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Just wondering if anyone has been brave enough to put out an invitation for a house party and how did it go? Do you screen people before giving details? Should everyone be invited? We have always wanted to have a group of people get together in a more intimate place than a bar if for nothing more than conversation, drinks and new acquaintances. We have been to a number of parties but they are bigger and the invite list is usually wide. Thinking this would be a great way to find new friends along with old friends. Any ideas, suggestions, experience? Be nice.
We personally would never attend a house party of someone we haven't met unless there are attendees that we know going with us and they know the organizer. But that's our personal feeling. Have seen where there are a few couples, that know each other, where each couple invite a couple they know to a party. That has been somewhat successful. There used to be a couple that would throw pay to attend "house parties" but they were in empty houses they were selling not their personal houses. Not sure we have seen someone do that with their personal houses but sure that used to happen back in the day!
We hosted many House Parties a few years ago. We always limited to people we knew, also had a few Single guys, but a very select few. We made sure no couples had issues with the other couples. Kept them to about 5 couples, you can get too big. Our parties were fun, and everyone always asked to be invited again. Do the BYOB, and supply snacks. Plus plenty of room to play! Good luck!
Our couples only private events venue has been launched as “The Views”.

We held off announcing a post about our launch name here to not take away the spotlight from Black Swann in SLC this past weekend (we hope all went well for them). We may not post anything at all about it on Swingular because it’s pretty dead here.

We have been hosting under the radar for a couple years now and our parties are very successful, but are also very selective. We’ve always believed the pay for parties and even some of the bigger free events are way too hit and miss as far as couples we are interested in, so we began to host our own.

Our parties are FREE, require application and verification, and are very discreet in how we run them. Safety and privacy have been our main priorities and it’s only recently that word of mouth has been spreading (something we weren’t expecting). We’ve hosted these mainly for our friends in the past, with less than half of attendees being unknown to us, but lately it’s taken off more and more with newer couples as we’ve gotten increasingly bold with exposure.

We don’t post in the party or events sections of this website because anyone and everyone can “RSVP” to those lists. We will typically post in the “encounters” section here so we can screen effectively, and we don’t advertise every party we have. Swingular seems to house the much more skittish couples that have an issue with showing their faces for applying, and we absolutely don’t invite anyone anonymously. We very rarely get couples RSVPing from this site anyway… we really believe it’s dying a slow death.

Today (on other LS platforms) we decided to announce our private event venue “The Views” in an effort to discourage people we don’t know well from using our names when referencing our parties, and to keep people from confusing our events with another house party planner in the area that is relatively close to us. We’ve been confused with them before, and we want our reputation to stand on it’s own.

If anyone on Swingular has the confidence and believes they’re a sexy, attractive couple, and are interested in our selective events, feel free to message us. If you apply and are accepted you probably won’t regret it 😘

Please, no nastiness if you weren’t accepted in the past… we’re all adults here, and not one of you is required to meet up with people that you feel aren’t a fit for you… our FREE events on our property should be no different.
Thanks so much for some very detailed responses!
CPSWINGTIME wrote:

We hosted many House Parties a few years ago. We always limited to people we knew, also had a few Single guys, but a very select few. We made sure no couples had issues with the other couples. Kept them to about 5 couples, you can get too big. Our parties were fun, and everyone always asked to be invited again. Do the BYOB, and supply snacks. Plus plenty of room to play! Good luck!


We used to go to your house parties. They wet a lot of fun and I never had a bad experience when anyone