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Random thoughts.

1. My inbox seems to go in waves. This morning I woke up and had a flood of messages and friend requests. I wonder why. I didn’t post anything. This happens every so often.

2. On more than one occasion, a couple will reach out, and something about their inquiry sparks an interest that I would like to explore, however, I am unable to reply because of their filter (no single men). You would think the site would allow a reply if the person instigated conversation, regardless of their set filters. So… if you are reading this, and reached out, but received no reply. Check your filters and try again.

3. I enjoy reading some of the forums. Has anyone else noticed the following.
A. There are a few people (typically the same people) who always respond criticizing or shaming others on the thread. Everyone has their mission I suppose.
B. A few single guys post graphic images of women. Though I appreciate the eye candy, I wonder if this helps them in their quest, or if it’s simply the need to want to be involved in the discussion.
C. In the “Encounters” and “Booty Call” sections, there is a rotation among the select same few posters. Are these sections effective? I assume yes, as the same users use them frequently.

None of these observations are intended to be trolling or mean spirited. If it reads that way, please know my intention is not that. Anyway, happy hunting. Thanks for reading my long winded thoughts.
Defiantstranger wrote:

Random thoughts.
3. I enjoy reading some of the forums. Has anyone else noticed the following.
A. There are a few people (typically the same people) who always respond criticizing or shaming others on the thread. Everyone has their mission I suppose.
B. A few single guys post graphic images of women. Though I appreciate the eye candy, I wonder if this helps them in their quest, or if it’s simply the need to want to be involved in the discussion.
C. In the “Encounters” and “Booty Call” sections, there is a rotation among the select same few posters. Are these sections effective? I assume yes, as the same users use them frequently.

A. Yes and we think most people have figured it out who they are and ignore mostly what they say. Unfortunately, new people don't and sometimes get drawn into their "Entertainment" web.
B. We agree with this and wonder the same thing. This is the reason we don't let single men take pictures. Consent extends beyond the physical contact.
C. This is the philosophy of try as many options as you possible can! We personally think that single males shouldn't be allowed to post (no we aren't single male bashers by any means). It just seems that most of the posters are single males. If couples are looking for single males they should post and let the single males respond. If a single female is looking they can post and let the single male respond. We don't respond to single males posting, typically if we need/want them we are able to find them. Just our experience.


And to reiterate, nothing we are saying is meant to be mean spirited or trolling as well! Just honest open discussion.
The LS is way different here, it’s like a dating process instead of being fun. Don’t get me wrong we like to establish a certain friendship so everyone is more comfortable and the experience can be that much better. It’s seems there are a lot of talkers and a lot less doers…

We unfortunately had to block single men because of the over bombardment of cock shots…not one was impressive to my wife or I we are both medical. You gotta bring something other than what you think is a special dick, I have that completely covered.

We don’t get the bashing but there are a ton of the people who think they are special on this site and here in Utah and turn there nose up at everyone who doesn’t meet there so call standards…we refer to the as the snobbery pretty people…
Bi gets all the love. Lucky you.
Interesting! I like the tempo of everyone comments. Enjoy reading as they all are showing respect. That is so wonderful. KUDOS.

If anything this site can do is enhanced the chat. Is a way one can connect, but is horrible human interface.
I’ve wondered about permissions given too. I’m also skeptical of those single men, who consistently post images of women (phenomenal looking women), actually even know these women. I assume they found the images online.