So was gonna reply on another section but it got deleted we ate looking to make some great friends, but I also gotta say cause it's been a big issue lately we have little kids so we gotta plan last minute hardly ever will work with us, and we like to meet first grab food or drink or something. If we vibe then sex is def possible but we hate going into a situation with expectations and lately alot of people are getting butt hurt by that. We do play but only if flows that way
We don’t have little kids anymore, but we’re the same. We like to go out of drinks or dinner first and if the vibe is good we’re open to more! But we also like to plan something and not just last minute!
We also like to meet for drinks and or dinner. It is harder when we meet another couple, rather than a single male. We never go in with the expectation of hitting it off right away. It was hard when we had little ones at home. A lit mire planning goes into place.
We totally agree with what you are saying. We have kids, and a little planning goes a long way. We going in with no expectations of anything happening. Not to say we have never played first date, but we have to hit it off for that.