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It seems like porn glorifies fast hard fucking. But I find slow penetration much more satisfying. You know, the kind where you can hear every breath, are in control of every motion, see every muscle flex, and feel every pulse between you and your partner as you cum together. That kind. I would love to hear others thoughts and experiences on the topic. Which speed do you enjoy more?
Deep
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Why does it have to be or? How about and and other speeds too
Depth aside (which we all love), assume you still have all the situational and sexual variety you have now. Would you or your partner enjoy slow and sensual (by slow I mean steady) or fast and hard?
DOGWATER wrote:

Why does it have to be or? How about and and other speeds too


Of course we all want both. It’s just a fun thought exercise if you had to choose.
The question may be easy to ask, but it's indeed difficult to provide a definitive answer. That's precisely why effective communication is crucial, and it's not limited to verbal means alone. Sometimes, non-verbal forms of communication, such as rhythms, gyration, and other movements, can effectively convey messages. 😅
I forgot to mention that it is essential to (P)rioritize consent, comfort, and mutual satisfaction. The P needed to be in caps. Lol
I like to have a good combination of deep, slow and fast!
That sounds like passionate love. Not a wing, bang, boom.
Slow, sensual, teasing, touching and tasting.
😇
LustInSaltLake wrote:

Slow, sensual, teasing, touching and tasting.
😇


Yes very much. Edging is an art and the wife loves it
Mostly depends on my mood - sometimes fast and hard is what I’m craving the most, but I must admit that slow and sensual tends to give me the most intense orgasms.
Long, slow, sensual build up and edging until she has her first release, then deep and rhythmic for a couple more and finishing with deep, hard and fast until a final climax wipes her out. With luck I can cum with her during the final one. Perfection.
Slow & deep slowly working up to hard & deep…with just a little faster with a nice firm grip on the hips!

Just sayin!

A few good slaps across the ass also!
UtahGunner wrote:

I think both have their time and can be great. Just depends on the situation and what she wants.
Drawn2Adventure wrote:

Slow & deep slowly working up to hard & deep…with just a little faster with a nice firm grip on the hips!
Just sayin!
A few good slaps across the ass also!

That is one sexy image right there.


That’s was the she (me) who wrote that!
We make the rules! Lol
Drawn2Adventure wrote:

Slow & deep slowly working up to hard & deep…with just a little faster with a nice firm grip on the hips!
Just sayin!
A few good slaps across the ass also!


Fully agree! Who doesn't love a nice, slow, and deep rhythm while holding the hips and setting the vibe...♥️
Both are nice. Some of the best sex I've had was slow sneaky sex. In someone else's rv so we went very slow