LOOKIN4FUN217 - got an IM from this person's ex-girlfriend saying that this is a guy and she found him out. His name is Dave Schuster HE WORKS AT PARKER REAL ESTATE IN LOGAN UTAH as told to me. They are not even pics of her and she has no idea who the girl is in the pics. He has however been using her name and info.
Would like to know how he got certified as the real deal while being a fake.
Who else knows of fake on here? I have heard Elektra is a guys as well and stole pics from a models site. Any truth? HOW DO THEY GET VALIDATED!?!?!? People, are you validating without meeting?
Would like to know how he got certified as the real deal while being a fake.
Who else knows of fake on here? I have heard Elektra is a guys as well and stole pics from a models site. Any truth? HOW DO THEY GET VALIDATED!?!?!? People, are you validating without meeting?
We also have been talking with her - or him, apparently.
Maybe the rules need to be adjusted - whoever certified this freak should have their certification priviliges taken away.
I also spoke with his ex-girlfriend - poor girl, she really has had a hard time with this. This guy gave out HER contact information - she was getting calls and texts from swingers, not knowing what was going on.
Hopefully, the admin will address this accordingly!
A&K
Maybe the rules need to be adjusted - whoever certified this freak should have their certification priviliges taken away.
I also spoke with his ex-girlfriend - poor girl, she really has had a hard time with this. This guy gave out HER contact information - she was getting calls and texts from swingers, not knowing what was going on.
Hopefully, the admin will address this accordingly!
A&K
I say STONE THE FAKE GUY!! STONE HIM!!!
Fakes on an internet website...no way. Between the people that are here looking for one specific thing (An attractive hot couple or the mysterious single girl), the ones who are just curious and want to see what happens we have yet to meet anyone after two years.
This is the same as our adventures at the local swing club (the only way we have sex with others) We see so many people that come out, usually a group of super attractive people who we never see naked or going to rooms for sex, we see people who are just there to watch and never play even though we invite them to join us as we're having sex in front of them or even next to them when we find those who do play, just not with others.
We try not to let it bother us, even though Im sure the tone of this post means it does. We enjoy the sexual adventures we get and just keep working on meeting new people.
This is the same as our adventures at the local swing club (the only way we have sex with others) We see so many people that come out, usually a group of super attractive people who we never see naked or going to rooms for sex, we see people who are just there to watch and never play even though we invite them to join us as we're having sex in front of them or even next to them when we find those who do play, just not with others.
We try not to let it bother us, even though Im sure the tone of this post means it does. We enjoy the sexual adventures we get and just keep working on meeting new people.
Ok, here is the plan, everybody that knows (and we all do) some fakes, we hook that up with LOOKIN4FUN217 and they start there own little group of guys playing Barbie and Robs sets up a special Spice Party charging about $50. per couple at any of the favorite gay clubs. We all can show but of couse will not be allowed in because we are real couples!
To address the question at hand...Simply turn the jerk into admin. It would seem that there are enough people who have interacted with this person and could give enough information to the admin for them to do something about him.
Now as for some of the ralities of this lifestyle..
We have been in the lifestyle for about 9 years, belong to about 7 clubs and you'll not find bunches of pictures of us getting it on with every Tom, Harry, Mary, Tweedlebox or Dick. Pictures are not much of an indication..... beyond what weight you wish to put on them. Sometimes they reveal personality...in a smile or a look. They tell you if thaat person or those persons are what you like and think you'll enjoy. There are a few people here who know me from other sites and know that we are not fakes... but we are also not validated here. Talking with people on the phone may work sometimes but until you meet people you never know who or what they really are. There are people in the lifestyle who are looking for a quick roll in the hay, a wham bam hope I didn't hurt you maam. Then there are people who wish to have fun with people that they get to know as people. Some call these people friends and some call them acquaintences. Friends first they say. Friends with benefits. Everyone is not, simply, hot, hard, and horney and having sex with anything that moves.... There are even those who would like to find people who they can have LTR and even closed groups.
The fakes are going to be there regardless and all we can do is use our gut feelings as to whether people are or are not real...Fake or Real... If they feel right give them a chance to show you who they are. If they don't feel right, don't go there.....
As an example of what we call common sense.. We were at a social a couple of weeks ago in the hospitality suite. This little, cute actually quite a beautiful little woman was there. when we walked into the room she was going down on another woman who was about 400 lbs...looked dirty and well you get the picture, I hope with out too many graphics. Then she turns to an equally unappealing man with growths all over his genitalia and goes down on him and the attempts to mount him.... He was quite small and that didn't work.... I walked out of the room for a moment and when I came back a fellow who was unshaven dirty looking, holding a beer in one hand and a hand around this little cutie's waist doing her from behind. Understand that there was no condom in sight and no clean up at all... The point of this is that I wouldn't nor would my wife touch this girl with someone elses body let alone ours... but there are those who would fuck a snake if someone held it's head.
The lifestyle is diverse and in the mix there are fakes are out there.
Now as for some of the ralities of this lifestyle..
We have been in the lifestyle for about 9 years, belong to about 7 clubs and you'll not find bunches of pictures of us getting it on with every Tom, Harry, Mary, Tweedlebox or Dick. Pictures are not much of an indication..... beyond what weight you wish to put on them. Sometimes they reveal personality...in a smile or a look. They tell you if thaat person or those persons are what you like and think you'll enjoy. There are a few people here who know me from other sites and know that we are not fakes... but we are also not validated here. Talking with people on the phone may work sometimes but until you meet people you never know who or what they really are. There are people in the lifestyle who are looking for a quick roll in the hay, a wham bam hope I didn't hurt you maam. Then there are people who wish to have fun with people that they get to know as people. Some call these people friends and some call them acquaintences. Friends first they say. Friends with benefits. Everyone is not, simply, hot, hard, and horney and having sex with anything that moves.... There are even those who would like to find people who they can have LTR and even closed groups.
The fakes are going to be there regardless and all we can do is use our gut feelings as to whether people are or are not real...Fake or Real... If they feel right give them a chance to show you who they are. If they don't feel right, don't go there.....
As an example of what we call common sense.. We were at a social a couple of weeks ago in the hospitality suite. This little, cute actually quite a beautiful little woman was there. when we walked into the room she was going down on another woman who was about 400 lbs...looked dirty and well you get the picture, I hope with out too many graphics. Then she turns to an equally unappealing man with growths all over his genitalia and goes down on him and the attempts to mount him.... He was quite small and that didn't work.... I walked out of the room for a moment and when I came back a fellow who was unshaven dirty looking, holding a beer in one hand and a hand around this little cutie's waist doing her from behind. Understand that there was no condom in sight and no clean up at all... The point of this is that I wouldn't nor would my wife touch this girl with someone elses body let alone ours... but there are those who would fuck a snake if someone held it's head.
The lifestyle is diverse and in the mix there are fakes are out there.
The question is not about fakes. The BIG question is how this individual got VALIDATED?!?!
I know the person that validated me met me face to face, as it should be. There are a bunch of people here at Swingular that could have validated me and I know each of their ethics. None of them would have validated a person they had not met.
Just my two cents.
I know the person that validated me met me face to face, as it should be. There are a bunch of people here at Swingular that could have validated me and I know each of their ethics. None of them would have validated a person they had not met.
Just my two cents.
Thanks MAVENX for bringing it back to the point....fakes exist yes we know that....but the real seal is supposed to limit that. So who is validating people without real knowledge of that person? I would love to know on this one specifically and Elektra as well for that matter.
Any body else know some posers on the site? lets list hem here as not to be duped.
ELEKTRA - Confirmed Bogus
Any body else know some posers on the site? lets list hem here as not to be duped.
ELEKTRA - Confirmed Bogus
This is definately a serious topic and I would like to remind those who have validation privileges to use your powers carefully. This is why we do not give validating rights to single men (no offense guys) as the system could be abused but this doesn't mean that someone who previously was certified as a couple could have broken up and now is certifying fake profiles for their benefit.
This is where you come into play. If you come across a suspicious profile, let us know and we will look into it. If we find someone abusing their validation privileges, we will revoke them and if it seems to be something done on purpose, we will remove them completely from the site per the terms and conditions.
We apologize to anyone who has come across such things but let me remind you again, the validation system is not 100% foolproof, it is just an extra way to help rid our site of fake profiles. Use caution and find other ways to prove the person you are talking to is who they say they are by utilizing ways such as webcam and talking on the phone.
Hope that helps....
Rob
This is where you come into play. If you come across a suspicious profile, let us know and we will look into it. If we find someone abusing their validation privileges, we will revoke them and if it seems to be something done on purpose, we will remove them completely from the site per the terms and conditions.
We apologize to anyone who has come across such things but let me remind you again, the validation system is not 100% foolproof, it is just an extra way to help rid our site of fake profiles. Use caution and find other ways to prove the person you are talking to is who they say they are by utilizing ways such as webcam and talking on the phone.
Hope that helps....
Rob
If we meet someone online that we like, or are attracted to or they seem like our type in some way whether they are validated or not we always chat alot with them before ever even plan to meet in person. When we meet with them in person we always meet in a public place that way if we feel it isnt right, or we are not comfortable then we can always leave and go home. This has worked for us so far and we have met quite a few couples on here that we have remained friends with because we try to become friends before we actually meet in person.
Chatting with them for awhile online also helps us with the gitters of meeting someone you dont really know.....because we have talked quite a bit with them before hand, we already feel like we know them so we arent really all the nervous its just like meeting friends for dinner.
You can weed out ones that you arent comfortable with just by chatting online with them for awhile.
Just our idea......it works for us~
Chatting with them for awhile online also helps us with the gitters of meeting someone you dont really know.....because we have talked quite a bit with them before hand, we already feel like we know them so we arent really all the nervous its just like meeting friends for dinner.
You can weed out ones that you arent comfortable with just by chatting online with them for awhile.
Just our idea......it works for us~
Thanks for your information to help us all CNKISS! Electra huh? Well they happen to be VIP type - Validated, so that is something the admin should be able to help clarify - right? Again thanks and if anyone else here runs into this type of situation we would all benefit from knowing about it and would love to be warned!
Have to agree with CNKISS - our main problem is that this person was certified as real, not that he is a fake. Hell a ton of people online now days are, who cares.
We are very similar to Stitch, in that we like to chat online first and see if we have similar interests. The Mrs. is the one who had been talking to this person and after the first time she thought something didn't quite fit. Obviously she was right..
You can take away his account and most likely he will come back. But people definately need to be more careful who they validate. We will only validate after we have personally met them. Both of them.
Mrs.
We are very similar to Stitch, in that we like to chat online first and see if we have similar interests. The Mrs. is the one who had been talking to this person and after the first time she thought something didn't quite fit. Obviously she was right..
You can take away his account and most likely he will come back. But people definately need to be more careful who they validate. We will only validate after we have personally met them. Both of them.
Mrs.
With a body like yours we can see why someone would want to use your pics out of all the postings we see it is Mrs. hunt you makes us cum back for more sure wish we lived closer. Who knows one day we may come to a ski slope near you if you want to meet us just say so nd our next ski trip to Colorado we will look you up.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
Speaking of validation, and this is most likely the wrong place but as we've met a few of you, could someone please validate us? LOL
You should not validate anyone if you have not met them on CAM or in person. We are VIP and can make people "REAL" and we've only done it with people we've met and or CAM