I’m having a hard time finding a real bi couple to play with. Seems everyone is not serious or they are too far away.
Give it time, reach out, and be available. It will happen in time. This whole thing has a waxing and waning cycle.
I'm only bi-curious but my wife is bi
We are both bi and very oral along with……….
I'm trans and the system has me as single male. I am Bi, but for me there is no place to state I'm if I want the Trans to show up.... There are may Bi couples out there and most the men are too afraid that they are Bi until they are alone with you and their true selves come out to play...
RedBull...
If I can, to potentially possibly sideline your conversation, in an effort to eventually circle back around (to even maybe just reach around?) to your initial comment/frustration...
How has your luck been at all in the few years you've been here (at least in the bi regard)?
Wife and I recently joined, but our approach is one that's very, very atypical from what I imagine things normally would be. I am familiar with the swinging lifestyle, but only in the last few years have I become more and more curious about bringing another man pleasure. My wife, on the other hand, is not familiar with this world and she's very reluctant as even in general her desire levels have always been low (her entire life).
So her approach is for me to find a bi guy that I like having fun with, and then maybe she will be ok with joining in on the fun.
I've tried Grindr for the last two years off and on, but the constant onslaught of "u want suk dik?" followed by unsolicited dick picks (don't get me wrong, I appreciate a nice looking cock, but for Christ's sake, don't lead the conversation with six of them) and many member's inability to be able to hold even a simple conversation has led me away from there. I need to feel some level of connection with someone before I trust them to touch me. Trauma in my childhood makes it difficult for me to trust "typical" men especially without even a modicum of intelligence shown.
So here we are on Swingular. Where I find a most couple's profiles with bi gals, but straight dudes. That, of course, is to be expected, especially here in UT. But, I'm wondering what the right approach might be.
In this, I wonder if we're even in the right place, or if I'm even going to have any success at all considering the joy that comes with being an outlier in the 85% LDS Utah county...
I want to explore. I want to just try to give a dude an orgasm without any concern for him to return the favor. Though if he wanted to, I certainly wouldn't argue. But, I'm very new to this world and really am not sure how to fully proceed within this repressive state we live in...
So, I posit a question back to you.. How have you found success in being a bi guy here in UT and, if so, what have you found that's worked for you at some level?
If I can, to potentially possibly sideline your conversation, in an effort to eventually circle back around (to even maybe just reach around?) to your initial comment/frustration...
How has your luck been at all in the few years you've been here (at least in the bi regard)?
Wife and I recently joined, but our approach is one that's very, very atypical from what I imagine things normally would be. I am familiar with the swinging lifestyle, but only in the last few years have I become more and more curious about bringing another man pleasure. My wife, on the other hand, is not familiar with this world and she's very reluctant as even in general her desire levels have always been low (her entire life).
So her approach is for me to find a bi guy that I like having fun with, and then maybe she will be ok with joining in on the fun.
I've tried Grindr for the last two years off and on, but the constant onslaught of "u want suk dik?" followed by unsolicited dick picks (don't get me wrong, I appreciate a nice looking cock, but for Christ's sake, don't lead the conversation with six of them) and many member's inability to be able to hold even a simple conversation has led me away from there. I need to feel some level of connection with someone before I trust them to touch me. Trauma in my childhood makes it difficult for me to trust "typical" men especially without even a modicum of intelligence shown.
So here we are on Swingular. Where I find a most couple's profiles with bi gals, but straight dudes. That, of course, is to be expected, especially here in UT. But, I'm wondering what the right approach might be.
In this, I wonder if we're even in the right place, or if I'm even going to have any success at all considering the joy that comes with being an outlier in the 85% LDS Utah county...
I want to explore. I want to just try to give a dude an orgasm without any concern for him to return the favor. Though if he wanted to, I certainly wouldn't argue. But, I'm very new to this world and really am not sure how to fully proceed within this repressive state we live in...
So, I posit a question back to you.. How have you found success in being a bi guy here in UT and, if so, what have you found that's worked for you at some level?
We are bi and would love to chat or meet, you are sexy…….very sexy 👅