local it would be a very different situation and we would most likely end the friendship. Finding local friends like that seems to be more difficult than the so called elusive unicorn(we find those more often). We have many local friends but none we play with locally, we have an amazing friend group so if anyone is looking we have some we can introduce you to 😉. We also like traveling so it helps doing that.
With that said, end of the day any method works you just need to set proper boundaries at the very beginning. You might have to go through a few couples with that because inevitably someone will push those boundaries. It's a lot harder to do when you become friends with them too. Hopefully you are able to find what you are looking for. If you need some good wingmen let us know 😉.
With that said, end of the day any method works you just need to set proper boundaries at the very beginning. You might have to go through a few couples with that because inevitably someone will push those boundaries. It's a lot harder to do when you become friends with them too. Hopefully you are able to find what you are looking for. If you need some good wingmen let us know 😉.
No matter what.
It’s all complicated.
and
It’s also manageable.
Upfront notice on all things, no means no!
Go means Go!
It’s all complicated.
and
It’s also manageable.
Upfront notice on all things, no means no!
Go means Go!
Great answer!
Sweeter2gthr wrote:
No matter what.
It’s all complicated.
and
It’s also manageable.
Upfront notice on all things, no means no!
Go means Go!
Seriously, I could not have said this better.
Sweeter2gthr wrote:
No matter what.
It’s all complicated.
and
It’s also manageable.
Upfront notice on all things, no means no!
Go means Go!
thank you.
Actually it shouldn’t be complicated at all….
Live
Play
Live
If it’s complicated you’re doing it all wrong!
Live
Play
Live
If it’s complicated you’re doing it all wrong!
Drawn2Adventure wrote:We always say you can make things as difficult or as simple as you want to make things. We find at times we over complicate things.
Actually it shouldn’t be complicated at all….
Live
Play
Live
If it’s complicated you’re doing it all wrong!
Drawn2Adventure wrote:
Actually it shouldn’t be complicated at all….
Live
Play
Live
If it’s complicated you’re doing it all wrong!
Sweet advice