What are sone alternative sites that everyone is using, it’s seems this one is a sinking ship anymore….
Thank you!
Thank you!
I don’t know what will happen if I try to post any names for other sites but here goes: Kasidie, Feeld, SDC, Reddit and 3fun. So far not a lot of luck locally with SDC but a lot of out of state people use it. Kasidie is becoming more popular here and the setup is a better version of this one. Feeld is a crap shoot and is catered more to the poly/alternative crowd. The bigges waste of money so far has been 3fun. It’s buggy and resets your entire profile sometimes, including your subscription.
Hope this helps
Hope this helps
Hahaha! I knew it would delete some of them. K a s i d i e was the first one I listed and S D C was the third
Cabincpl wrote:
I don’t know what will happen if I try to post any names for other sites but here goes: Kasidie, Feeld, SDC, Reddit and 3fun. So far not a lot of luck locally with SDC but a lot of out of state people use it. Kasidie is becoming more popular here and the setup is a better version of this one. Feeld is a crap shoot and is catered more to the poly/alternative crowd. The bigges waste of money so far has been 3fun. It’s buggy and resets your entire profile sometimes, including your subscription.
Hope this helps
I second everything they said.
Most sites are regional based. S D C is southeast. S L S is a little more broad but a lame site overall. K A S I D I E is gaining popularity but it is Colorado, Vegas and south west. Risqué is another site locally but it's meh. Facebook groups are meh too! Keep hoping the admin will sell to us!
We mostly use SLS but home is back east. We use this when we are out in Utah during winter skiing.
Facebook groups seem to be own that a lot of people are moving towards. It's easier and free.
The most fun we had was a daybreak swingers Facebook group. Even that had its issues but, We're still bitter that it disappeared
We started with life style lounge. Seemed very Cali centric and full of picture collectors. We never met anyone through it, but got plenty of requests for more pictures via email or any way they could get them. We got tired of it and let our membership lapse.
We agree this site is becoming more useless by the day. The last worthwhile people we met here several years ago. It's become a sausagefest of posted "meet ups" and porn seekers in daily themed forums. Basically we login here about once per month to delete blind friend requests.
Swing life style is an antiquated site lacking in useful features, but unlike this one they let you know who's viewing your profile. The "blind date" feature is useful for posting travel dates in advance for planning purposes. It is popular in the northeast where we have a beach house. They also promote some LS travel, like Bliss cruises. We will be taking our first next April.
Kas idie also lets you know who's viewing your profile, has a flirt feature, and the ability to post a "rendezvous" well in advance across many days if you're traveling. Their chat works and they promote lots of LS events and travel. We've found their members the most sincere and willing to at least meet. Our friend list there spans the country. Unlike this site, validations are used quite frequently to lend credibility to your profile.
We won't use free sites or apps because of the volume of noise there. We use a pay site to ultimately meet sincere fun people who know what they want and can find the time. Nothing more. It's a shame there are so many other agendas by people misrepresenting themselves.
There is no one perfect platform and of course you often get out of one what you put into it. Our best to anyone truly making the effort to at least meet others. That's proven the best way to get invited to expand our circle through introductions to other genuine people.
We agree this site is becoming more useless by the day. The last worthwhile people we met here several years ago. It's become a sausagefest of posted "meet ups" and porn seekers in daily themed forums. Basically we login here about once per month to delete blind friend requests.
Swing life style is an antiquated site lacking in useful features, but unlike this one they let you know who's viewing your profile. The "blind date" feature is useful for posting travel dates in advance for planning purposes. It is popular in the northeast where we have a beach house. They also promote some LS travel, like Bliss cruises. We will be taking our first next April.
Kas idie also lets you know who's viewing your profile, has a flirt feature, and the ability to post a "rendezvous" well in advance across many days if you're traveling. Their chat works and they promote lots of LS events and travel. We've found their members the most sincere and willing to at least meet. Our friend list there spans the country. Unlike this site, validations are used quite frequently to lend credibility to your profile.
We won't use free sites or apps because of the volume of noise there. We use a pay site to ultimately meet sincere fun people who know what they want and can find the time. Nothing more. It's a shame there are so many other agendas by people misrepresenting themselves.
There is no one perfect platform and of course you often get out of one what you put into it. Our best to anyone truly making the effort to at least meet others. That's proven the best way to get invited to expand our circle through introductions to other genuine people.
We are enjoying the fb groups the most so far!
luscious_m wrote:
We are enjoying the fb groups the most so far!
How does one get into the FB groups?
Thanks!
Can you share more info!
wildchild62 wrote:Invite.luscious_m wrote:
We are enjoying the fb groups the most so far!
How does one get into the FB groups?
Thanks!
That's what we always wonder, it seems like you have to be an insider.
TIFFANYTWISTED wrote:Unfortunately that is the case initially.
That's what we always wonder, it seems like you have to be an insider.
seeing a lot more swingers popping up on fetlife of late
Utahldscouple wrote:
Most sites are regional based. S D C is southeast. S L S is a little more broad but a lame site overall. K A S I D I E is gaining popularity but it is Colorado, Vegas and south west. Risqué is another site locally but it's meh. Facebook groups are meh too! Keep hoping the admin will sell to us!
I think i'll have to try K A S I D I E. I never thought it would be so hard to meet someone in Las Vegas outside of the weekend. lol
I'm a developer and have thought about building one lately. I feel like I need more feedback/experience from others or someone like @utahldscouple before I did anything though. Definitely would want it to be well thought out.
SexyPowSkiers wrote:
We started with life style lounge. Seemed very Cali centric and full of picture collectors. We never met anyone through it, but got plenty of requests for more pictures via email or any way they could get them. We got tired of it and let our membership lapse.
We agree this site is becoming more useless by the day. The last worthwhile people we met here several years ago. It's become a sausagefest of posted "meet ups" and porn seekers in daily themed forums. Basically we login here about once per month to delete blind friend requests.
Swing life style is an antiquated site lacking in useful features, but unlike this one they let you know who's viewing your profile. The "blind date" feature is useful for posting travel dates in advance for planning purposes. It is popular in the northeast where we have a beach house. They also promote some LS travel, like Bliss cruises. We will be taking our first next April.
Kas idie also lets you know who's viewing your profile, has a flirt feature, and the ability to post a "rendezvous" well in advance across many days if you're traveling. Their chat works and they promote lots of LS events and travel. We've found their members the most sincere and willing to at least meet. Our friend list there spans the country. Unlike this site, validations are used quite frequently to lend credibility to your profile.
We won't use free sites or apps because of the volume of noise there. We use a pay site to ultimately meet sincere fun people who know what they want and can find the time. Nothing more. It's a shame there are so many other agendas by people misrepresenting themselves.
There is no one perfect platform and of course you often get out of one what you put into it. Our best to anyone truly making the effort to at least meet others. That's proven the best way to get invited to expand our circle through introductions to other genuine people.
Great summary! We've met more people on SLS than on any other site including this one. This site has been hit or miss for meeting people - we like the forums when they are active.
We travel a lot . . . and have found SLS more useful in announcing our travel plans and having people reach out pursuant to those plans. Having said that . . . they are the most ornery site out there - you can't make ANY changes to your profile name . . . and they are religious about their rules. One other feature we LOVE about this site is there is a quick summary we find VERY useful. The summary includes the age range you are interested in (what a novel and brilliant idea) and also a quick 'at a glance' description of Full vs Soft and whether you are looking for couples, males, or females . . . the summary feature makes this site the most useful in our minds.
The Kasid.... site is the most user-friendly (as has already been noted), but we have yet to meet anyone from it . . .YMMV, but that has been our experience thus far.
SDC has been moderately useful - good access to LS related travel, etc. We did meet a few couples on there on our recent trip to Europe . . . it probably has the widest circulation worldwide if that matters to you.
Hope that helps.
Hi guys,
We feel you! We have traveled to Vegas for years and really never had any luck playing. Don’t get us wrong we met a lot of cool people however, the attraction was not there!
We really enjoyed meeting new couples but it’s not always easy to lineup with, schedules, kids, work, attraction and day to day life.
Anyway, if you guys want to chat let us know.
Thanks and stay safe!
We feel you! We have traveled to Vegas for years and really never had any luck playing. Don’t get us wrong we met a lot of cool people however, the attraction was not there!
We really enjoyed meeting new couples but it’s not always easy to lineup with, schedules, kids, work, attraction and day to day life.
Anyway, if you guys want to chat let us know.
Thanks and stay safe!
This is a decent one that has some great couples in it.
https://m.facebook.com/groups/306467278701233/?ref=share&mibextid=hubsqH
https://m.facebook.com/groups/306467278701233/?ref=share&mibextid=hubsqH